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54 Chicago, IL Trans Woman

Trans Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–74
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 6
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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*Warning* Trans Woman!

If that didn't scare you off...

Maybe this will: I'm an ordained priest in a radically inclusive Christian denomination, live in an intentional community, am forming an ecumenical religious order, and am a member of a feminist health collective.

Less to not scary...
People have told me I’m sweet, fun, funny, wacky (in a good way), loving, caring, smart, exciting, emotional, sensitive but brave, wonderfully cuddly & incredibly cute.

I’m religious AND spiritual - a mystic really, and a proud geek. I’m on a quest to be a better me, even when it means making big, scary changes and confronting unpleasantness head on. I’m open, I don't shy away from questions, and I’m patient.
What I’m doing with my life
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Pastoring a mostly queer congregation, supporting just healthcare in an unjust system.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, writing, loving.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You'd have to ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Chuang-tzu, anything by Allison Bechtel or Carla Speed McNeil, Ken Wilber's Integral Spirituality, The Anita Blake series, Harry Potter series, Moorcock's Dancers at the End of Time.
Movies: Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Frankenstein (1931), pretty much any Karloff movie really, most Vincent Price films too, most movies made by Hammer Films, Almodóvar's work, Buñuel as well, current favs: Perks of Being a Wallflower, Your Sister's Sister, Adjustment Bureau.
Music: Huge Beatles fan, 60s garage/psych in general, 80s underground, new wave, spy music, surf, Bach, samba, cumbia sonidera, western yodeling.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, love, friends, dancing, art & intellectuals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
God, love, friends, affection, art & intellectuals.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays are the least structured evenings I have.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
See the warning above.
You should message me if
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you want to.