Just ended a 3 plus year relationship early this year, hence looking again. Hoping to find the one(!), not sure if OKC is the right place, but it's free, so can't hurt much ;)
>>What I am looking to find:
Attraction ofcourse, is important - mental and physical; I am usually attracted to sharp men with a good sense of humor, being educated and together in life helps...! :)
In terms of physical attraction, I have to admit I am attracted to tall men with a full head of hair, beautiful expressive eyes and ofcourse it helps if you resemble George Clonney or Bradley Cooper ;) But while I wait for George Clooney, there's currently a vacancy in my life for a wonderful, handsome, intelligent man to make my heart skip a beat and make me feel 18 all over again! So, in that sense I am still quite childlike and need a relationship to have fun and passion, without which I usually get bored...
Being successful and 'together' in life should not translate as 'cocky, arrogant, full-of-himself' kind of personality; while confidence is good and nobody is perfect, please don't be too imperfect with regards to arrogance; basically, don't be an asshole!
Understated elegance is what turns me on...!
You must be a deep, thinking kind of person and have appreciation for a wide array of things ranging from current affairs, politics, economics, literature, films, fine cuisine, world cultures etc. I have travelled around the globe, I have friends from different parts of the world - England to Jamica! Japan to Sweden! and many more and appreciate the globe and all the diversity is has to offer and you must too.
So, no close minded, rednecks please!
My statsI am tall with a slender waist & curves in the right places, so you must be a guy who likes feminie curves(I do have T&A), if you have typically been attracted to half starved, kate moss look alike super skinny, size zero kind of girls, then we are probably not a fit. I have an hour glass figure, I guess I conform more to the traditional standards of beauty & aesthetics, I actually find the celeb stars from the 50s and 60s a lot more attractive than the current ones.
I think for a long term, relationship to work, it's good to be direct about what one is seeking.
You must be stable in all areas of life(emotionally, healthwise/**disease&drg free! & career wise), also prefer that you not have children from a previous relationship, sorry don't mean to be rude, but my experience has shown me that it does not work for me, I think it makes the relationship that much harder.
- this is the online world, so have to be specific about what one is seeking to save everybody's time.