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  • Ages 21–33
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Last online
Today – 5:16am
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Might want kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am an easy-going guy who is looking for a serious relationship and hopefully some fun along the way. When I say I am looking for a serious relationship, I don’t mean that you have to be in love with me to send me a message or that I will pop the question on the first date. I just mean that I know where I want to end up and I am not afraid of commitment if you are the right person.

Family is very important to me. Unfortunately, my immediate family lives in California right now but I keep in touch with them and I enjoy spending time with them whenever I have the opportunity.

I am a Christian because I believe Christianity is true. This deeply affects my worldview and makes me in some ways “countercultural”. Maybe old fashioned is another phrase for it. In any case, I think the root of morality is Jesus’ command to “love your neighbor as yourself”. I am very interested in studying the Bible and theologians/philosophers. I admire the works of C.S. Lewis and N.T. Wright with “Mere Christianity” being one of my favorites. I guess you need to have two initials in front of your last name if you want to do good theology. ;)

I have a number of interests and hobbies. I like music, singing, video editing, science, Netflix, languages, card games(Nertz, Phase 10 etc), pool, Settlers of Catan. I pretty much expect to pick up some interests from my partner and have some shared interests and some individual ones.

Personality-wise I do consider myself very different from most people. I am very honest. I will generally say things in a nice way but I am unlikely to lie. I am slow to anger and am not interested in arguing or "being right". I might argue if I feel strongly about something. I am very moral. I am not the funniest person and it can take me a while to be comfortable around people. I have a strong filter so I will tend to be silent rather than say something I think is stupid. Often, I will come up with multiple stupid ideas in a row and then just not say anything. I am generally very happy and not very materialistic.

Also, I am INTJ if you are into that sort of thing.
What I’m doing with my life
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In 2008 I graduated with a degree in engineering and have been developing my career in a high-tech company since then. I do enjoy my job and I take it seriously but I also remember that it is a way to make money and while it might be a way I describe myself, it isn’t something that defines me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don’t really know. I want it to be something complimentary like my eyes but in reality it is probably something like “this guy has a big nose”.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A short list of my favorite movies:

Noah, Zoolander, Memento, The Prestige, Sunshine, Silver Linings Playbook, Lord of the Rings, Elf, Star Wars, The Matrix, The Imitation Game, Prisoners, The X-Men Movies, Predestination, The Heat, The Hurt Locker, Maleficent, Underworld, 50 First Dates, Into the Woods, Frozen, Time Lapse

Italian and Mexican food are my favorite although I eat most kinds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What people really mean when they say things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With family, friends, or relaxing at home watching Netflix
You should message me if
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You are mentally and emotionally stable, don’t love the drama, and think we have something in common.