I am not here for sex. So don't bother messaging me if all you've done is look at my pictures and decided I'm "doable".
Also - I don't trust, like or appreciate anyone who's first exchange with me includes something about my looks or comments on me physically. I find it tedious, objectifying and I don't take it as a a compliment, nor am I morally obliged to act like it is one.
If you would like to chat with the potential of leading up to hanging out, then please message me, regardless of what my message status says about how selectively I reply :)
So now that's out of the way... Here's a bit about me...
I'm a feminist. The real kind. I appreciate people who show respect for me as a human being, my body, my feelings and most importantly my boundaries.
I'm mainly looking to meet new friends. A good start would be if you are a spinny/juggling/burner type or are interested in or already living with a polyamorous relationship background.
In terms of relationships, I'm a very "see what happens" person, no expectations. I'm basically in some kind of relationship with everyone I know just each person/situation has different boundaries. I like appreciating every relationship I have with people for exactly what it is (hugs only, kisses only, intimate sex, fun sex, snuggles etc...) But I'm not interested in one-night stands or sex for sex's sake. I don't and won't do that. I am not here to get into anyone's pants or let anyone into mine without knowing pretty damn well who you are first. I'm very particular about who I share sexy time with.
Most of my closest friends and best friends are male and I'm exceptionally cuddly with many of them. Past relationships have failed as a result of jealousy because of my close relationships with my male friends. I stopped being myself around my friends once to keep a guy happy and have never been so miserable! So not going there again. My friends are my friends, we hug, snuggle with movies, play fight, flirt etc... regularly get mistaken for couples when we're not. And it took me a long time to realise this is a thing that is ok! :) So I'm going to keep it that way.
But as long as I get hugs, I'm generally easy to look after and am probably more like keeping a pet than having a partner!
I have a hugely active imagination which people take for craziness and randomness and I like that I'm a little crazy and random.
I'm a musician and fire performer and so some very limited magic as well.
I will always say and take what you say at face value. If you say you are fine, I will assume that is the case unless you tell me otherwise. If you're not honest with me, you probably won't get a straight answer. I just don't take hints (usually because I don't realise they are there).