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32 Bar Harbor, ME Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:57pm
6′ 7″ (2.01m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Heck, I dunno. I feel like I'm kind of powerful. I don't take crap from anyone, unless I want to; I know myself pretty well, and worked to cultivate the parts I like. I am pretty quiet- I think a lot. I am shy, but don't have a lot of self-doubt- I think I'm great, and want to act greatly towards people. What do I know?

I'm sometimes uncomfortable to be around. Sometimes I go very quiet, while I think about what I want to say next. I am SLOW.

You're NOT going to know me from a website profile. I'm happy to get lunch, dinner, coffee- there's no strings there. I like meeting people, even the ones who I wouldn't generally like spending time with. Hit me up and actually MEET me. I've been a member here for a decade; I've had two beautiful relationships, separately, with two perfectly lovely women I met on this site- and both relationships helped make me a person I am proud to be. It's just a way to meet people- so don't be scared. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working on leveraging a lifetime of experience into a career I can be proud of. I know this sounds like an interview answer, deal with it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmmm. Well, I'm a lot stronger than I look, being tall, so I am REALLY good at carrying stuff.

I am REALLY good at playing the guitar.

I am REALLY good at writing.

I am REALLY good at listening and figuring out what people are really saying and understanding people.

I am REALLY GOOD at video games, and that's now that I don't even care about them much! Seriously. Freaky mutant good. I am a 30th century man.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am much taller than them. Then they ask me if I play basketball. (OK, so this is the one answer I did not delete and rewrite because it's too true to change.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favourite books are 'Trout Fishing in America' by Richard Brautigan, 'the Phantom Tollbooth' by Norton Jester, 'Watership Down' by Richard Adams, 'Stardust' by Neil Gaiman, 'Madame Bovary' by Gustuv Flaubert, 'Half-Asleep in Frog Pajamas' by Tom Robbins and 'Slaughterhouse 5' by Kurt Vonnegut.

Comics: 'The Invisibles' by Grant Morrison. 'The Invisibles' by Grant Morrison. 'Promethea' by Alan Moore. 'Transmetropolitan' by Warren Ellis. 'The Filth' by Grant Morrison. 'The Invisibles' by Grant Morrison. Grant Morrison. GRANT MORRISON! :P

Movies... 'Six-String Samurai', 'Schizopolis', 'Super Troopers', 'the Royal Tenenbaums', 'Snatch', 'Mirrormask', 'An American Astronaut', 'the Signal', 'Fido', and 'Dawn of the Dead' (the remake; yes, I said it, it's better).

I have a passionate love affair with music and she is my ice cold red hot bitch mistress. She ties me up and drags me down the street while all the neighbours are watching and wondering whether to take photos or call the cops. Here's some examples:

Arcade Fire, Blackalicious, Cheap Trick, Daft Punk, Everclear, Fugazi,
Grand Buffet, Harvey Danger, Iggy Pop, Jurassic 5, Kronos Quartet. Ladytron, Metric, Nick Cave, Oasis, Propellerheads, Queen, Todd Rundgren, the Shins, the Tragically Hip, Underworld, Violent Femmes, the Who, goddamn letter x (never really dug x the band or x-ray specs), Yo La Tengo and Frank Zappa. Wheeeee!

food... to be honest, I'm not an epicurean. I'll eat literally anything and probably a lot of it, including your friend and her date's left-overs if we're out on a double-date and they leave early. I cook a lot and generally know what I'm doing; for example, if I am making spaghetti the first choice I have to deal with is what kind of wine to use.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cat and my guitar.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just... just everything. My mind races like Dale Earnhardt, including the unexpected crashes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't do crowded bars. I do not like cramped noisy spaces. I'm game for literally anything else, and I'm not a total jerkass; sometimes I just put on my game face and go out with people for drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! that I don't give out private information on the internet!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re confident enough to share a picture where you're not wearing makeup. I will know. You've got to be able to be straight with me; I'm not going to waste years of my life with a woman that expects me to be able to read her mind. I care deeply, but you've got to be able to tell me what you need in plain language.