Here's why you should message me:
- If you're interested in getting to know someone and becoming close friends before trying to possibly move into something more. I'm in this for the long game, not a hookup or a quick f*ck.
- If you understand that I'm attached, but that it has no bearing on your relationship with me other than the fact that I will probably have less time than someone who isn't and that my husband will always come before you.
- If you've gotten this far and realize that I'm a pretty cool chick who just wants to be up front about my situation and keep these things from getting in the way of us getting to know each other and seeing where our relationship or friendship can go.
- And lastly, if you're okay with not putting a relationship into a box. I'm here to meet people and see where things go. That means anything along the entire spectrum of a relational interaction is possible. That said, just because there is a possibility for more doesn't mean that I'm pursuing that with everyone I meet. Chemistry has to be there and I hold people to pretty high standards (but I hold myself to high standards as well, so the road goes both ways).
I'm not cheating - my husband and I are in an open/poly relationship. In fact, he knows I'm here and has a profile here himself (Hysteria_30 if you want to say hi). Also, for any girls who may drop by, I'm not looking to hook you up with him or both of us, I'm simply here to meet people and see where things go. I'm not a unicorn hunter. ;)