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23 Raleigh, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–32
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:12am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Very often
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I swear like a sailor.
I love animals, kids, and pretty much people in general.
I was named after a folk-rock musician, so music is a huge part of my life.
I aim to give at least one sincere compliment to a stranger every day. My life has significantly improved since I implemented this goal.
Sometimes people think I'm dumb but usually I'm just enthusiastic.
I like walking to, and love walking home from, work.
I can be snarky, and I say a lot of dumb shit, but I give really good hugs. I think it evens out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bossin' it up as the best aunt ever.

I live downtown and absolutely love Raleigh. I am in charge of a local elementary school's tutoring, mentoring, and literacy after-school program. During the summer I work at an outreach camp for low-income and at-risk pre-K youth in Raleigh. I'm finishing my Associate's degree and will hopefully transfer to a four-year-school this fall.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have discovered that I am truly great at accidentally visiting the same okcupid profile like six times because I am forgetful/oblivious/my fingers are too fat for this app. Consider that both a confession and an apology if I show up as having visited your profile many creepy times.


The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes are huge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Otis Redding, the New Basement Tapes, the Flaming Lips, Modest Mouse, Sturgill Simpson, Marvin Gaye, Jimmy Eat World, Avett Brothers, Shovels & Rope, Father John Misty, Punch Brothers, Lauryn Hill, Old Crow Medicine Show, George Harrison, Jason Isbell, De La Soul, John Prine, Lionel Richie/the Commodores, Prince, Dave Rawlings Machine, My Morning Jacket, Janelle Monae, the Beatles, Drive-By Truckers, the Roots, Bob Dylan, Hall & Oates, Grateful Dead, Erykah Badu, Talking Heads, Alkaline Trio, Ryan Adams, Ben Folds, Pearl Jam, the Band, Gram Parsons, Minus the Bear, Dinosaur Jr., Bruce Springsteen, Electric Light Orchestra, Fleetwood Mac, Rilo Kiley, Ben Harper, Stevie Wonder, Thin Lizzy, the Decemberists, American Football

Books: Anything written by David Sedaris, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Roald Dahl, Judy Blume, or Nick Hornby. The Dude and the Zen Master, Charlotte's Web, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, Wise Blood, The Other Wes Moore, Their Eyes Were Watching God, To Kill a Mockingbird, A Thousand Splendid Suns, Geography of the Heart, Salvage the Bones, The Night of the Gun, The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, The Glass Castle, Middlesex, The Reader, Things Fall Apart, The Outsiders, The Lovely Bones, The Kite Runner, Lolita, The Girls Who Went Away, Midwives, The Color of Water, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime

Movies: I watch too many documentaries. Anything/everything Farrelly brothers, Rocky, Good Will Hunting, George Harrison: Living in the Material World, High Fidelity, Tootsie, The Muppets, Bridesmaids, The Shawshank Redemption, Big Fish, Our Idiot Brother, Jiro Dreams of Sushi, The Secret in Their Eyes, Wall-E, Up, Coming to America, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Almost Famous, Girl Most Likely, Elf, Say Anything, The Sessions, Man on the Moon, Dumb and Dumber

Shows: Parks and Recreation, Twin Peaks, Derek, Shameless, Late Night with Jimmy Fallon

Food: BFD all day every day. It is much easier to single out the foods I do not like. I will rarely say no to ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My nephew (and the rest of my family), lip balm, hot water, my dogs, the This American Life iPhone app, and honey.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next nap. Afterschool programming. Why isn't "dumpling" a body type on here? The current education system. Dogs. Books I'm reading/have read/want to read. Making life easier/happier for those that I encounter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends or on a netflix binge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wash my face with honey.

I don't drive.

Also, this is pretty much everything in a nutshell:
You should message me if
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You think we'd have a good chance of getting along!

I'm not going to respond to messages that only say "hi" or "what's up." Don't patronize me.