Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an educated, happy international hybrid (European + South
Asian), raised in Europe and Asia, and consider the planet to be my
home. I have a good job and enjoy my financial and personal
independence. I used to produce documentaries for television and
now work in management.
It would be great if the universe could send my way an intelligent,
educated, independent, good looking, emotionally healthy man who is
looking for romance and maybe a great partnership, in due course.
Have I asked for too much? *grin!* Someone who likes kids and hopes
to keep discovering more of himself and life with an immensely
likeable, terrific woman. (I must pause to pat myself of the back
and then smack my wrist for being so full of it. Ha ha! ) If you
have some baggage, it's not the end of the world, as long as you
are aware of it and it's only carry on. You have had enough success
to make you happy and enough longing to keep going until you have
all that you want. I'm not sure where or how I am going to meet you
but I made up my mind to trek across the internet with my backpack
to see what I find. Perhaps I shall meet you here. And if I don't,
then please surprise me on a sunny Saturday afternoon in Soho, when
I am least expecting it... : )
P.S. My profile picture is current. This is what I look like now,
at 44. Please be honest in how you represent yourself online.
Also, I was born and raised outside of the US and am Asian/European
mix. Consequently, I don't fit the kind of "box" that some people
try to put me in. I come from a good family, and am looking for
someone who is my equal in terms of character and
Having grown up in Europe, I get along well with men who have grown
up there, lived and worked there, or share some of the cultural
values that I grew up with. Skin color and ethnicity are neither
here nor there, but cultural affinity is important to me.
A polite but firm disclaimer (based on a survey of my online
experience) - : )
Please do not contact me if:
1. You are looking for casual sex or hookups.
2. You are trying to get me to consider casual sex. There are
plenty of women out there who are available for hookups so you
don't need to make me join their ranks.
3. And finally, don't send me hate mails just because you don't
like what I've stated here. If these basic standards don't work for
you, then this is not the right connection for you. Move on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Embarking on a career change ~ Law School.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Conversation, logical reasoning,analysis.
* Playing piano and latin dancing (cha cha, salsa, tango)
* Listening to people, hearing what they really need
* Being a loyal and true friend. You will not find be gossiping
about you beind your back. If I need to criticize something you
did, I will let you know myself.
* Going out and having a good time with my friends!
* Being independent and not needing to know what a guy is
"thinking" all the time. I am comfortable in my own skin and don't
need to be reassured by a man about how he feels about me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
* Good smile, nice to look at.
* Intelligent, good language skills.
* Thoughtful, observant.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Shawshank Redemption; Smoke; Cinema Paradiso; Farewell My
Concubine; The Blue Kite; and many others
Books: The Solitude of Prime Numbers; The Handmaiden's Tale; Space
Odessey; Miss Smilla's Feeling For Snow; A General Theory of Love
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Clean water and air.
2. Peace of mind.
3. People who know and love me.
4. A clean and uncluttered living space.
5. Meaningful work.
6. Hope for the future.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* The things that I want to do with my law career.
* Dancing, socializing, how I appreciate my friends.
* Planning for the future.
* Planning on how to enjoy the week ahead.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with my friends.
Or, calling it an early night and curled up on my couch watching
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not yet. Check in with me after we've been friends for a while..
and you might not even have to ask. : )
You should message me if
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If you like intelligent women who are capable of being both a man's
lover and a man's friend.
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