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  • Ages 20–29
  • Near me
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  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Science / Engineering
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Croatian (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATED: 30.06.2015. (updated part is between ** symbols)

Hello everyone! :). Profile is for girls (or women who feel like that) located (almost) everywhere! Limited time only and in limited quantity! But wait! Thats not all! There's more! If you're the quickest of them all and you pass all the traps and tests - you win free dancing lessons! You know, among silver kitchen set of knives, terabytes of movies & series, martial arts sparring partner, 1+1 hair shampoo's and so on :D ;).

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"If feelings could be seen like an image floating around us, maybe we wouldnt jump so much to conclusions about someone... We might even learn a thing about ourself...

If harsh words could be felt like a pain on the skin of a talker, maybe there would be more inteligent replies instead of childish, mainstream & programmed bickering...

If there could only be more will power in everyone, imagine how many more things could be done faster and easier... No stress, no worry, no hurry...

Instead, we are trading our own will power for an imaginary paper we call money, imagining a pill will make us muscles, burn fat and make us healty and if we ask nicely imaginary friend in the skies to do things instead of us or to release us from responsibilities, that everything will be just peachy......... It wont... Things never ever turned that way... Never. Ever. Anywhere...

Yet people still expect that, and wonder why it doesnt happen...

I know I am odd one, but better odd one than a tricked, broken or evil one..."

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SUPERSHORT PROFILE:

(if you are honestly interested in me and want to contact or meet me one day for real, you should at least read "short-ish" version)

Me:

- Loyal. Straight. Monogamus. Honest. Direct. Practical. Do-er. Thinker. Planner. Sporty. Geeky. Classy. Modern. Resoruceful. Determined. Active and lazy. A friend first. Something more - if there is mutual attraction, mental and physical... I can say without hesitation that I am a good person (but that doesnt mean you can say/do whatever you want to me and go away). 90-95% happy about myself and who I am (once I remove classic things wich are bugging anyone who lives in this civilisation)... Sure I have my faults (as we all do) and I cannot treat everything and everyone the same way, but I can change some decisions and things - IF they are worth it... and if for some reason I cant - I can make it up in other areas, aboundantly ;). I may sound harsh, dominant and so on, but I really am not like that in person, I like balance, mutual respect, fair game, moral, logic and yes, I do have feelings, but they are reserved for those who proove themself worthy... I sound like this because I want you to know I will not be your toy, your punching bag, your pillow for yelling and swearing... I can be moral support, a sholder for crying, listener, advicer, helper... but beeing there for someone to use me? Nope... I just want to scare/drive away specific kind of people because we wont be compatible no matter how hard you want it and that you'll do anything, and no matter how highly you think about yourself and now thinking in yourself "oh god, another one full of himself, let me send him a message pointing him something in his profile is poking my eye"... Dont, just go away... You will save us both time and electricity bill... Anyway... Just be friendly, open, have a sense of timing things, words and so on... I'm always trying to do what is best or as best as I can. I can apologise if I'm wrong. I can be nice and I wont gloat if I was right. I am focusing on the progress, not on enjoying bickering until we both go mad. Mutual respect above everything else, from the day we start to talk, to the day one of us dies... Thats me. Never agreeing to something unmoral, unfair, suspicious, high-risk involved or on "one-night" adventures... Never did. Never will. I am reacting and responding based on your attitude, deeds and generaly how I get the feeling about someone. So have some strong idea what do you want from yourself in life and what do you do on this page, because I am not here to collect likes on photos, profile text or just to chat for one day and then move on on the next "target"...

You:

- Good person. Complete in head. Loyal. Straight. MONOGAMUS. Honest. Inteligent. Thinker. Planner. Sporty. Geeky. Classy. Modern. Resourceful. Determined. Active and lazy. Happy with yourself. Taking care of yourself. Physically and mentaly. No secrets, no manipulators, no "lost in translation", no mentaly problematic ones, no party/clubbing 0-24/7days a week type of people, no ciggarets, alcohol, tons of tattoo's & piercings, no CHEATING, no thinking about cheating, no carrier/politics/religon/cults/western medicine fanatics... If you honestly think something on this profile is too much phatetic (pictures or text) or big repulsive clishe - then by all means, you are free to go away... I am not interested in someone who has problem in seeing/hearing/thinking any topic you can think of... If my pictures bother you, if you do not like your own name and insist on a nick name, if you have drinking issue and then telling others they are immature, if you are secretlly bi/gay/trans/questioning your orientation - you are not the one who I search... Be complete person in head, be your own person in head, love your body how it is. Be free from judging someone before you meet him, talk to him, type to him... be strong, fair, have your "womanly ways"... Do not act like a guy to attract a guy... Be a woman... But dont be a fragile princess, neither extreme is good... be a whole package you are supposed to be... And you will get the whole package you are supposed to get...
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SHORT-ISH PROFILE:

First - take your time. I know the profile is long and its not written for everyone's taste. Being here long time now and seeing almost all kind of crazy (and good) people, this aproach works the best. It will show me do you have what I search for... the seriousness and inner child, creativity, tolerance, stamina.... could there be the click, the wow factor, the zing! ... I wont ask you did you read it all, its not written for that but for you to decide am I someone you could talk to and have fun doing it. (You do not have to ask me isnt this too much of the text, there should be some mistery blah blah. If you want mistery - go watch a movie. I want to know am I dealing with serial killer or just mentaly unbalanced person - in advance :P)... So, its for you to find out am I worthy and crazy enough :P and for me to find out something about you when/if you contact me ;).

The downside? You will need about 15-20 min to complete it. I know... nuts... Take pauses if you want, it even makes me tired :D. It is one time only & intentionaly written that way. So I can see do you have concentration longer than 3 min when talking about one topic and do you operate only in robotic "yes/no/maybe/I dont know" way... That constant robotic type of answers send wrong vibe... Yes I can give short answers, but the difference is - when needed...

The up side? Almost no confusion and "I didnt knew you were like that" moments... You dont want that, I dont want that... You get basic intro in most of important parts of me. And no, you wont be knowing everything about me. This is just first layer of who I am, the 1% of my life. For the rest, you will need to ask right questions and not only in virtual world but in real too. Dont worry, it doesnt mean tommorow, this weekend or if you are soooo scared, it doesnt need to mean this month either, but if you expect someone to wait that long - you better have your best cards (mind) prepared for that kind of long game... Cause I am a very good player and can sense imidiately if something is wrong. Dont cheat, dont lie, dont manipulate... Be fair, be open, be a friend... and you will get equal, and perhaps, maybe even more than that ;).

As I might sound too serious in some parts, I try to hold it interesting and funny in general. I can make exeptions - but it depends. If you just want to chat only to make your time pass faster or you want something for just one night - dont bother, I'm not interested in casual one time only chit-chat or unmoral offers. If you're planning on contacting me just for trolling and kidding me (without wanting anything longer than a day), you wont have a nice time, that is almost certain. I have detector for that kind of people. Only good, cheerful and comunicative people have a chance here...

And also, if you do not have anything in your profile, no pic and not even some text - do you think truly interesting guy will decide to throw a message at any blank profile just in case? At least write something if you do not want to put picture, I wont nag about the pic right away if everything else clicks because it doesnt matter to me if you are the hottest thing alive but braindead/sheeple... I am not a guy who goes around and sends copy-paste mass messages to anyone in desparation. Just to selected few who were interesting enough. I first read your summary, answers to the questions and then look at the photos. If you want to stand out somehow - show all of your good sides and quirks... They are also cute ;)...

Second - I know I'm now probably searching for something that doesnt exist anymore, or its in such minority that I might end up alone - and thats okay, I'm prepared for that. Better alone than with someone wrong... And I know it sounds like I am full of myself, but thats just experience talking... experience dealing with toooo much bullshit for too long...

I know this text and pics look and sound very scattered, all over the place, but that's just because I learned/experienced alot of things in life and I want to show everything I can do, that my time on this planet is not spent on pubs and betting in local gambling house... Thats the downside in explaining everything in one single text - it looks like scattered brainthoughts... But then again, it would take us weeks or maybe even a month to get to all of this topics... I know many people dont like to get everything on the plate, but I highly doubt that majority thiese days has concentration to stay around for a month to find out am I good, bad, ugly or cute, evil, nuts, saint or satan, rainbow or light warrior (the things I've heard about and from people over the years, you wouldnt believe)... So there, thats yet one more reason why the text is this long...

I dont care if someone thinks something is impossible or that my criteria are too high. I see how people treat each other thiese days and it is... unbelievable... Cant believe that this society today is called normal... My criteria here are at their BASIC level of a sane, rational and emotionaly healty human being (who obviously got on this planet by mistake, lol)...

I think the way I try to live is far more moral, fair and nicer than that of majority where manipulating, lying, cheating, beating & insulting and so on, are taken as normal communication and relationship skills... I try to be as fair, moral and rational as possible. Sometimes I go way out of my comfort and conventional ways of helping someone - but I do that ONLY for people who I judge they need it and deserve it, and I do not regret that... Who deserves something - gets something. Who not - will not, and so on...

I know I am not perfect, (no one is) I have my own quirks, silly ways of looking or doing some things... But nothing seriously questionable or repulsive... And dont worry, I am not so much strict and formal when I'm talking "one on one" ;).

I am very open, very friendly and I just react based on how you react and behave. If you're nice - I'm nice... If you're not (and you cross the line) - I wont be either... I like being nice and help if I can, but I'm not letting anyone to think they can constantly use me as a tool or a punching bag... I like to be active, proactive, but I also have my lazy days... So, I'm really just like any average guy you see on the street, with somewhat different mentality, and I could say little more developed character than majority... If I exist with this specific mindset - so it should at least one more of us... Nature and universe never do something in just one copy.

I know why I wroted this profile in such tone and dont need others to correct me on their vision of a right path. I know I am not perfect and if I make mistake - I try to correct it, or myself (IF needed)... But there will always be some people who are not satisfied no matter how good someone or something is - so to them I have to say that text will sometimes sound very irritating and so on - and that was INTENTIONAL :P. To remove people who couldnt understand me even if they got instructions manual :P. (not that I'm so complicated, I really am not, but in sense that some people lack basic reasoning skills so badly, its a miracle they survived this far without beeing shot, cut, scalped, hanged, run down, poisoned or infected)

I am not trying to present myself like the some perfect untouchable guy. If you have basics wich I search in a person and if you are interested in me AND I find you interesting too - you can find out EVERYTHING you want, just ask. If not, and if you are here just for the day because of boredom - then there is no point in starting anything, isnt it?

So, if you are willing to listen, give me a fair chance, and if you are in search for that special someone too (or just a good friend for a start, I am not forcing anything) - then please, continue...

(lol, like someone didnt get my character profile from this intro xD... but there, if someone wants to dig deeper, here are 9 topics... And trust me, if you think this is too much and that we wont have anything to talk about, dont judge me too quickly... this is just SOME summary of things I know and wich I experienced, to show things I love, value, dislike, my atitudes, events and wishes in my life and future... Sooo, the plus side - you wont be feeling bored with me, ever ;). Minus side - dunno, if you dont like it, you can go freely. You wont be stucked with me. Simple, no one gets hurt, no hard feelings, life goes on... Run while you still can! :P)

FULL PROFILE:

Summary: (use CTRL+F for searching/jumping to the topic)

1. Who and what am I
2. Different? How?
3. So, am I just another stereotype?
4. What I dont like?
5. What do I cherish?
6. Who do I search?
7. What am I looking for?
8. Hm, what else...
9. The End

- Hmm, lets see. Few words summary - alien, hybrid, unique & classy at the same time. Up next - billion words summary! :) (yep - I can talk alot if the right person talks/types to me - but I can also be quiet and "normal", depending on situation, and you ;).

1. Who and what am I:

- Hmmm. Guess it wouldnt be far from the truth if I said that I sometime feel like I am alien from another planet. I always felt differently ever since I become aware of myself. Decades passed and I almost forgot all about that feeling because of this society, its crazy rules, questionable ethical standards and the rest of preety much brainless things from wich I deffended myself (and learned about everything - by myself) as best as I could...

But okay, as simply and "mainstream" as I can say - I guess I'm just a "beta-male", with positive characteristics of an alpha. ALWAYS striving for the best, always wanting to be the best, protecting myself, those who I love and care for and everyone who need/deserve protection. Upgrading myself, teaching myself, caring for myself. But with none of classical egoism or selfish characteristics, fake pride, over-the-top behaviour, football-betting-relligion-politics-steroid-muscles-cars-getting-laid-smoke-drink-gamble circus. I dont see anything attractive in that kind of behaviour, that alpha-ass behaveour is repulsive to me. It may look like I write in "full of myself" way, but remmember, years and years of listening all kinds of crazy people does take its tool on normal person too... There comes the times when you say "fuck it, what's enough is enough' its all or nothing..."

- Bit of a geeky, bit of a sporty, bit of a romantic soul. Trying to incorporate everything what I like into myself and to be better today than I was yesterday...

- For some people I may ask a lot (in this age where stupids rule, everything is a lot), but I give a lot too and dont ask for too much. I do not call and nag jelously every 60 seconds where is who, why, what, this that... I dont change my mind about some decisions unlike majority... I dont ask for others to do my work or clean up for me... I ask for at least a basic in everything life offers, basics in "people skills", surviving skills (modern and old), creativity, practicality, moral, logic, kindness and that you understand what true friendship and love is - without "oh that is soooo clishe"... Yes - it is, but obviously we both are here for that ;)...

- So basicly - I ask for a mentaly developed person. I also value inner child wich every person has, I wont act that I am super-duper grown up, no one is... but if you do not know about discipline and selfcontrol in specific times, that undeveloped persona in you makes you do things wich are not desirable to sane person.

DO NOT MEASURE YOURSELF BY MY WORDS, my profile, pictures, my talents, hobbies or anything else. You alone know are you ready for something, are you good enough for someone (there are times when you can ask yourself that question) AND more importantly - is someone good enough for you. Have your own measure of self-worth as well of others. It makes you strong, independent character, without beeing full of yourself - thats a trait wich I value highly.

- If you do not recognise yourself in this and if you cannot determine in yourself are you willing, ready, good person and so on, then I'm sorry. We probbably wouldnt have enough things in common. And I doubt you want to spend your time on something wich has no future... Decide carefuly. I do not start anything with a person from wich I sense strong negative vibe or high unsecurity in themself. But if you know what I am talking about and you understood and grew past that looooooong time ago (or you are on a way to complete that "mission") - we might get along great ;).

- So, if you stay around long enough, you should recognise that harsh tone of text is just a temporary filter for those who do not interest me. Crazyness part - lol, well, that will stay around :D. I decided to "go all in", release the "break", ask for everything or nothing and wait to see if someone relatively normal would sign up. And I am now widing my search to any country, since I still dont have luck in mine... My people have priority, but that decision is now on the countdown... Dont worry, countdown started from a veeeery high number ;). I have time, I'm not desperate, not superfiscial and unmoral offers do not interest me at all. Really, not at all... My fun time is somewhat different than from other people...


2. Different? How? (oh boy, here he goes... xD)

- I know how to dance, but I know how to repair PC too. I know how to draw with hand and calculate sqares and cube roots of 2-3-4-5-6-7-digit numbers, in head, in 10 seconds - but I am not autistic, antisocial or defective in any sense (okay, maybe a little xD but not in a seriously ill way), I just enjoy learning the stuff other people dont want or dont believe possible. I love sport and martial arts, but I love video and card games too. I love to bicycle and would like to have some company in that but there are days where I just like to lie down and watch dvds, also prefered in duet if possible ;). I love almost any kind of music, (exept folk/cajke/traditional/religious ones) but rock, various indie covers and trance are my favorites - with chillout, lounge, ambiental, jazz, classical, anything with rythm or piano, violine, saxophone and guitar (sometimes even something like industrial/progressive or just chiptunes ;).

- I love animal and plant life, but the more I am alive, the less I can say the same about my own species. Sometimes I think this really cant be my real home planet. So, if you do not like animals, plants and kids (yes I said kids, that doesnt mean tommorow but it means you must be able to think and talk about the topic, otherwise) we wont surrvive past first day of talking. If you can talk and think about it - I write a big "+" in my imaginary notebook ;).

- I love horse riding, playing with dogs, cats, basicly anything wich has higher inteligence. I know 2D/3D CAD/CAM computer modeling in industrial and entertainment softwares (didnt do that along time now, but I can remmember it fast - so if you know someone who offers a job in this field of work for people anywhere in the world - send message ASAP!), audio/video/photography editing is also easy thing for me, I know WEB design with HTML & CSS and even some PHP & SQL but it drains much energy doing that - and boss never ever wants to know what pain you had to go through to make the code work - he just wants to see the nice picture here, button there... as*h*le... xD. I play guitar for the last 15 years but I would really like to learn a piano, saxophone and violine (but, you know, money, runs and ruins life we all want and/or need. And TIME, day should definitly have 36h minimum). I love Nikola Tesla's work (and Mark Twain starts to interest me, since they were close and best friends back then). I am working on something simmilar like Nikola did (but thats secret for now, hints are in albums ;), and I would like to work with something simmilar for a job one day. Here in „Croatistan“, days of employment and need for people with brains are finished for the next 25-50 years, so I am thinking about relocating (THINKING, not planning, but that option remains open)...

- I just need basics, food, shelter, fair payment (and someone normal next to me, to teach me how to truly relax, and to make me fat again xD... well okay, not too fat xD)... Ill find/do/manage all the rest...

- I find joy, peace and growth in little things like just looking, listening, sensing someone I love or doing something I like, like nature, music, sport.... I rarely need something material to make me happy. If I must name something like that, I would say - something creative what I like to make by hands, or do, bicycling, drawing, playing instruments, helping someone, something wich can make someone happy, or a hug... Not regular hug, a real long sincere hug from the person I care about... Exept that, I need to be creative, proactive, to learn new things, to make a difference while I'm alive (not to impress others, for myself), and if possible, to do all that with someone special...

- I know it sounds like a clishe, but I dont care anymore, I dont have "manly ego trips" and I am entirely comfortable with alot of things other "males" are not... I do not talk to my male friends about "how she was good in bed" and such private things (because I do not have alot of male friends)... I do not go out with them to hang out in barr and drink because I dont have anything else to do in life... My life started in a way wich was not "all cute and purple unicorns" and stuff... Lets just say that hospitals and doctors are not my "fetish" anymore. (Not so much problem in them or that I just dislike them, but in their operating ways and their mentality... Its stone age, not 21.st century... I could say the same about politics and religion, but I would digress too far from the topic). 'Had to learn some hard things at early years and that had impact on me in such way that I sound much older and serious than most of people my age - but dont worry, I am not "broken", "a can", conservative and disfunctional... I can have fun and be crazy as everyone else - but - beeing responsible along the way. This is what I search... Someone who understands and can share that and everything else with me... And if it happens that someone like that lives a great distance away, ok, what do we have to loose if we try? If it "clicks" I am willing to give my best and make it count, relocation is option - BUT, for now I am not in that position. It is fair to say that in advance, not later (as some people do not think that far, because they think its not important)... So, people from my city have advantage, for now.


3. So, am I just another stereotype?

- Hmmm... You decide :). I dont drink alcohol (rarely ever, no point since it does not affect me, I can try to drink something sweet and so on, but rarely more than one glass since I does not affect me that much or because I just dislike the taste. There are some snobish things like vine, some sweet liquers, honey moonshine but again - nothing on "wow" scale. Fresh forrest spring water is on my wow scale ;). I've never been drunk (even when others tried to get me drunk, they ended up hugging street lights and grass xD), and I'm not looking for someone who likes to get "smashed" and then drink a little of water - just to suprise their liver. I dont smoke ciggarets, at all, and I'm not looking for someone who does 2 packs per day or "just one small per day" or "just one with coffie", that seriously sounds like weak character - BUT, quitters are always welcome ;). (sorry but since I look for someone on the long run - I dont know anyone who would like to attach to someone who is making themself ill or signing a death sentence in 2-3-5-10-20 years. YES, I do think about that in advance. And you know that too). I dont gamble, drug or take pills for anything - not even for a massive headache (because it does more damage than good), I dont do bussines with mafia, yakuza, politics, religion or west medicine (unless absolutly necessary for the ladder of two). I am not saint, I have my lazy days and my own guilty pleasures, but they are not hurting others or me in progress. I learned (and I'm still learning) how to take care of my body and mind. Not giving it into someone's other hands and expect they will know whats best for everyone... I have this body, I am my mind. No one else can understand that better than me, no one understands your body better than you, no matter how much college degree's he/she had.

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- I do not celebrate holidays... Weather they are national or religious... I use that time to progress, to learn something, to rest without stressing myself like others do, or get fat, lazy and so on... Alot of factors influenced that decision (wich isnt so strict as it sound) but I just dont see anything really worth celebrating... Look at it like this: omg its a new year! happy new year!!!.... next year: omg Its a new year! happy new yearI... year after that: omg its a new year! happy new year!!! Do you see a pattern? What just happend? The same goes for celerating or listening a political or religious speech. The same, every day for entire year - until next year, and then again... round and around... Doesnt that sound "a bit" like a neurolinguistic subliminal crap? I know what would be worth celebrating, (Im not so conservative and partypooper :P), but it is too private for the public... Most of people wouldnt understand even if I explained it even more detailed and deeper... Its just too much piloshopy for them... brain hurts, lol...
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- My measure of someones intelligence and therefore compatibility is not how old or young you are, how much colege degrees you have or how much money you have, do you follow all of the traditions and social hypes, do you have score higher than 90% here on cupid... Its about how you react, answer, think, feel, do, want, plan, wish. Its about how strong your will is... Many cannot focus on anything longer than 3-5 minutes, some give up after a hour or a day of trying... some after a month or a year... Giving up is not an option... Never. Part of that finding-out-are-we-compatible way can be found in our profile and answers here on cupid, but other compability parts we must find out ourselfs, with talking in person, chatting, going on drink, walk, dancing and so on...

- Yep, did I mention I know how to and love to dance? ;). 15 latino and standard dances, 3 years of experience. Free dance lessons for those who want to meet me! (didnt dance long time now, so dont expect J. Travolta style first day xD). Anyway, there. Try and get better offer than that ;).


4. What I dont like?

- I dont like superficial things, things like people who just look for sponsors. Dont like unmoral offers, too much undecisive people, crazyness for things without purpose, religion, politics, mainstream... You wont find that here. I despise one night stands and people who seek that kind of fun, even if no one ever would find out. There is 0% chance I would allow anything like that to happen and if you cant say the same (that you dont have any interest in cheating someone, ever, no matter the circumstances) – then we dont have anything further to talk about. You can close this profile. I know its harsh, but I want to filter out those who dont know what is life, love, honesty, loyalty, friendship, teamwork and so on...

- I dont like cheaters, manipulators, heavy smokers, drinkers, body full of tatto's or piercings (sry, I'm for natural look but I can easily forget about cute tattoo or two and maaaybe little cute pirce if everything else „checks out“, long topic, I just dont have need for that, I am comfortable with my body the way it is. But I did get healty portion of various scars though, so there, you wont end up with someone smooth like a baby butt xD). I consider body something more than just a vehicle or a machine wich contains us, dont like indoctrinated with religion, politics, pHarmacy, passive, agressive, vulgar...

- Sure we live in this world where you cant escape from all of the above. I do not say we should now abandon everything and go live in the woods (but lol, that really doesnt sound like so bad idea, considering city light pollution, microwave pollution, noise pollution, brainwashing and working as slaves for other people, from morning till midnight and so on...). Just be adaptable, but also be your own person, your own master.


(Ok ok, text shows that I can be very serious about important stuff - but dont be fooled, as I can be very philosophical, I can be very funny, crazy and "normal" too. Your everyday Joe :P ;). It depends on you how fast do we go through important and philosophical parts - to the fun parts ;). I'm not saint, khm khm ;). But before that you need to proove yourself in other topics and discussions... To be more direct, I am not interested in sex talk if we dont have anything other in common. And it is repulsive if female talks like that the minute we start to talk. It becomes very suspicious. Sends out wrong message. I do want to know what I'm getting myself into, I can and will talk about that, but getting nudes the first day? Nope, not that type of a man... *WRONG CHOICE* sign in the air.... Yes - a male said those words :P. And yes, I am serious about it. Ofc it could happen if we talked 12hours straight and go through various topics (wich is reality with me, my personal record is over 15h ;) but today people cant talk longer than 5 min and get uncomfortable with half of the normal topcis... I am not asexual. Far from it. I do have very open and naughty side ;). But its exclusive for just potential one (and you get another plus if you have that naughty side too and do think like that ;)... No joy in sharing it with others and after left with nothing... And no, I do not think only about that... There will be days when you'll have to drag me out of my lab full of my science toys and tools :P.

As you see, I am knowlege & love seeker, among other things. And usual things like beer in a barr does not count as everyday fun time... But I could go with that if its some reaaaally good beer in a really nice bar, and with (hipotetically) you. Then I'm in ;).

5. What do I cherish?

- I know about honesty, loyalty, priorities, thinking independently, learning on my own, picking/cleaning up after myself. I know how to cook, clean, iron, wash when I need to and many other things... So I guess I cherrish my independence and show with it I dont need a babysiter (although help is always welcome ;).

- Everything I know and have, I achieved it by myself. No, I dont have much, and no - I dont need much (but I wouldnt mind if I get little more than I have now). Yes, I had family helping/pointing in the right (their) direction for in first years, but I am my own decision and oportunity maker. If you are pressed or dedicated enough, you get to the answers you want/need, eventualy... I cherish the ability to choose between 2 or 10 different choices and I can always make best choice considering past, present, future, everything and everyone...

- I cherish water, sun, earth, plants, animals, oportunity - my life... I cherish the relationship (not just in engagement or marrige but in general sence of a word) between a man and a woman... I was always ending up in bad situations as a kid, unintentionaly, and girls from my class were always on my side... Even when teacher was not... Back then I didnt knew how to defend myself and for that I am eternaly gratefull to them (how do you say - "blessed among women" xD)... And I will allways try to re-pay that favour by beeing the best I can be, for myself, for the one, who chooses me.


6. Who do I search?

- I am searching for pure soul. Who is happy, smarty, fair, moral, rational, geeky, sporty, knows what love is and when you decide to get into someone's life, is big thing - not a game with rewind, reset, pause, play button...

- Someone like "you're wierd - I like you" crazy... Someone openminded about everything. Someone who can talk about any topic, any time, any where... Someone who will always try to do the right thing if and when possible... Someone who knows that there isnt just one guilty side in relationship and that you need to WANT the solution, and to be able to invent it if its not know... Someone who does not give up on first fight - because fights happen - no matter how much we do not want them. Someone who knows that those who endure - those surrvive... Someone with good heart, crazy and smart mind, strong & naturaly beautiful body... Cant believe I must say this but lol, no botox/silicon junkies :S...

- For the visual part, I like to see long hair on a girl. Not a fetish, just it looks WOW that way :). Shaved head? All or just at sides? Nope, dont fancy that xD. Also, little curvy girls (at right places) also have an edge with me ;). But I wont say some "sporty-package" wont swipe me of the feet too ;). Ideal combination would have been those two in one package. The size, this and that, a-a, dont care anymore, just have them at right places and unmodifyed. We wont be "two-face" here, we know you girls also want us to have everything at right places too ;).

- I understand no one is a saint and I am not interested in condeming your small mistakes and those things that turned out to be life lessons - but about things that are just too great difference in mentality and life goals. Some mistakes follow us whole life, people cant change that. But some things can be changed, modifyed, turned into energy, goal, desire, depending on how bad you want it. Some cant help themselfs and just keep going from one relationship into another and ruining people lives.....

I am attracted to people who wouldnt do that, ever... Because I wouldnt ever to that to someone...


7. What am I looking for?

- Hm, I guess I'm realy looking for something hard to find in this days. Someone WOW, but still here, on the ground, aproachable, nice, funny, cute, smart & good looking. (no I dont look just for beauty and something superfiscial, but there must be some physical attraction, it is not just superficial thing, it has deeper meaning AND "do-you-take-care-about-your-health" meaning), and with that - it would be nice that you are someone who doesnt let anyone use you as a punch bag... I know you can wage your on battles, but if you would ever need help with something or making someone sorry for ___________ (enter whatever you thinked of), then just say who do we need to beat up today! ;). As I'm searching for someone who knows how to wage her own battles, I'm sure it wont come to that, but I said it so that you can know you can count on me ;).

- It is hard to find that special someone... We all know it... From my point - girls today want to be recognised as an adult woman so fast, that she then forgets how to be just human and woman in the first place. Woman lost something in battle with men for wanting to be recognised as equal - when they were equal the whole time, in everything, and in some things better than them.

- Ordinary girl today dress like a man, eats like a man, drinks like a man, swears like a man, farts like a man - and then wonders why not one real man wants her... Becomes iritated, scared, bi*chy, the whole men-world is sexist, pigs, this, that...

- Dont be like that. Be a woman ffs, Im not saying you need to be as a delicate flower, scared at every little thing, or obidient and nonconfrontational (hell no, I dont see myself at all with that kind of personalities), just dont be a dude, dont act to be a rock, have some "womanly ways", moves, talks and so on WITH your stronger mental characteristics. Be able to run, bicycle, think and do something with hands or something. Dont try to copy men in order to attract them... Just be yourself, and if we click, we will know it. If not, no hard feelings, everyone goes his/her own way. I know we men arent peach either, rare are... But atleast I am trying not just to be different like some ultimate stereotype, but to be better, myself... And it would help if you are your own person too...

- I understand no one is the same, I can make exeptions, everyone has his/her own reasons what is sexy/desirable or turn off for them and what not... Visual part is easy, its character that is in question...

- I am not searching for someone who's priorities and sole existance on this planet is just to have carrier, money, material things over higher values and priorities, this, that. That is not what I look for. Of course I understand financial security is important. But life is MORE than that.

- LIfe is about being creative, fulfilled, conected. With yourself and your special someone. When you look at someone in eyes and you dont just see them outside, but inside too. And that person doesnt look away – you both connect, it doesnt hug you in such way you feel alone and empty – it makes you feeling complete... It makes you whole. Better, smarter, faster, stronger... It makes you the real you...

- I do not like to label myself, to use labels like wich politic party I belong (none), wich curch or religion I belong (what is written on their papers is not what I am and ever will be), wich football club fan I belong (lol, that ship sailed long ago) and so on... My life is not about that. Never was, never will be. I always had strong sense of myself, things, events - instinct, wich tells me that this what majority calls life - isnt exactly life. Its just grown-up-pretend show...

I see things and details other people dont notice. I understand and connect the dots where others dont see anything to understand or connect. I operate on totaly different level of thought patter wich makes me uncompatible with majority. Because I cannot enjoy things wich do not have or give back anything valuable in return. Like for example our domestic comedy series wich have a humor like someone just lost 50 IQ points and got implanted wi-fi laugh-button in their brain... Domestic or neighbours country music taste and genre wich sometimes sound like someone murdering an animal... The reason I write all of this metaphores is not just to show I really cant be entertained with crap wich is enough for 90% of planets population... It is also to show that I look for someone who's purpose and the essence of their beeing, isnt to watch TV in every free time you get, after +8h time job, either poorly or wealthy paid... Yes, financial security is important in this time and place. But, I see throught that... Beyond... It is just a damn storyline made for generations of mindless sheeps to come and to serve someone else... instead of realising what truly means to be free, to own yourself, to see through some things, to feel what are you made of, what are you made for, for whom are you made for... No, line is not from a movie, not even from a book or a song... I do enjoy some special movies, series, wich have some useful and insightful things, wich have "out of the box" and "there is no box" thinking. Those are things I like. Because forcing the same old recepy or mistake over and over doesnt make you any better, healtier, intelligent and so on... Anyway, if you feel you could be the potential one, you will know what am I talking about...


8. Hm, what else...

- Things that usualy "tick" some people off are: I dont need ANY religion (but I can tolerate choices of others as long as they are rational in other things), I dont need doctors for every little thing or vaccinations (wich started to cause brain damage 1 in 50 persons/babies. Again, if you do not agree - investigate), I dont need politics, religion, McShit and Cola, ciggarets, artificial sweetners, colors or air refresher or other great products (poisons) of modern civilisation. I see "magical" chemtrails where people see contrails or nothing unusual at all (even where we KNOW that todays airplanes do not use external combustion engines but turbines very much like helicopters do). I see the professors unable to answer simple student questions and then failing the student for challenging his authority on something wroted in a book 300 years ago - thats really classy, *sarcasm sign* totaly fair and logical action... 21.st century my ass...

- I need and want to eat, drink, live healty and think rationaly, emotionaly, instinctively. This doesnt mean I am not flexible with some things, but it is here to show that my idea of cool life is not eating a barbeque 3 times per week and rest of the days fry meat... Its not normal... And dont start with "meat is the only sustenance wich has protein" - no, it isnt, go read a book wich you have been avoiding... This is just one example. Dont need a lot of usual things people today entertain themself. I concluded that those things are bad for mental and physical parts of me or in future - kids and so on... Yes, I do think that much in advance. Its just seconds of my time where others usualy see prison and life sentence, or whatever... I guess brains do loose speed and reasoning skills when people continue to eat and drink garbage...

- I am not activist, I do not dress any different than you and I do not speak or think anything different than any other sane person. Okay, maybe I do little more than less, but better to have voice than to be silent chicken. My day is not full of "ohhhh! watch out, its dangerous!" but I do watch about safe and unsafe things... Reason - exept sane mind, health.

- I do not search for someone who says that they dont want to talk about it (whatever the topic is), that they do not like their own name, their own body, that they are young and they have to live first, go out in disco, pubs, clubbing, party every night... Thats not life, thats speeding up flow of time and then you wake up one day after 10 years of that and regret alot of things and try to sell yourself 10 years younger with 1kg of makeup on yourself (which isnt sexy in my opinion, its better all natural look or just as little as possible than to overdoo it)... Anyway. Talk is a talk, doesnt mean Im here to bite someone's leg if I talk about future. Its just a talk, communication, exchance of thoughts, wishes, ideas, plans...


9. The End

- There. I understand it is not written for everyone taste, of course someone wont like it. But if you're interested and think you fit my description (and me your's criteria) – I can prommise that this harsh tone of text is not my lifestyle, it is just a filter made for removing unwanted people who unprovoked send all kinds of messages. Hope you are not one of them. I am not starting the fights, but I fight for myself and what I think is right, I fight for a better life, better tommorow, not just for myself but for everyone who deserves...

- So, if you seek for that brainwashed alpha-neandertal pumped up/tattoed hottie, you wont find him here ;).

- What you will find is a man trying to be better today than tommorow (in non materialistic way), with scarce resources, limited options - but a strong will... To find his other better half, to realise his and her's dreams, and to have happy, full life, from the first happy "end" - to the last...

- If you want to join me in that, you're more than welcome ;) :).


(After reading this monologue and if you feel interested, take your time, you do not have to answer immediately. Let everything sink in if youre interested. I wont ask you do you remmember everything from this text because I didnt wrote it for questioning you - but for you too ask yourself do I sound like someone you would like as a friend, or/and something more... I do believe a true relationships means partnership in every way, friendship too. And remmember, I will not force anything. I want that to be a mutual decision, and I want you to be fair to me AND yourself. Just ask anything you have on your mind, there is no wrong or silly question/message, as long as you are good person. If you are interested and I too find you interesting - you have privilege to ask everything ;). There. Hope to hear from you. Bye :).
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Fun fact:

You just readed ~8000 words... thats +35.000 letters, +43.000 if you count empty spaces... I should go and write a book... xD.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
#Why are you so worried?

You're here a guest,
at nature's behest,

The world was made,
just for you,

Discover yourself,
know who you are.

You are the sun!
radiate light!

You are the river,
don't you know?

Flow on, fly high!

You'll find your purpose,
where you find your happiness!#

- Taare Zameen Par
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Fixing things
- Seeing details other people dont
- Sports and bicycling long routes
- Deep conversations
- Understanding others
- Helping others
- Massaging others, lol...
- Learning new stuff
- Understanding what people/animals want just by looking at them
- Leading a team or following a good organised one
- Planning A, B, C and backups of those plans xD
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dunno, alot of things :)...

And I think I would be good at this too :D

www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDdUtPSYSH8
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:

As a kid I was reading alot, but as school started to force reading, that will slowly went away... But it's coming back, I now enjoy practical books... Directions, tutorials, educational... Last I red was Nikola Tesla's Inventions and Work autobiography...

Movies:

Anything intelectual, humoristic or documentary is welcome. I just dont see anyting in blood and violence anymore. Documentaries, Comedy, SF movies and series are my fav :). But, I recently discovered Indian films (hindu language) wich are by far the most funny and chierfull things to watch. Hollywood just doesnt make decent films anymore so, Bollywood is the new Hollywood. If you do not believe me, investigate. One of my fav movies is in album picture "My hobbies" ;).

Music:

Uhhh, alot of genres. But it depends on the day, state of mind or do I want a help concentrating or sleeping better. Im not alot picky, as long as its not todays mainstreem, religious, our traditional/national and so on... Jazz, funk, classic, insturmental, techno, 80s rock, EXYU... really, almost every genre, but not in a way that I force specific genre, just songs...

Since some people can determine the personality of someone by his music list, here are some previews ;).

1. www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrUOia8OzUc (Jo Manji)
2. www.youtube.com/watch?v=cvQ3CEBevIE (Ludovico)
3. www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuT0j1ajdco (DreamWaltz)
4. www.youtube.com/watch?v=xCeaQxNmL3g (BenWebster)
5. www.youtube.com/watch?v=axb2sHpGwHQ (Beatles)
6. www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAOMop30Hro (Bob Marly)
7. www.youtube.com/watch?v=bd2B6SjMh_w (Charles Barkley)
8. www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqNiBrlwIEQ (Paul Gilbert)
9. www.youtube.com/watch?v=lk38xo_9Ego (WalkOfTheEarth)
10. www.youtube.com/watch?v=sE_ZpP6GOMA (SkyDogWoodyProject)
11. www.youtube.com/watch?v=yA2bylISaNU (Blindstone)
12. www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MteSlpxCpo (Pentatonix)
13. www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9Bfj8zQyIQ (Kredo)
14. www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_pl-KaPbEY (guess this one's name ;)
15. www.youtube.com/watch?v=SN1u5NHrANE (ArminVanBurren)
16. www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dp9G5PUZi3A (and one special for the road ;).

Food:

Fruits, vegetables, here and there some meat, (slowly turning to vegetarian) quality food instead of fast food. I like and must eat healty, people who do not understand - will understand one day. Long topic, healt issue. Im not a picky eater, as long as it doesnt have artificial flawours, suggars and so on...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water
Sun
Quality food
Animals and (some) people
Learning new things everyday
Good and quality rest
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Making someone feel good, helping, being creative, usefull, productive...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Future... Solutions for problems... relaxations and nice days... My better half and where the heck she is... :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not typical as everyone else ;).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- If you have something constructive (and longer than "Hi, how are you") to say - inbox is waiting. I dont bite, much :P kidding ;).

- If you are skillful in conversations and confident enough, you might even find out I am something different than others, I do make jokes, can have crazy fun, ideas and days, relax and be "normal", but rare are those who deserve to learn everything.

- If you managed to read all of it or atleast tried and will try to finish it later. (I know its a lot of information, but this is another filter too. To remove people who cant type more that yes/no/maybe/I dont know answers or read more than 1 sentence answers... I know there are times when less is more. But this time its the opposite - the more we find out now, the less unexpected problems later).

- If you know that quality goes over quantity, safety before adrenaline rush, brains over looks (but good look is a bonus)...

- If you search for something permanent, on the long runs, for life...

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This is the only way I know, and only way I can offer - and I ask the same in return. Its all or nothing...

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