My social life changes as much as my hair colour. Whether I'm out with friends in a pub, at a party, gig, cinema or home alone I like to keep my life varied. I can be quiet as a mouse or the one dancing on the table, I like to just be me.

Open and honest I pretty much say what I think, sometimes gets me into trouble, but thats life right? I love it when people don't take life so seriously, there are some massive pot holes there to trip you up, but its better you stumble and pick yourself up than fall right in there. Don't get me wrong, I know my responsibilities but don't forget myself in them.

I travelled a lot as a kid, including places like Saudi Arabia, Thailand, Korea, and my dad currently is based in the Philippines which is handy for holidays!
I have also moved round the UK quite a bit and Southampton seems to be the latest haunt for me and I'm happy here.

Yes, and I'm a happy soul. I have my flaws, as we all do, but one thing I really try to be is happy. People's happiness is important to me, I think that its something that people don't take too much time over. Really, sit down and make a list of things or people that make you really happy, ignoring anything that doesn't and then try to surround yourself in that list, or at least have reminders of them. It works, honestly. I can wake up and not feel like facing the day, but by doing a couple of things or even thinking about something can jut give me the push I need and then all day I build on that and my smile and mood just gets better and better.

You can't buy happiness but you can spread it.

I'm looking for someone who can be romantic and naughty, funny and respectful. Is it so hard?

I like to keep myself occupied so outside of work I can be found being sociable, writing poetry and working on a novel thats been a piece of work for about 8 years.
I work hard and play harder, its all about a good work life balance so they keep telling me!
I now feel I'm ready for someone to settle with.

Reading people, being there for people, listening, making people smile, kissing....the rest you can find out yourself!

I'd like to think my face most likely my eyes, but probably my breasts they're just there really. Personality wise I think my honesty.

Film as an opener:

Pi, The Fountain, A Room With A View, The Shining, A Streetcar Named Desire, In The Mood For Love, Evil Dead films, Perfume, Secretary, Withnail & I, Walk The Line, Gladiator, Big Lebowski, Shaun of the Dead, Usual Suspects...the list is endless but I like anything that touches my fears, intellect and emotions, even trash blockbusters!

Music:

Ok this is as bad as films so recently been listening to Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, The Wildhearts, Pearl Jam, Explosions In The Sky, Exit Ten, Save Ferris, Metallica, Paramore, Muse, GSYBE, Clint Mansell...

My mind, touch, taste, music, film, people

Ideas and inspiration for a book I'm writing. I'm in no hurry to finish it, its such a good process writing something for yourself that someday maybe someone else will enjoy as much as you do.

In the pub with friends or at home watching a film or two alone or with friends. Every night is different!

I'm a massive Disney fan and my favourites are Sleeping Beauty and Snow White...

I also love being written poetry and letters, hand written and posted, old fashioned romance

You don't have an email mentioning the following phrases:
"Fancy a f**k" or "Hi u lk gr8 I rly lkd ur profile"
Is romance really dead?

But please do if you're genuinely looking for someone to have a laugh and a giggle with, get to know and actually spend some time with. I can get my kicks like most people, but I'm looking for someone with more.

Just drop me a line, I won't bite, honest. Even if its just for a chat.