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CupOfKindness

50 M Watertown, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:28pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Might want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am generally an independent person. I like to sit on my porch in the evening and look up at the sky when the sun is setting and take it all in. I think about doing the same thing when I was a kid and how I really haven’t changed, how the world hasn’t changed much.

Sometimes, the best part of my day is the bike ride to and from work. I like the freedom and risk of biking in the city and carrying all that I need on my bike rack. I like Cambridge and the Boston area because of all the interesting events going on and the variety of people that live here.

When I can I play piano or guitar with friends. I was kind of a child prodigy at the piano back in the day when I had time to practice. Since then I've played for church and weddings occasionally. I also have a band that I jam with a few times a month. Playing in the evening is a great way to relax.

Being a musician, I can be passionate. And passions can be constructive or destructive. Life does have its dramas, but I try not to live in one.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Life is an adventure! Every day is a gift. Every moment an opportunity for something new. But then sleep is good too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I cook a lot. At least once a day. I'm a big fan of organic and shop the local farmers markets when I can. I have a fondness for ginger, turmeric, and kale. I cook for my friends often.
I can make some people laugh hysterically for no reason. I'd be talking with someone about something philosophical or ordinary and they'd start laughing. It mostly happens when I'm not trying to be funny.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look young for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
reading - the annotated novels of Sherlock Holmes, Dilbert, Calvin and Hobbes, A Walk in the Woods, Wikipedia, This is your brain on music, etc.
movies - The Usual Suspects, It's a Wonderful Life, Roshomon, Inconvenient Truth, etc.
food - I cook a lot and eat out occasionally. I'm a big fan of brussel sprouts lately.
music - Beethoven, Bach, Brahms, Mozart, Mendelssohn, and other piano composers. I like John Lennon, the Beatles, Sia, Cocteau Twins, Modest Mouse, Radiohead, Arcade Fire, TV on the Radio, the New Pornographers, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, The Smiths, The Cure, Dresden Dolls, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
humor
music
friends/family/people
bike lanes
nature
spirituality
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can we believe in stories about time travel and yet also believe in free will? Not to mention entropy.
I wonder about what it is to be kind or to be cruel and how we can never be wholly one or the other.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If it's been a busy week, I will crash, sleep late Saturday morning and do something the following evening instead. If I pace myself well, then maybe hanging out with friends, jamming on guitars, seeing a movie, or just doing nothing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've been away from the social scene a bit since one of my parents became ill and I had to take care of them. Things are more stable now and so I have more time to socialize.
I post this just to show that I know how to prioritize my life when others are in need. It's not all about me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
A) Do you like horror movies?
B) Have you ever travelled around another country alone?
C) Wouldn’t it be fun to chuck it all and go live on a sailboat?
Supposedly, if we have the same answers then we're a good match! I would say (A) no, (B) yes, (C) yes.

Also, you should just message me if you'd like to chat over coffee. I think online tests are no match to real-world chemistry.