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  • Ages 37–52
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Last online
Aug 20
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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A few adjectives describing myself - honest, kind, humble, caring, creative, intelligent, great sense of humor, well-traveled, intellectually curious, politically progressive (no conservative politics), polite, tender-hearted (but extremely selective – no children please, be within in age range, and no photo - no response). I am passionate and motivated, in addition to having all the healthy and hearty contradictions that make each human unique. As I am an artist, academic, and activist, I am naturally inclined to these fellow tribe members. :)

As has been said, "I hold this to be the highest task for a bond between two people: that each protects the solitude of the other" (Rainer Maria Rilke)...indeed.

I try to learn from each encounter I have with any other person or animal, that is, I view all as teachers. I adore children and have helped raise several, but I do not see them as a part of my future. I’m an only child but with 38 first cousins, I never lacked for surrogate siblings!

Bass players are leitmotif in my life. :)

I’m a cultural/educational anthropologist and visual artist (mixed media usually; B.F.A. in graphic design, but have a great affinity for all art and creative endeavors – the fine arts are a passion). I keep many creative and research projects ongoing, including now writing a book on the music industry and the civil rights movement. I never cease to be amazed by the natural world and human behavior.

Travel is a vital part of my life (46 countries, so that is a bit of an understatement), and I have worked and lived in a variety of cultures. A few favorite general regions would be Southeast Asia, and Central and South America.

I am creative, caring, and mindfully-aware. I attempt to be non-violent in thought, word, and deed. I enjoy the general unplanned and unpredictable in life, and I crave intelligent, informed conversation with creative, curious, artistic, well-read, gentle-souled, and humorous individuals.

Kind of a cosmic cowgirl I guess, but making the road here on earth by just walking. Best of luck to everyone – peace!
What I’m doing with my life
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...learning as I go; being gloriously human while spiritually-evolving (I aim to do this gracefully - usually ends up happening with some occasions/situations more than others... :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...still being empathic while wandering through a number of dimensions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes, hair, and smile seem to be consistent themes, but I hope most of all emanations of kindness and non-judgment...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These are like air to me...air being fundamental to life and much too precious to prioritize! A few, however, would be critical theory; Munch, Mucha; anything by Cohen, Rumi, Rilke; PJ Harvey, Pixies, Bowie, Smiths, Cure, X, Clash, Billy Bragg; one-of-a-kind & out-of-the-way places of any kind, especially for Indian and Thai (having lived in Thailand, I pride myself on being quite a Thai food snob).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
art, ideas, travel, music, cultures, cooking, creativity, social justice, the human condition, astral possibilities
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing most anything, "typical" about me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Some bits of information are earned privileges. ;)
You should message me if
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you think you're as amazed by it all as I am.