I'm a singer (who recently had the honor of performing at Carnegie Hall). A twin brother. A weight-lifter. A secret fat-kid. A lawyer. A lover of good bourbon. A Trader Joe's devotee. A TV junkie. A nerd. A poker player (which is not the same thing as being a gambler).
Above all, I'm a gentleman. I believe in always paying for the first date, opening doors, and sending a text just to make sure someone got home safe and sound. Plus, I totally have a horse and carriage on retainer for those epic first dates where I'm trying too hard.
Also, I'll take wit and sarcasm over plain vanilla nice. As far as I'm concerned, laughter and witty banter are the soul of a solid relationship (though hopefully you're also nice).