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35 F Mountain View, CA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 26–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:25am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), Other

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My self-summary
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Hello world. I like mammals, lychees and thick stockings. I have a tan in the summer, monitor burn in the winter, and a gorgeously goofy puppy all year round.

Professionally, I work with computers and people. Occasionally, I am also a formal student, which is a fancy way of saying I'm an under-socialized and over-educated masochist who pays for the experience.

As typical of many engineer types, I prefer verbally explicit honest communication, use words as descriptors rather than value judgements, fall into problem-solving mode too easily, and am comfortable with silence.

Do not take a lack of response personally - I go through periods where I don't log in to OKCupid for months, and then I'll be on for days at a time. I am more reliably reached via mobile.

I am talented, curious, and intellectual.

Update as of 201410: I just started a new job in SF, so while I'd love to hang out, between New Job Stuff, the commute, remodeling, and the new puppy, timing is very tight.
What I’m doing with my life
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Three years ago, I spent my vacation traveling solo through Italy. Two years ago, I visited Morocco and Colorado, though not solo. Last year, I visited Seattle, Portland, and Dallas, and bought a fixer-upper duplex. This year, my life consists of juggling work I get paid for, work on the house, and raising a puppy.

I hang out with ebullient, playful, self-aware people while rock climbing, adventuring, and performing random acts of kindness. In general, I am often found around other athletic geek-types, with sunny smiles and mischevious sparkling eyes who want to change the world for the better.

I have two far-too-cute-for-my-own-good dogs. At home, the older one is often found coaxing inanimate objects to play with him, and the younger one is often found getting into something he shouldn't. They are so Dog. Much lickings. Wow.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
breaking software, fixing systems, eating, gardening (stems from the eating), making bad puns, honing my l33t monkey skillz, entertaining myself, acquiring odd talents, and finding pennies on the street
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm short and traditional-looking. I have long hair and glasses. Empirical testing reveals that people also think I'm personable, calming, intimidating, and articulate. I often have a incredibly cute dogs trotting beside me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I am currently reading a smattering of nonfiction
Movies/TV: I am pop culture challenged
Music: stuff that fits my mood, skewed towards songs I can sing along with while in my car (I'm tone-deaf). I am currently obsessed with an accapella band called Pentatonix because their musical ability blows my mind.
Foods & Beverages: the yummy kinds with calories, stuff I cook, and stuff I haven't tried before! I like drinking water
Comics: I have developed a taste for Hyperbole and a Half and xkcd
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, family, and dogs
The first few layers of Maslow's hierarchy
Something interesting to learn
Long hot showers
Breakfasts of sunshine + warm chicken bao + bubble tea = pure joy
A computer with a high-speed net connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work-related technology (AWS, OpenStack, ESX, configuration management, ruby, how more technical diagrams should include the color pink), home repair/remodeling, how amazingly wonderful and supportive and wise my friends are, gadgets, logical/relational patterns, how to minimize possessions and simplify my life, sustainable gardening, and anything else that catches my fancy. I am more of a generalist than a specialist.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'd like to say I'm hanging out with friends, but really, I'm either repairing/remodeling something, or cleaning. Mostly cleaning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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None of the below are private. They're just a collection of facts I didn't know where else to put.

The scientist in me sees the world not in black and white but in technicolor, full of wondrous discoveries just barely tucked out of sight.
Calculus didn't really make sense until I hit multi-variable calculus, and physics only makes sense if I understand the math behind it.
I am more of a bad-girl-gone-good than a good-girl-gone-bad.
I have no rhythm but sometimes take sexy dance classes anyway.
I am more often found on google+ than any other social networking site. While able to be very social, I am more of an introvert than an extrovert.
I am scared of heights, rock climb regularly, and have skydived.
I often experience synesthesia while reading code, and come with an operating manual. While I love and will always love tech, I work to live, not live to work.
I am slowly making friends with my girlie-girl side.
I might be a crazy dog lady in the making. Time will tell.
I have discovered the power of small braids for repelling grime, and a fanatical love for gorilla feet (aka Vibram FiveFinger shoes).
I leave them better than I found them.
I get unreasonably tongue-tied around curvy, confident women. While I am listed as Bisexual here, I'm really about a Kinsey 4.5 and on the homoromantic side, with a bias towards any gender queers. Men, this translates to I'm most likely interested in friendship, not romance or sex.
You should message me if
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You want a friend to go rock climbing, trampolining or adventuring with

You or your dog would like to play with my dogs

You are amused by my profile and you are are also an anomoly according to

You are also a fun-loving kinky queer looking for friends (or more)

Your vocabulary is larger than "hey", "hi", "what's up", and their equivalents. Concise polysyllabic words are sexy

I do have a very intense career that I enjoy and that limits my fun-time online. Because of this, I prioritize messages that show the person read my profile. I do try to reply back in a timely manner, but give no guarantees.