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30 Cary, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 5
White, Other
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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First of all I'm an energy worker and have been labeled as an INFJ.

Most will call me a little strange. I've always been the guy that people know, but never actually know. I choose my friends wisely and for that reason, only have a few people locally that I consider to be true friends. Most of the time I may look or act just like everyone else, but i find it fun to dress up and cause a little social distortion every once in awhile. In my opinion, there's no such thing as being normal, and that's the way I like it. I don't hide what kind of person I am, and for that matter don't indulge with childlike games when it comes to hiding your true colors at the begining of a relationship. Pretty much what you see is what you get. I do care what a select group of people think of me, (my close friends) but I really could care less what the mass majority of mindless robotic drones out there think.

All warnings being stated and out of the way, there are a few things that you need to know about me besides the fact that I can be a total nutcase at times such as who the hell am I? Upon meeting me in person if we have never had any social communication at all, my friends would describe me as seeming to be elitist. I tend to be the one sitting back observing the situation and not talking to anyone unless spoken to, however when out in like company I tend to show a much different, more D.I.L.L.I.G.A.R.A outlook.

I am one who loves total anarchy, yet at times I ask for nothing but total silence. I love an occasional puzzle, but there are many times where I’d rather not think at all. I am someone who always asked the question of why, mostly because of my natural curiosity about the world and everything else in and around it; if I see something that interests me, I’m going to act on it. I like to do things spur of the moment, but still let’s face facts, there are some things that need planning. I love being around people and friends if the mood is right; going into town, bowling, movies, playing poker and blackjack, people watching, concerts, clubs, and playing pool, but I also enjoy just staying home watching a movie or just having a conversation over a cup of home brewed tea. I have a huge imagination, and can entertain myself for hours just sitting back and laughing at random thoughts...... (Thank god for A.D.D.) Actually it's not that I have A.D.D., it just that OH SHINEY!!!!!!!!
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved to North Carolina from Boston in July of 2009. Currently I live in Cary close to Raleigh and I absolutely love it here! I like to think that I'm a little more open minded than most guys. I'm pro gay rights, and considered to be somewhat metro. I work at a local deli slicing meats, baking pizza, making subs and cooking rotisserie chicken by day, though at night I recently started working with lazy day as a night club photographer in the Raleigh area. I also try to do a little nature photography on the side just for fun. I spend most of my days working, but when I do actually have time off you can find me at legends, mosaic wine et lounge, the blue sushi, the black flower, champions for karaoke or poker night, and other areas of the like enjoying the night life, singing karaoke, and performing some street magic for my friends
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photography, street magic and cooking
The first things people usually notice about me
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From what I've been told, most seem to say they notice my eyes first.
I can't really think of anything else that people would notice about me right off the bat.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've always been more a visual learner to be frank. If I do find myself so inclined to pick something up and read it, more often than not it's something that relates to the human condition. My favorite authors so far would be Kahlil Gibran, Richard Bach, and recently Daniel Quinn. I tend to dabble in poetry or short stories by Poe or others of the like, guides on how to start a business and fundamentals of photography. Joke and how to books with the occasional graphic novel are nice as well, and I absolutely love the "post secret" series.

As far as movies go, there are far to many to name here, but some of my favorite movies are the crow, Ted, Paul, the illusionist, the prestige, full metal jacket, clockwork orange, the game, underworld series, hancock, galaxy quest, teenage mutant ninja turtles, zohan, lake placid, ghost busters and gremlins. I love horror movies, but I really enjoy most of the ones from the Asia extreme series (foreign horror). I have a soft spot for almost any movie that can make me laugh, and I believe I have more stand up specials and concerts on DVD than I do actual movies. also I'll admit, that every once in awhile I'll watch a "chick flick".

t.v. on the other hand, some of the shows i like to watch are as follows: simpsons, family guy, x files, mad tv, house, burn notice, scrubs, music videos, fear factor, the man show, ren and stimpy, myth busters, ghost hunters, everything on spike tv and most of the stand up on comedy central and sci fi. oh and you can't forget the occasional programs on TLC, Discovery, travel, ect.

music, well let's see where to start. Some of my favorite bands include KISS, kmfdm, mdfmk, otep, rob zombie, white zombie, assemblage 23, my life with the thrill kill kult, new order, depeche mode, cage the elephant, aerosmith, ac/dc, black sabbath, ozzy, iron maiden, manson, pink floyd, nine inch nails, nightwish, steve vai and joe satriani, zeplin, van halen, nirvana, guns n roses, red hot chili pepers, quit riot, queen, ugly kid joe, korn, santana, bowie, the cure, skinny puppy, cyndi lauper, journey, savage garden, blues traveler, the doors, crystal method, sonic youth, the eagles, jet, linkin park, new found glory, no fx, flogging molly, anti flag, bouncing souls, yellowcard, bad religion, asg, taking back sunday, the casualties, good charlotte, alkaline trio, sugar cult, audio slave, shinedown, the culture club, klaus nomi, the list goes on and on but i think i'll stop here for now.

favorite food, i'm a huge seafood fan, and if i had to i could eat a steady diet of sushi.... but i also enjoy as most guys do a good steak, burger, hot dog ect. i also enjoy Italian, Mexican, and Asian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
six things i could never live without would be my camera and equipment related to it,
a deck of cards and a few other gadgets that i would use to do street magic.
music, art, and stand up comedy for my own entertainment,
social gatherings with friends or strangers,
and a kitchen to cook and entertain.
My Scooter!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to start a career in photography on a limited budget.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working or out with my friends/family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
haha, I sometimes wear eyeliner and drive a scooter everywhere!
You should message me if
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Well for one I would like to meet other energy workers. I'm looking for some interesting, very open minded individuals that i can relate with, be myself around, and pretty much anyone that considers themselves to be different in any way whether it be how you view the world and the lives that we live, or better yet if you're into the arts, any kind of arts. I'm looking for someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, and if I should stumble across someone that wants to go out with me, that would be awesome. As far as personality goes, i guess what i'm looking for is someone who could be considered dark, dorky, geeky, artistic, adventurous, free spirited, and open minded, fun loving, childish at times yet down to earth.