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49 Melrose Park, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:56am
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Graduated from space camp
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm simply looking for an old fashioned relationship. Both people work. Come home cook dinner. Lots of spooning. Going out to the movies and new restaurants. And the occasional travel. Lol...I definitely want to find someone to cohabitate with. I'm tired of dating...
I Am Not Interested In Black Men sorry it's my preference !!
I cant date men with cats..super allergic sorry....

To be honest i have lived my whole life in Chicago, and although it is a great city, i really want to live in a warm climate. So I am open to talking to people from Florida or California etc. or chicago men who want to also move to a more warm and beautiful place. my kids are 18 and 20 so I know I can make this happen:)

I am funny, sweet, sensitive artistic, love playing guitar and i sing well, love tech and gadgets, love to laugh, love cooking, great with kids, elderly people are awesome..they have a wealth of knowledge!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
being grateful, for my 18 and 20 year old waking up to a new day each day,making people around me smile and feel good about themselves.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing,guitar and cooking,listening, making people laugh,being a survivor.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes and smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
love romantic comedies,
hate horror
I love John Mayer , The Fray, Coldplay, Patti griffin, christina perri, Adele,as well as old bands like Styx and Journey and led new stuff by Sam Smith and Ed Sheeran.
I love italian food and chinese..anything spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My two teens
My Ipad
My acoustic guitar
Love and human contact.
cell phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
finding my other half.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully hanging out with you soon..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't use highways and expressways..I take the major roads. hate gridlock, like being able to pull off the road ...i know..its a silly skeleton in my closet..but its there..:)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. like smart funny arsty creative curvy girls !
2. you are gainfully employed and support yourself.
3. you have old fashioned values on how to treat a woman.
4. you are NOT looking for a friends with benefits
5. you want to eventually at least cohabitate with a woman :)
6. you want to enjoy simple things in life.