You would like to chat online. Chatting is a fun way to get to know
someone a little before meeting, and it helps avoid some of the
first meeting nervousness.
You like coffee shops, but maybe not coffee (I’ve started to
acquire a taste for the stuff, but I don’t think I’ll ever be a
real coffee drinker).
My profile didn't bore you and you think we might have something in
common, something about which we can have a conversation.
You like to play Apples to Apples
You want to surprise me.
You know what a Neapolitan Sixth chord
You play drums, bass, keyboards, or lead guitar. Please, musicians
of any kind are definitely people I want to meet. I really NEED to
get a band together!!
You're looking to get cute.
You’re interested in polyamory
. My girlfriend, partner,
and I are polyamorous
and would love to know
more poly people.
You listen to NPR.
You like to make this face. =^_^=
You are a butterflie.
Don’t message me if…
You are looking for a potential husband or a drama filled romance.
I'm not your man. (Hm. That might make a good song title, “I’m not
If you message me, keep this in mind, "I am too old to be playing
around with trying to figure out what you might mean so just tell
me. I'll tell you how I feel about what you might mean and we can
move forward from there." Meaning, I’m shy and I can’t read
non-verbal cues, tell me what you want, and I’ll try my best to see
if it fits with what I want.