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Cupidsarrow1981

31 / M / Straight / Single

New Orleans, Louisiana

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:08pm
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am very intrigued by people. I have a hard time focusing on peoples flaws. I am a hopeless romantic who listened to oldies. I grew up a jock, but not I just play golf. I am good at boxing. I love to dance at clubs and at silly. I don't drink to much. I am a promoter, band manager, booking agent, model, host, event planner, fashion designer, from New Orleans. I love music, and I love art. I am the type who likes a girl to push me to better myself. I have lived a very interesting life, that has made me into the person I am today. I am not really interested in women who are co-dependent and feel the need to fix men, and as a result go after guys that have no business looking for a relationship. I am very sensitive, but I am also not sensitive. I just have a problem with expressing myself in a sugar coated way, because I think in the end people would rather be around someone who is real than fake. I was raised around females, so I know the real part of woman that men don't want to except. In my mind a woman with all her imperfections, and no make up, knowing they don't shave there legs all the time, get pissed off sometimes and it doesn't always have to do with me. I love everything about a woman. I am not good with girls who put up a hard to get facade, because I am not good at reading into whether a girl is into me, unless she at least, calls me, laughs at my jokes when there not funny, and I fun in love when a girl kisses me without warning, for the first time. I understand that many girls are shy and don't approach men, but if you could give me a sign like, eye contact, or something, helps a lot. I am happy go lucky, sarcastic, if I joke on you, I like you. I am trying to prove that magic can be made from a site like this, and that a girl will miss out on a guy who respects women, admits his faults, never has cheated, will be honest if you ask me if the outfit your wearing looks good. I think two people can polish one another up and it not be an insult. I believe in love for life. I am attracted to looks, but my opinion on what is sexy is very different than most men. I like a girl who is not afraid to experiment with her style. I am serious, but I am fun. I am just very unique.
What I’m doing with my life
I am working on a biography about a girl who is the reason dextrine has been forced to take a chemical out of their diet pills. I started a publishing company that I hope to touch a lot of woman who are under the pressure to be thin, and to count your blessing. A best seller and a guest appearance on the Oprah Show would not be bad. lol.
I’m really good at
Golf, empathizing, reading people, cheering people up, drawing, writing, kissing, fashion, making things happen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Shack, Highway, all music. Sushi, Boardwalk Empire, The Departed, most science fiction. Gangstar Movies.
The six things I could never do without
Affection, water, food, music, laptop, phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
whether or not I fill fall in love, because it is not guaranteed.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no teling. I am meeting you hopefully.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry a lot when people to kind things for me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
you still dream, realize life is short, and still believe that on any given day at any given moment life can make you feel alive again. It only takes action.