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36 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Oct 18, 2014
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Trying to quit
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from space camp
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Other (Fluently)
I am whimsical, magical, and passionate.
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Disclaimer: I once had HPV, and it scared the shit out of me. Disclosing was very hard, and some folks were very rude about it. If you can't be honest about your health and history, don't bother talking to me.
I'm also a huge geek, so I'm hoping to find new and exciting ways to blend my favorite things into something epic. Rock Band Burlesque? Strip Pathfinder? Dramatic staged readings of slashfic? I'm pretty open to suggestions...
I am poly, like apparently 90% of OKC.
I don't know what the future holds but I certainly don't want to wait for someone else to spell it out for me.
I tend to be the cheer and the leader of the party; not by choice, but usually because I'm the best one for the job.
I'm also pretty serious cuddleslut and I will kill for a good backrub.
I guess the first thing people usually notice is how boisterous I am when I get excited. Take that as you will... *^_^*
Favorite authors include Chuck Palaniuk, Neil Gaiman, China Mieville, Dan Savage, Terry Pratchett, & Robert Heinlein.
I like horror, scifi, suspense, mystery, surrealism and fantasy, with a healthy dose of camp as well. My comfort movies as a kid were The Princess Bride, Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, and the Last Unicorn. And by 'kid,' I mean last week.
Music fluctuates so frequently; right now I've got a bunch of ecclectic crap on my player; Electro, Goth, Broadway, techno-pop, R&B, 80's new wave, Industrial , J-Rock, and British steampunk rapping... I'm mostly a New Romantic kind of chick, but I've been branching out a lot more recently, so I'm game for almost anything you throw at me. The last song that made me swoon is Muse's Madness.
Foodwise, I love trying new things, and like the good little Italian girl that I am will likely eat at least a little bit of whatever you put in front of me(take that as you will). I tend to stick to fresh and healthy, but I do like a good sundae every now and then. I clean up pretty well and can handle my own in a swanky place. Until my friends and I are settled into our new home(wherever that will be!) I'm eating out a lot, but I am hoping we can host dinner parties in the near future.
No general category? Let me see who & what I've missed; Doctor Who, Doctor Horrible, & Doctor Steel(in that order), Firefly(the show and the vodka), Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends, Sherlock, Farscape, Black Books, Torchwood, Fringe, IT Crowd, White Wolf, Pathfinder(and most roleplaying in general), Dexter(live-action and cartoon), Rocky Horror, the Dumpsta Players(my former drag troupe), almost all of the Zeldas, Katamari, Halo, Portal 1 & 2, and Rock Band 3(yay keyboards!).
I am currently sans video game system, but honesty that's for the best, at least until I have a place to game from.
I finally broke down and got an Android smartphone and a new-to-me laptop. I am strangely comfortable with the idea that Google owns my life.
-An audio player (for music and audio books)
-Unlined paper & a mechanical pencil (for doodles or writing, depending on my mood)
-My collapsible chopsticks (so many uses, so little time!)
-Random pieces of fabric that could be modified to create impromptu accessories or furoshiki
-An unfinished project (because, really, what's the point if you don't have something to look forward to?)
(Honestly, most of my time I spend thinking about where I am and what I'm doing, but that's hardly interesting, is it?)
As my schedule fluctuates, I don't tend to wait for a Friday night to go and do interesting things. One of my favorite things about living in a city is that you don't have to wait until Friday to do something awesome. I love karaoke and performing in drag and goth dancing when I'm not absolutely exhausted. Sometimes I would rather find a friend who wants to play video games all night, or just walk around town and explore parts of the city we wouldn't otherwise get to see. Sometimes I'll just take a book to the park and pretend to read while I watch all the people walk around and make up stories in my head about where they are going and why they decided to dress the way they did today...
I'm also amazed by how much I like MLP:FIM.
You like the idea of dressing up like something from the past, present or future. Made-up alternate realities count too.
You can sing, or dance, or do both if properly motivated.
You can create characters in your head and wouldn't mind bringing them out into the real world.
You have worn unconventional clothing in public.
You have played Mage and found it awesome.
You aren't intimidated by the idea of going out and doing adventurous things in addition to sitting around and being geeky.
You like adventure.
You like being geeky.
You get tested regularly and don't have a problem talking about it.
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