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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:37pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am new to the Carmichael area. I moved here from Fairfield, in mid-2014. I don't have many social contacts up here and am looking to expand my social circle.

I am an autistic (Asperger's), but most don't know it. I am not nearly as idiosyncratic (eg, obvious) as most on the spectrum.

I am looking to date, but not necessarily too seriously, too quickly. I am open to a serious, monogamous relationship if things go well. I cannot "hook up" with anyone; this sort of thing is not healthy for Asperger's people.

I am also a hobbyist photographer of 5 years experience. I am still working on my skills, as always, but I feel my work is better than ever before, of late. I am also willing to photograph other members. My image quality and editing is typically better than the average image on OKCupid and far better than anything that can be done with a phone's camera.

Physically I am much leaner than I used to be. 10 years ago I was as at my heaviest, at 215lbs. I am about 150lbs now.

I've been told lately that I don't look like I am 40.

Finally, I am a Linux user -- I don't do Windows.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning photography, one shoot at a time.

I am always looking for models to shoot, either from OkCupid or elsewhere. Experience isn't necessary!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building PC's
metal detecting
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my goatee which can get rather bushy and wild if I don't trim it regularly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite authors : H.P. Lovecraft, Michael A. Stackpole, David Arora, Clifford Ashley, Des Pawson

Favorite movies : John Carpenter's The Thing (1982), Alien/Aliens series, Ghostbusters

Favorite TV shows : Babylon 5, The X-files, Millennium, Mythbusters, Ghost Hunters

Favorite Music : various rock and metal, esp. progressive rock/metal.

Favorite Foods : anything I'm not allergic to

Favorite games: Cities: Skylines, Shadow Warrior, Neverputt (miniature golf game), Pillars of Eternity, Dungeon Crawl

Favorite other software: Blender, Darktable, Mandelbulber, GIMP, Audacious, SMPlayer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer
My camera
The Internet
Reading material
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophical issues such as morality, the nature of time, space and consciousness.

Fortean mysteries such as UFOs, hauntings, and strange creatures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking out for the soulless minions of orthodoxy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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1. I have a strong interest in kink (BDSM). I've done quite a few bondage shoots, and am always looking to do more.

2. I once had Botox used on me -- for medical reasons, not cosmetic.
You should message me if
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If you like men with goatees.
If you like intense philosophical discussions.
If you like outdoor activities.
If you like H.P. Lovecraft.
If you enjoy PC games.