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57 / M / straight / Single

Glen Mills, Pennsylvania

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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I am romantic, intelligent, and caring.

My Self-Summary

I have been single for 2-1/2 years after 18 years of marriage. I am interested in meeting women for dating, for a serious relationship, and for friendship.

I enjoy cooking for others (cooking just for me is not much fun at all) and entertaining. I like to visit wineries, and enjoy the challenge of identifying inexpensive but excellent wine. I am definitely a true romantic. I enjoy photography, particularly of flowers, bridges, and children. I would enjoy travel much more if I had someone special to share the adventures.

While I tend to be shy, I can comfortably, easily, and naturally speak in front of large groups. I like to learn, and to share that information. Together we will experience the highs and lows of life. Together we will be greater than the sum of our separate parts.

What I’m doing with my life

I enjoy my job, and I enjoy my life. I am determined to find happiness, and I look upon each day as an opportunity to do exactly that. Even a "down day" has elements of satisfaction and happiness.

I have traveled to many places for work over the past 24 years as a result of working for a large multi-national company. In Europe, I have been to France, Belgium, Luxembourg, Switzerland, The Netherlands, Great Britain, Germany, Denmark, Sweden, and Finland. In the past 3 years, I have been to China, Japan, Singapore, and Malaysia multiple times, and went to Brazil for the first time last November. I've also been to Canada multiple times, to some Caribbean islands (pleasure, not work), Mexico, and Australia. I was hired for what I was assured would be a "no travel component job." LOL

I’m really good at

Being romantic. Looking for the best in people. Helping other people. Cooking. Tasting wine. Giving massages. Being supportive of others.

I am a good photographer. I am good at almost any type of home repair which does not require climbing (I have acrophobia) - including plumbing, electrical wiring, carpentry, and more. And if you happen to have an old-fashioned oven (not self-cleaning, not continuously cleaning), I will gladly arrive with Easy-Off in hand and I will get to work!

The first things people usually notice about me

My cheerful eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: The Man Who Knew Too Much, Enemy at the Gates, Windtalkers, Band of Brothers, Saving Private Ryan, The Hunt for Red October, We Are Marshall, Love Actually, Music and Lyrics, The Holiday, The Notebook, 50 First Dates, The Lake House, The Family Man. To a great extent, if it is a "chick flick", I like it.

Classic TV shows: Mary Tyler Moore Show, Star Trek, I Love Lucy, M*A*S*H, The Bob Newhart Show, Designing Women

Music: Beach Boys, Ann Murray, Olivia Newton John, The Carpenters, Jay and the Americans, Frankie Avalon, Bobby Vee

The six things I could never do without

Optimism.
Friends.
My two children.
Honesty.
Romance.
Passion.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The joy of living each day to the fullest. The security and comfort that will come from nestling against the partner I know I will find.

On a typical Friday night I am

Winding down from a week of work, hopefully drinking fine wines with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Having already admitted that I like "chick flicks", I am left to admit that I am a hopeless romantic.

You should message me if

You are upbeat about life.

You are willing to contact yet another person, knowing that the right person is out there, just a few keystrokes away!

You are honest, kind, and compassionate, with a predisposition to smile.

You laugh with someone (never at anyone).

You enjoy hugging, cuddling, and kissing.

You share my hope that we will become best friends.