Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a 32 y/o woman from Tyler, Texas, USA.
I am a Christian, but have had great friendships with wiccans,
atheists, and even a satanist or two...
My passion, however, is music
, and my favorite band used to be
changed, however, when they decided their American fans weren't
good enough. Fuckers. >_>
Other passions are gay cinema
, gay culture
in general, horror movies
I am clever, flabulous, and insane
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to learn how to write a screenplay and working on a
childrens' book. I'm also a karaoke diva!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing. It's the only thing I've ever had a talent for, and it
comes ridiculously easy to me. So much so, it took close friends
YEARS to convince me I was any good at it. *blush*. I'm no Anne
Rice or Mary Higgins Clark, but I'm pretty good. :P
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm fat. It's true! That's usually what decides for me who is or is
not a good person to get involved with. If they can see past my
size, and get to know me, they're ok in my book.
After that, they tend to notice my sense of humor. They either like
it, or hate it. Most people like it, thankfully. :P
Then, people soon notice how deeply devoted and caring I can be. I
am very empathic and my friends and loved ones are very, very dear
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends
2. My computer
3. Cable (high speed) internet
4. Beloved pets.
5. Good, gory horror movies
6. And, of course, LOVE!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love...I'm a heartsick, lonely romantic. I still cling to the hope
that my someone is out there, dreaming of me as I'm dreaming of
Sappy, I know, but that's me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Singing karaoke at the 11th Frame Club at Green Acres Bowling
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There is not enough space in this text window...I'm a very open
person, so if you want to know it, ask it. I'd rather let someone
know up front what they're getting into with me than to play coy
and keep the freaky shit to myself, and spring it on them when they
least expect it. :P
Also, I am extremely old-fashioned when it comes to love and
relationships. I don't believe in having sex with someone I do not
love and who I'm not sure loves me. On the downside, this ensures
many lonely Friday nights :/ ...on the upside, this means that
whenever I do end up with someone it will be meaningful. ^^
I am also bi-polar and suffer from social anxiety disorder. Fear
not, I am on medication and am perfectly fine, but it is a part of
who I am. Because of both disorders I am on Social Security
disability. I know some people can't deal with all that, but the
person I am looking for will love me regardless.
You should message me if
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You think I'd be interesting to talk to. You should NOT message me
if you only want cyber sex. I grew out of cyber sex once I started
having REAL sex...And I figure others are like minded, so if you're
hustling me for cyber, you must not be able to get the real
thing...In which case, I feel for you.
You also should NOT message me if it's just to tell me how fat,
pathetic and/or ugly I am. I get it...you're shallow. You have no
life and feel better about yourself by putting others down. It's
ok, it doesn't make you a loser...ok, yes it does, but only a loser
with a little l, not a big L...You'll be fine.
I want someone to converse with, someone I can get to know and who
wants to get to know me...if you don't want the same thing,
I am looking for a serious, committed, MONOGAMOUS
relationship...not a one-night stand, not a "friend with benefits".
I can get either of those quite easily. I want someone to care
about and who will care about me. If you aren't potentially looking
for the same thing, please look elsewhere.
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