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30 Nashville, TN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:49am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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"If you love a flower, don't pick it up.
Because if you pick it up, it dies and ceases to be what you love.
So if you love a flower, let it be.
Love is not about possession.
Love is about appreciation."

I am a difficult person to get to know, but if you decide to take the time to get to know me, I guarantee you'll like me. I walk a fine line of being intense and being relaxed, of being super feminine and getting my hands dirty. The one thing I always am is a lover and a thinker.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working the job to pay the bills, working the job I hope gets me out of the current job to pay the bills, and finding my peace and happiness as I determine what is most important to me and what is simply unnecessary.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Having deep conversations. Baking. Laughing at myself. Cursing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends on what I'm wearing...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dan Brown, Anthem, Room

Movies: French Kiss, When Harry Met Sally, just about any Kevin Smith flick

Shows: Californication, Dexter, Walking Dead, The L Word, United States of Tara

Music: I have such a wide variety of interest in music from classical to pop to jazz to rock to blues to R&B…it's REALLY hard for me to try and pick favorites. You might be better off asking what I'm listening to at that moment because it's always changing.

Food: I like clean eating but I also like the not so good for you food. Ice cream is a HUGE weakness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My husband
My bulldogs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we are the way we are. Why we spend so much time online "connecting" and yet we're ultimately so disconnected from the world around us. How to find contentment and happiness. What my next step should be to get a business going and leave my job.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing…whatever that might entail on a given Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a fairly private person, so if you get me to admit something private…you're doing something right. On my profile where everyone can read it is not where you'll find it.
You should message me if
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If and only if you're looking for something real and can carry on a deep conversation from time to time.