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63 Bronx, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 58–69
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:42pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from med school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Can A Needle In A Haystack Really Be Found Online?

Decided a year ago, that I hate not being a boss, so we're starting a new company with a totally new focus. Life is about taking chances, jumping off of cliffs and learning new things.

Who says you can't reinvent yourself at this stage?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Beginning anew, back in New York, and loving every minute of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things. Too numerous to list here.

OK, OK, if you insist:

(1) Loyalty to friends [evidenced by the fact that almost all of my friends, I've had for decades. Ask them.]

(2) Dedication - must remember this one the next time I'm interviewing for a new job.

(3) Tinkling on my piano [not claiming to be a "virtuoso", or is that "virtuosa"? -- not Italian-speaking, but am fluent in Spanish. Does that carry over at all?]. Love playing, especially before board exams. Great stress buster.

(4) My art: Music and Art alumna [if you're a NYer you'll understand that one. Not one of the famous ones -- see my yearbook for those individuals].

(5) Conversant with strangers - serial killers excepted

(6) Words - Easily engaged in verbal swordplay. If you have words, I will swoon, sooner rather than later.

How about the things I'm hoping to do/learn?

(1) Kayaking - NYC has a wonderful program every spring and summer, teaching newbies how to kayak for free on the Hudson, in lower Manhattan.

(2) Exploring Italy - especially Venice before the stone cancer totally kills all those marvelous Renaissance sculptures.

(3) The Caribbean - a promise to myself, once I have successfully completed something I am planning on doing professionally. Great motivation for me.

Let's grab some coffee, and talk some more.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You best ask them. It's not something that they shared with me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Thanks to all the innovative electronic gizmos we now all possess, I currently have "The Dictator's Handbook", "In The Land Of Invisible Women: A Female Doctor's Journey in the Saudi Kingdom" on my Kindle; "The Dark Side" on my IPod, and various books on CDs for my car, including "Reckless Endangerment: How Outsized Ambition, Greed And Corruption Led To Economic Armageddon". I recently finished "The Lincoln Conspiracy", "Life After Life", "Notorious Nineteen" and "King and Maxwell". Whatever catches my fancy at the moment. I drive a lot for business, so I go through many talking books a month to keep me occupied.

Music: I'm a member of the Baby Boomer generation, so '60's music is always a contender. I love Israeli folk dancing music (still looking for a venue to do that); and am game for anything just about, with the exception of rap (sorry, all rules have their exceptions, and this is mine).

Radio: NPR anything! I could listen all day (when I run out of book CDs).

TV: Except for HGTV [who needs Calgon? Scott McGillivray take me away!], I'm not much of a watcher anymore.

Shows: I'm a New Yorker. There is nothing like the Broadway stage.

Food: The usual fare: Chinese, Italian, Greek, American. I'm trying to get into new things that might be appealing for home cooking. Bought all the ingredients to experiment with Vietnamese chicken, I just need to find more time to set aside to explore that and other exotic [to me] fare.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Two days back here [now longer, but it still holds true], and I'm already seeing a pattern to this answer, but it is true [with the exception that people are not "things", but of paramount importance]:
(1) Family
(2) Friends (especially the ones that have become "Family")
(3) Good health
(4) Freedom
(5) Quiet time, and time to enjoy it
(6) You. What's taking you so long?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where this latest professional adventure is going to take me (hopefully home).

Not "a lot" of time thinking, but curious nonetheless:

Why some come to internet dating with a "shopping list" of expectations. No wonder so many are online for years.

Why people don't update their profiles, when the OKC robot upticks the years on each birthday.

Why some men are intimidated by successful women.

Do women and men really want such disparate things?

Why so many rank me a favorite but I have no clue who they are. What's up with that? Oh, yeah, one more thing: Many are too shy or afraid to even say hello. I promise, even if we're not a match, I will respond at least once. It's the courteous thing to do.

Why some folks on here answer that they brush their teeth once a day? What's that about?

And why on earth do so many include pictures from at least 30 years ago?

And what's the point of paying for a subscription here, just so you can visit pages in "stealth mode"?

Does anyone else find the answers to OKC's questions revealing, besides me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am unwinding from a hectic work week. Fridays and Saturdays are usually days to just switch gears, and recharge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nah, we need to know each other much better first!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are Jewish, any flavor.

If you're serious about meeting your intellectual equal, someone who is up to new challenges, and is willing to take a chance and see where it could lead, then please do not hesitate to message me. I believe in courtesy, and all messages will be responded to. Beyond that, let's see where it takes us. Let's explore the possibilities!

Also of note: As I type so I am - what you see is what you get (minus the NY accent, which I take with me wherever I go). Absolutely not interested in mind games, or men who need to find "perfection", often forgetting what they, themselves, especially in middle age, bring to the table, imperfections and all, staying on these dating sites for years on end and lamenting their lack of "luck" in finding "The One" (you know who you are). All I can say to those folks is "Good luck with that." I try to be as honest as I possibly can be, to allow the reader to get a glimmer of who I am. Know, too, that certain private subjects have been eliminated from the questions that I chose to answer. I believe in sharing private things with someone special, not for the (perhaps) voyeuristic purview of the masses, as it were. Caveat emptor.

Equally important to note: I love my life and the people already in it, and am not "Desperately seeking Sam", but am looking for someone special to enhance and complement what I already have. Perhaps I can do the same for you?

One last (but very important) thing: You need to have filled out some semblance of a profile [words are extremely important], and at least "some" of the questions. I find both very helpful. Pic, too, but that's obvious, and not the most important thing by a long shot.