Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am new to the Carmichael area. I moved here from Fairfield, in
mid-2014. I don't have many social contacts up here and am looking
to expand my social circle.
I am an autistic (Asperger's), but most don't know it. I am not
nearly as idiosyncratic (eg, obvious) as most on the
I am looking to date, but not necessarily too seriously, too
quickly. I am open to a serious, monogamous relationship if things
go well. I cannot "hook up" with anyone; this sort of thing is not
healthy for Asperger's people.
I am also a hobbyist photographer of 5 years experience. I am still
working on my skills, as always, but I feel my work is better than
ever before, of late. I am also willing to photograph other
members. My image quality and editing is typically better than the
average image on OKCupid and far better than anything that can be
done with a phone's camera.
Physically I am much leaner than I used to be. 10 years ago I was
as at my heaviest, at 215lbs. I am about 150lbs now.
I've been told lately that I don't look like I am 40.
Finally, I am a Linux user -- I don't do Windows.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning photography, one shoot at a time.
I am always looking for models to shoot, either from OkCupid or
elsewhere. Experience isn't necessary!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my goatee which can get rather bushy and wild if I don't
trim it regularly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite authors : H.P. Lovecraft, Michael A. Stackpole, David
Arora, Clifford Ashley, Des Pawson
Favorite movies : John Carpenter's The Thing (1982), Alien/Aliens
Favorite TV shows : Babylon 5, The X-files, Millennium,
Mythbusters, Ghost Hunters
Favorite Music : various rock and metal, esp. progressive
Favorite Foods : anything I'm not allergic to
Favorite games: Cities: Skylines, Shadow Warrior, Neverputt
(miniature golf game), Pillars of Eternity, Dungeon Crawl
Favorite other software: Blender, Darktable, Mandelbulber, GIMP,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophical issues such as morality, the nature of time, space
Fortean mysteries such as UFOs, hauntings, and strange creatures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking out for the soulless minions of orthodoxy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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1. I have a strong interest in kink (BDSM). I've done quite a few
bondage shoots, and am always looking to do more.
2. I once had Botox used on me -- for medical reasons, not
You should message me if
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If you like men with goatees.
If you like intense philosophical discussions.
If you like outdoor activities.
If you like H.P. Lovecraft.
If you enjoy PC games.
Who are you looking for?
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