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28 • M • Chicago, IL
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–99
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Online now!
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), LISP (Okay), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)
Joking against the grain.
Walking with my feet on the ground and my torso ready for lightning.
Being a real man.
Being a lady.
Listening to myself sing.
Making computers do what they least expected.
Not taking a bazillion pictures.
Shooting elegant powerful footage that never shall be edited.
Dreaming, dreaming, dreaming, dreaming...
Studying systems (even systems that never stop improving).
Expressing my wild passion.
Growing and becoming better, because I never want to see a day when I say: "oh I'm perfect now, time to stop moving."
That there is no one else on this planet anything like me.
Leaves of Grass, Hamlet, Poetry of Hart Crane, Angels In America by Tony Kushner, Poetry of Tennyson, Henry the Fourth, The Importance Of Being Earnest, As You Like It, Keats, No Man's Land by Pinter, Arcadia by Tom Stoppard, William Blake's poetry, Paradise Lost, All The Kings Men by Robert Penn Warren, Don Quixote, Franz Kafka, Invisible Cities by Italo Calvino, Homer, Plato, Shelly, Nietzsche, Freud, Paglia, Emerson, Montaigne, Freedom From Command and Control by John Seddon (A modern masterpiece that few know about), Out of the Crises by W. Edwards Deming, The Toyota Production System by Taiichi Ohno. Oh I could go on...but let it be.
Bright Star, Ran, Orphée, The Philadelphia Story, Fallen Idol, The Third Man and Ran.
Modern Family, Last Man Standing, Criminal Minds, Breaking Bad, Book TV and Rupaul's Drag Race (certainly not for the music).
Chalie Parker, Louis Armstrong, Bud Powell, J. S. Bach, Mozart, Stravinsky, Enrico Caruso, Billie Holiday,
Brahms, Eliot Carter, Schoenberg, Webern, Beethoven, Arvo Part, and Jimmi Hendrix
Art Making Resources
Campaign Finance Reform
Powerful Figures of My Imagination
People and why they are how they are
Expanding my Being
Different Systems of Organization
The Enslavement of Mankind
How poorly designed systems are forcing us to think bad thoughts.
If you spill your drink when you hear people talking about Milton.
If you like to be seen. I will put you up in the limelight in photographs or drawings (regardless of any romantic relationships or gender).
If a painting has made you weep.
If you always want to play make believe, but keep getting funny or bored looks.
If Washington makes you mad.
If you do (or do not) like transgendered lovers. And when I say trans, I mean TRANS. When I'm a man, I'm a man. When I'm a women, I look pretty damn hot (see picture).
If you smell of lavender and rose.
If you know the value of unforgettable name.
If you're always getting in trouble for your integrity.
If you make shallow people mad or bewildered.
If you can handle having feelings with a certifiable artist who gets so involved he forgets to eat, answer the phone or open the door.
If you're also looking for a man who is not looking for money, because money always come with a price to freedom.
If you need to be confident, strong, creative and entirely yourself.
If you are looking for a quality long term friendship.
Indeed every good relationship starts from long term friendships.
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