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CrystalNebula

35 F Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jan 30
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a fairy princess hiding in the form of a super-curvy bio-queen. I just moved to the Bay Area and am still trying to settle in, but I'm also hoping to make some connections and meet awesome people. I have shiny object syndrome and tend to blurt out whatever is on my mind. In varying degrees I love the beach, the woods, the city, the stars, hotel parties, camping, late night pool parties, dressing up and in character, speaking in accents for no reason, the psychology behind Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends, D&D characters with backstories, joyous sexual experimentation, road trips, gothy dancing, weird foods, taking pictures, making up stories, karaoke, and staying up far later than I should, which is probably why the rest of this may be a little odd...

I am whimsical, magical, and passionate.

* * * * *

I have Oncogenic HPV. As of November, I have had three clean std checks, but it is something that will be in my system forever, so without caution it is always something that is possible to transmit. It's also not as horrible as the pharmaceutical companies want you to believe it is. A good source of information on the disease is here:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/138321-oncogenic-hpv-types/

I believe in honest and open communication in all things, especially regarding sex.
What I’m doing with my life
I love to perform on stage, but I also love working behind the curtain and in the wings. I've written shows, managed stages and even entire productions and I love it. I love every chaotic stupid frustrating silly moment of it, and I want to be able to find a way to support myself doing it so I can do it forever.
I'm also a huge geek, so I'm hoping to find new and exciting ways to blend my favorite things into something epic. Rock Band Burlesque? Strip Pathfinder? Dramatic staged readings of slashfic? I'm pretty open to suggestions...

I am also in a poly relationship, like apparently 90% of OKC. My boyfriend Millsmark is wonderful and amazing, and currently on the other side of the country, so we don't see each other as often as either of us would like.

I don't know what the future holds but I certainly don't want to wait for someone else to spell it out for me.
I’m really good at
Finding beauty in almost everything. I have been able to inspire even the snarkiest queen to crack a genuine smile.

I tend to be the cheer and the leader of the party; not by choice, but usually because I'm the best one for the job.

I'm also pretty serious cuddleslut and I will kill for a good backrub.
The first things people usually notice about me
The eyes? The smile? Seriously, of late it's been all about the infectious euphoria, but it's just a front, I swear.

I guess the first thing people usually notice is how boisterous I am when I get excited. Take that as you will... *^_^*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I finished 'Zelda & Philosophy: I Link therefore I am' before road tripping to my new city. On the road, I listened to 'Ready Player One' and 'Invisible Monsters.' I'm kind of in love with audio books and podcasts, especially while I walk around my new city. Currently I'm enthralled with the Welcome to Night Vale podcast.

Favorite authors include Chuck Palaniuk, Neil Gaiman, China Mieville, Dan Savage, Terry Pratchett, & Robert Heinlein.
I like horror, scifi, suspense, mystery, surrealism and fantasy, with a healthy dose of camp as well. My comfort movies as a kid were The Princess Bride, Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, and the Last Unicorn. And by 'kid,' I mean last week.

Music fluctuates so frequently; right now I've got a bunch of ecclectic crap on my player; Electro, Goth, Broadway, techno-pop, R&B, 80's new wave, Industrial , J-Rock, and British steampunk rapping... I'm mostly a New Romantic kind of chick, but I've been branching out a lot more recently, so I'm game for almost anything you throw at me. The last song that made me swoon is Muse's Madness.

Foodwise, I love trying new things, and like the good little Italian girl that I am will likely eat at least a little bit of whatever you put in front of me(take that as you will). I tend to stick to fresh and healthy, but I do like a good sundae every now and then. I clean up pretty well and can handle my own in a swanky place.  Until my friends and I are settled into our new home(wherever that will be!) I'm eating out a lot, but I am hoping we can host dinner parties in the near future. 

No general category? Let me see who & what I've missed; Doctor Who, Doctor Horrible, & Doctor Steel(in that order), Firefly(the show and the vodka), Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends, Sherlock, Farscape, Black Books, Torchwood, Fringe, IT Crowd, White Wolf, Pathfinder(and most roleplaying in general), Dexter(live-action and cartoon), Rocky Horror, the Dumpsta Players(my former drag troupe), almost all of the Zeldas, Katamari, Halo, Portal 1 & 2, and Rock Band 3(yay keyboards!).
I am currently sans video game system, but honesty that's for the best, at least until I have a place to game from.

At home I work from a pre-Intel Mac and I just started playing with a 2nd gen Ipod Touch. I like being present in Real Space, and living vicariously through other people's tech-it's just one more excuse to get closer!

At home I work from a pre-Intel Mac and I just started playing with a 2nd gen Ipod Touch. I like being present in Real Space, and living vicariously through other people's tech...
The six things I could never do without
I really hate these sort of questions without quantifiers. Let's pretend they asked what sort of stuff will keep me from destroying all humans!

-An audio player (for music and audio books)

-Unlined paper & a mechanical pencil (for doodles or writing, depending on my mood)

-My collapsible chopsticks (so many uses, so little time!)

-Random pieces of fabric that could be modified to create impromptu accessories or furoshiki

-An unfinished project (because, really, what's the point if you don't have something to look forward to?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Random animals fighting each other toho-style while dressed as Lolita space pirates.

(Honestly, most of my time I spend thinking about where I am and what I'm doing, but that's hardly interesting, is it?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually performing somewhere. Work is hard, right? ^_^

As my schedule fluctuates, I don't tend to wait for a Friday night to go and do interesting things. One of my favorite things about living in a city is that you don't have to wait until Friday to do something awesome.  I love karaoke and performing when I can. Sometimes I would rather find a friend who wants to play video games all night, or just walk around town and explore parts of the city we wouldn't otherwise get to see.  Sometimes I'll just take a book to the park and pretend to read while I watch all the people walk around and make up stories in my head about where they are going and why they decided to dress the way they did today...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe strongly in open sexuality and free love, but I also believe in romancing the right person can be the most amazing thing in the world...

I'm also amazed by how much I like MLP:FIM.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're curious about anything I've said so far and want to know more.
You like the idea of dressing up like something from the past, present or future. Made-up alternate realities count too.
You can sing, or dance, or do both if properly motivated.
You can create characters in your head and wouldn't mind bringing them out into the real world.
You have worn unconventional clothing in public.
You have played Mage and found it awesome.
You aren't intimidated by the idea of going out and doing adventurous things in addition to sitting around and being geeky.
You like adventure.
You like being geeky.

You can handle the fact that I carry HPV.