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28 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), LISP (Okay), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I would like to express my deep self. There thoughts and images reign. Would you care to join me there? There is a song I want to sing for you if I can hear your music. I would paint more than just the points of your passaggio if you are she. I walk the lonely road near the ash factories to look at the beautiful toxic ponds where the mermaids sing broken tones that should attract Angels. But who dare come here? We have monumental Billboards and three word choruses. Forget about the great library your father Abraham built. I sit there writing after the blast knowing you shall know me when you walk by.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing the story of America.

Joking against the grain.

Walking with my feet on the ground and my torso ready for lightning.

Being a real man.

Being a lady.

Listening to myself sing.

Making computers do what they least expected.

Not taking a bazillion pictures.

Shooting elegant powerful footage that never shall be edited.

Dreaming, dreaming, dreaming, dreaming...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding joy in what I do.

Letting go.

Studying systems (even systems that never stop improving).


Expressing my wild passion.

Growing and becoming better, because I never want to see a day when I say: "oh I'm perfect now, time to stop moving."
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My long hair.

That there is no one else on this planet anything like me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Leaves of Grass, Hamlet, Poetry of Hart Crane, Angels In America by Tony Kushner, Poetry of Tennyson, Henry the Fourth, The Importance Of Being Earnest, As You Like It, Keats, No Man's Land by Pinter, Arcadia by Tom Stoppard, William Blake's poetry, Paradise Lost, All The Kings Men by Robert Penn Warren, Don Quixote, Franz Kafka, Invisible Cities by Italo Calvino, Homer, Plato, Shelly, Nietzsche, Freud, Paglia, Emerson, Montaigne, Freedom From Command and Control by John Seddon (A modern masterpiece that few know about), Out of the Crises by W. Edwards Deming, The Toyota Production System by Taiichi Ohno. Oh I could go on...but let it be.

-John Keats

Bright Star, Ran, Orphée, The Philadelphia Story, Fallen Idol, The Third Man and Ran.

Modern Family, Last Man Standing, Criminal Minds, Breaking Bad, Book TV and Rupaul's Drag Race (certainly not for the music).

Chalie Parker, Louis Armstrong, Bud Powell, J. S. Bach, Mozart, Stravinsky, Enrico Caruso, Billie Holiday,
Brahms, Eliot Carter, Schoenberg, Webern, Beethoven, Arvo Part, and Jimmi Hendrix
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art Making Resources
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The worlds of imagination and the United States of America



Campaign Finance Reform


Powerful Figures of My Imagination

People and why they are how they are

Expanding my Being

Different Systems of Organization

The Enslavement of Mankind





How poorly designed systems are forcing us to think bad thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a cafe writing, going on a photographic adventure, editing video, rehearsing, playing the piano or guitar, making Margaritas, Singing, Acting, or a million other things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I admitted a private thing it would hardly be private, now would it?
You should message me if
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You believe there is a possibility we could have fun together.

If you spill your drink when you hear people talking about Milton.

If you like to be seen. I will put you up in the limelight in photographs or drawings (regardless of any romantic relationships or gender).

If a painting has made you weep.

If you always want to play make believe, but keep getting funny or bored looks.

If Washington makes you mad.

If you do (or do not) like transgendered lovers. And when I say trans, I mean TRANS. When I'm a man, I'm a man. When I'm a women, I look pretty damn hot (see picture).

If you smell of lavender and rose.

If you know the value of unforgettable name.

If you're always getting in trouble for your integrity.

If you make shallow people mad or bewildered.

If you can handle having feelings with a certifiable artist who gets so involved he forgets to eat, answer the phone or open the door.

If you're also looking for a man who is not looking for money, because money always come with a price to freedom.

If you need to be confident, strong, creative and entirely yourself.


If you are looking for a quality long term friendship.

Indeed every good relationship starts from long term friendships.