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Cutulus

37 / M / Straight / Single

Chesapeake, Virginia

His Details

Last Online
Today – 6:16pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Ok let me start over with this. I am going to really throw out the small parts and lets lay it out there. I am confidant and fun loving person that grew up in a small town in West Texas, but moved here in 2009. Yes, I am the primary parent of 3 kids. I am proud of my kids and I post pics of them all the time. They are star students and I am raising them to be their own people. I am the dad that wants them to pick up after themselves, yet be expressive enough to where what they want. I have already told them that at 10 they can color their hair any color they want.
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I am very complex and I am hard to read as a person. I know this. I say what I mean and I have no regrets for what I say most of the time. If I message you it was because I felt that I could see meeting you and having a great time find new friends. If you message me I will respond as it is courteous to do so and your time is just as precious as mine. I am busy all the time, but I want to fit someone into my life.
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Some notes:
- Travel: I tend to take trips between 1-4 times a month. Yes I do a lot on the weekends and I go everywhere. I will have gone to Richmond, DC, Atlanta and Texas before we get halfway into the year. Pack your bags and lets go! I have traveled most of the states in the country and travel as much as I can, even for weekend trips or day trips.
- Work: I work as a developer, but that does not mean I won't get my hands dirty. My first car was a 65 Mustang that was restored. I still have it and Will be bringing back from Texas. It needs some love and I will be working on it again.
- Friends: My friends are very diverse and run all over the scale of what you can imagine. Yes I have friends that are wierd. They are still my friends.
- Church: I am christian and I will find a new church to go to. Right now is not that time for me, but I will go with anyone. I grew up going to every church in town with my friends. I found one in middle school, then I moved out of town.
- Going out: I like to go out every once in a while. I enjoy dancing, dining, art, the beach (sparingly though) and I could go on and on. I also don't mind curling up on the couch with someone to watch some TV.
- Music: I will listen to most anything. I hate Metal since I can't stand to listen to someone scream. REALLY?! It's like writing. You want someone to read it make it legible. I also am not a fan of Country but it's mostly that I don't like hearing how bad things are. It's not all bad, just in moderation like drinking. Classical is the last one I will single out, but only because it puts me to sleep.
- Drinking: I like to drink. Not in the I get drunk, but in that I like to try things. Craft beer? Sure. Mixed drinks? Yes! Wine? Let's taste away. Knowing how to enjoy it and when you have had enough is big.
- Games: I play card games and board games. I don't play games with the heart. I expect the same from you.
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- You: If you made it this far you are wondering what I am looking for. I am looking for someone that can see themselves spending time with me. I want the person that is beautiful on the inside and out. The people that are vain have already clicked away and that is fine. But you are still reading to the end so send me that email and let me know that you are interested. We can then figure out what to do together to learn more about one another.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising 3 little girls and taking care of them.

Working towards my end goals. Ask me and we can talk about those.
I’m really good at
not making everyone feel like an idiot at what they do or say. I hate getting corrected for grammer or not knowing something. I don't want others to feel like I am trying to be superior.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue glasses. They are Rx glasses, but I have them tinted due to light sensitivity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like a ton of movies and I can watch just about everything.

Music is very diverse with music from the 50's up and most genre's. I don't like classical and not much on most country.

Food I like it hot. I can enjoy almost anything though. I only hate mayo for sure.
The six things I could never do without
My kids.
My computers
Internet
My friends
Food
Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want. Putting my dreams into action is the only way I can get them.
How to best provide for my kids.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with friends playing cards.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing is that private for me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You are sincere in going out some time. I don't want to invest time in texting and emailing if is not going to go anywhere. I have a life and I would love to talk with someone in person. I stare at enough computer screens already.