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28 M Lafayette, CO

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  • Ages 22–35
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The basics: I'm a nonmonogamous, politically left/progressive, techie, science-y, writer-type person who is incurably curious about pretty much everything.

I love learning and all kinds of intellectual stimulation. If you want to make my brain happy, teach me something, challenge me, or talk about how we can make the world better. I get unreasonably excited about clever analogies and data visualization.

I have always wanted to save the world, and right now I'm doing my best to do that by writing about social justice, relationship styles and various other things on the Internet. I am also a huge geek. I geek out about puzzles and science and coding and scientists like Richard Feynman, but also feelings and relationships and communication and blogs like Pervocracy.

I like dancing and writing code and talking about intersectionality and being serious and silly in equal measure. Also, affectionately sticking my tongue out at people.

I think one of the sexiest things a person can be is curious.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on a career as a software developer and writing about things that interest me. In my spare time these days, I'm becoming progressively more involved in kink/sex-positive communities and activism.

I'm trying to figure out how I can save the world and not worry about money too much while doing it. In accordance with this goal and the fact that I want to travel more, I'm hoping to start building myself a tiny house within the next few years.

I'm doing my best to get better at writing. To me, being able to communicate well feels like being able to do magic. Good writing makes you read it, and good reading makes you see the world in new, interesting ways — sometimes without you even realizing that it's happening. How cool is that?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Introspection, being enthusiastically geeky, having so much perspective that I completely lose perspective, watching The West Wing on Netflix, and getting angry at politicians.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know; let's ask people I know!

donovanable: I noticed that you smile a lot, which is very endearing to me in people, that you had lots of apparent energy, that you like talking about ideas and how ideas interlock, and that you ask for feedback about your thoughts and give good feedback about other's thoughts.
mindkeep: Oi, I have no idea. A vague sense of awkwardness that comes with 2 straight guys meeting via OkCupid?
Boss1001: Well as always I started from the top. Immediately: thoughtful, open, knowledgeable, self-aware, funny.
crooked_glasses: That question is hard! I don't like hard question!! D:
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some Books I've Enjoyed: The Demon-Haunted World by Carl Sagan, anything sci-fi or fantasy, Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman, How We Know What Isn't So: The Fallibility of Human Reason in Everyday Life (this book should be required reading for everyone in the universe), and anything Dave Barry.

Some TV Shows I've Enjoyed: Dexter, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, and The West Wing.

Some Music I Enjoy: Cake, The Red Hot Chili Peppers, Billy Joel, Tim Minchin, The Luminaires, Duck Bus, and The Blue Line.

Some Internet Things I Enjoy: Greta Christina, Wil Wheaton, XKCD, Pervocracy, and A Softer World.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
curiosity, burritos, emotional intimacy, exposure to alternate perspectives, my posterior parietal cortex (I'm pretty sure the other parts are just taking up space), and British comedy game shows on YouTube.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
good analogies, puzzles, how astrology is an interesting illustration of the power of the Forer Effect and confirmation bias at work, how David Mitchell is the world's most adorable comedian, omitted conjunctions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Fridays tend to vary. Maybe dancing, maybe watching Netflix, maybe drinking with people, maybe hanging with housemates, or maybe fiddling with my new Arduino board.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I listen to One Direction intentionally.
You should message me if
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If you are a geek about writing, coding, feminism, relationship styles, or science.

If you use the phrase "all genders" in casual conversation.

If we match higher than 85%.

If you want to explain to me why people think Buffy isn't a terrible show (I know a lot of wonderful, awesome people who love the show and I just…don't get it).

If you think running around finding crunchy ice to step on with someone would be way more fun than an ordinary date.

If you want to go dancing or hiking, or hang out at a coffee shop and talk about how everything would be better if we used a base 12 number system. Seriously, wouldn't that be cool? It would totally be cool. I mean, we could talk about other stuff, too. I'm just saying it's an option, is all.