Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an easy-going guy who is looking for a serious relationship
and hopefully some fun along the way. When I say I am looking for a
serious relationship, I don’t mean that you have to be in love with
me to send me a message or that I will pop the question on the
first date. I just mean that I know where I want to end up and I am
not afraid of commitment if you are the right person.
Family is very important to me. Unfortunately, my immediate family
lives in California right now but I keep in touch with them and I
enjoy spending time with them whenever I have the
I am a Christian because I believe Christianity is true. This
deeply affects my worldview and makes me in some ways
“countercultural”. Maybe old fashioned is another phrase for it. In
any case, I think the root of morality is Jesus’ command to “love
your neighbor as yourself”. I am very interested in studying the
Bible and theologians/philosophers. I admire the works of C.S.
Lewis and N.T. Wright with “Mere Christianity” being one of my
favorites. I guess you need to have two initials in front of your
last name if you want to do good theology. ;)
I have a number of interests and hobbies. I like music, singing,
video editing, science, Netflix, languages, card games(Nertz, Phase
10 etc), pool, Settlers of Catan. I pretty much expect to pick up
some interests from my partner and have some shared interests and
some individual ones.
Personality-wise I do consider myself very different from most
people. I am very honest. I will generally say things in a nice way
but I am unlikely to lie. I am slow to anger and am not interested
in arguing or "being right". I might argue if I feel strongly about
something. I am very moral. I am not the funniest person and it can
take me a while to be comfortable around people. I have a strong
filter so I will tend to be silent rather than say something I
think is stupid. Often, I will come up with multiple stupid ideas
in a row and then just not say anything. I am generally very happy
and not very materialistic.
Also, I am INTJ if you are into that sort of thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In 2008 I graduated with a degree in engineering and have been
developing my career in a high-tech company since then. I do enjoy
my job and I take it seriously but I also remember that it is a way
to make money and while it might be a way I describe myself, it
isn’t something that defines me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don’t really know. I want it to be something complimentary like
my eyes but in reality it is probably something like “this guy has
a big nose”.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A short list of my favorite movies:
Noah, Zoolander, Memento, The Prestige, Sunshine, Silver Linings
Playbook, Lord of the Rings, Elf, Star Wars, The Matrix, The
Imitation Game, Prisoners, The X-Men Movies, Predestination, The
Heat, The Hurt Locker, Maleficent, Underworld, 50 First Dates, Into
the Woods, Frozen, Time Lapse
Italian and Mexican food are my favorite although I eat most kinds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What people really mean when they say things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With family, friends, or relaxing at home watching Netflix
You should message me if
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You are mentally and emotionally stable, don’t love the drama, and
think we have something in common.
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