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28 M Kōchi, Japan

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 27–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:31pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Poorly), Spanish (Fluently), Malay (Poorly), Thai (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Summery, indeed.

Instead of wrestling with post university graduate decisions (none spurring much vigor), I bought a one way ticket from my native San Francisco, California to Bali, Indonesia with nothing but an old family bike and five panniers containing all my worldly belongings. That was in February 2013 and I haven't regretted a single day. Islands of Bali, Java, Sumatra, then off to Malaysia, Singapore and Thailand, I've now made my way into Japan where I teach English in a small city. It's not my first experience in front of the classroom, I really do love the freedom and creative risks in teaching. All being equal, goes without saying that I've racked up some serious kilometers on tour, and well earned grit.

That sounds like fun! Yes, true; I've had an amazing time. Not that my life before was ever quiet. Here are a few things to tease your interest: though I dropped out out of High School three times, I managed to work my way back up to graduating at the top of my class with degrees in Anthropology and Rhetoric at Berkeley; I have fundraised thousands of dollars for HIV/AIDS awareness and charity; worked as a bank manager for five years; I have broken my arm, my right wrist, my heart, and two steel bikes frames; I've climbed to the top craters, mountains, active vilcanos, and relaxed in the waters of three Oceans.

Wow, that all sounds very....ambitious. I should also mention, then, that I can be more down to earth and easy going than that. Want to spend the whole day in bed? Me too. Get drunk before attempting to cook a new recipe? Perfect. Join me in questioning everyday philosophy over a bottle of wine at the park? Live for it. Burn the next day doing puzzles with leftover Chinese food or pizza? Yes, please.

I am an unconventional San Francisco native, fun loving guy with a rigorous ambition for the love and pursuit of everything. I am working in Southern Japan for a few months until I return home and figure out the next part of my life. I'm always available for coffee or a night on the town over vacation. Give me a reason to stay.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched c-beams glitter in the dark near the Tanhauser Gate. All those...moments will be lost in time like tears in the rain. Time to die..."

What am I doing with my life? I'm living it up with extra hot sauce! Currently, working and cycling around the islands Japan.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mechanical repairs (especially bikes), cooking, eating, commenting from an unorthodox point of view, growing plants, chivalry, drinking beer, brewing beer, making something out of nothing, listening, critical thinking, analysis, not taking shit from other people, drinking top shelf whiskey from plastic cups, making people laugh, creating art from junk, discussing superhero mythology, considering the physics of superpowers, staring contests, board games, winning arguments, and I have an unnatural tendency to win at video games I've never played.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Women tend to decide that I have long eyelashes. I guess so.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: this has to be the hardest question in this get-to-know-me survey simply because I would read 85% of anything that comes in front of me.

At the time, I am reading The Story of Philosophy, a book on paradoxes in physics (ie. time travel), On The Road, The Secret Meanings of Birthdays, Discipline and Punish (again), and my first Japanese book (children's story) lol.

Note: They say not to bring dead weight with you, aka books, if you plan to travel the World by bike. I however never ever considered to not bring them - extra weight be damned! Extra points if you have have a book list you keep adding titles to.

Movies: Metropolis, A Clockwork Orange, Akira, Tron, Minority Report, Brazil, Gataca, Alien(s), Logan's Run, The Day The Earth Stood Still (1951), Dark Star, 1984, Moon, Primer, 2001, THX 1138, Donnie Darko, A Scannar Darkly, 12 Monkeys, Soylent Green, Inception, Sleeper, Back To The Future, Ghost In The Shell, The Matrix, and of course Blade Runner.

Also most anything done by Hitchcock, Cohen bros., Kubrick, or Tarantino.

Food: Understand one thing. Cycling long distances make a man really hungry by the end of the day. It is for this reason that I can, do, and love to eat - a lot. From first breakfast all the way to second dinners, doing 100 - 160 km can really work up an appetite! Plus, I know how to bang a few pots together and whip up a meal of my own =) If you take more pictures of food than you do people, then we are already friends.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
•A canine companion.
•Good food, better coffee/beer.
•A chromoly steel frame bike.
•Well writen/researched books.
•Internet access.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Those invisible social constructs; how to sharpen my writing skills.

Is it better to be locked in or shut out?

Why does OKC assume that a higher percent match is what we all want? What happened to opposites attract? So what if you answered 12 out of 15 questions exactly like me. Boring? I say to you, find someone with less than 20% match and send them a friendly message. They might surprise you...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Why wait till Friday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A woman's face which doesn't crease is a sure sign that she doesn't smile all enough.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
....if you own a unique character about yourself and proud to stand apart (aka, not shy); if your a perfectionist; if you have tattoos in unconventional locations; if you're ambitious; if you're strong and independent; if you love Life!