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32 • Bar Harbor, ME • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–39
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Yesterday – 8:01am
- 6′ 7″ (2.01m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from high school
- Strictly monogamous
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
I'm sometimes uncomfortable to be around. Sometimes I go very quiet, while I think about what I want to say next. I am SLOW.
You're NOT going to know me from a website profile. I'm happy to get lunch, dinner, coffee- there's no strings there. I like meeting people, even the ones who I wouldn't generally like spending time with. Hit me up and actually MEET me. I've been a member here for a decade; I've had two beautiful relationships, separately, with two perfectly lovely women I met on this site- and both relationships helped make me a person I am proud to be. It's just a way to meet people- so don't be scared. :)
I am REALLY good at playing the guitar.
I am REALLY good at writing.
I am REALLY good at listening and figuring out what people are really saying and understanding people.
I am REALLY GOOD at video games, and that's now that I don't even care about them much! Seriously. Freaky mutant good. I am a 30th century man.
Comics: 'The Invisibles' by Grant Morrison. 'The Invisibles' by Grant Morrison. 'Promethea' by Alan Moore. 'Transmetropolitan' by Warren Ellis. 'The Filth' by Grant Morrison. 'The Invisibles' by Grant Morrison. Grant Morrison. GRANT MORRISON! :P
Movies... 'Six-String Samurai', 'Schizopolis', 'Super Troopers', 'the Royal Tenenbaums', 'Snatch', 'Mirrormask', 'An American Astronaut', 'the Signal', 'Fido', and 'Dawn of the Dead' (the remake; yes, I said it, it's better).
I have a passionate love affair with music and she is my ice cold red hot bitch mistress. She ties me up and drags me down the street while all the neighbours are watching and wondering whether to take photos or call the cops. Here's some examples:
Arcade Fire, Blackalicious, Cheap Trick, Daft Punk, Everclear, Fugazi,
Grand Buffet, Harvey Danger, Iggy Pop, Jurassic 5, Kronos Quartet. Ladytron, Metric, Nick Cave, Oasis, Propellerheads, Queen, Todd Rundgren, the Shins, the Tragically Hip, Underworld, Violent Femmes, the Who, goddamn letter x (never really dug x the band or x-ray specs), Yo La Tengo and Frank Zappa. Wheeeee!
food... to be honest, I'm not an epicurean. I'll eat literally anything and probably a lot of it, including your friend and her date's left-overs if we're out on a double-date and they leave early. I cook a lot and generally know what I'm doing; for example, if I am making spaghetti the first choice I have to deal with is what kind of wine to use.
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