Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think I'd be interesting to talk to. You should NOT message me
if you only want cyber sex. I grew out of cyber sex once I started
having REAL sex...And I figure others are like minded, so if you're
hustling me for cyber, you must not be able to get the real
thing...In which case, I feel for you.
You also should NOT message me if it's just to tell me how fat,
pathetic and/or ugly I am. I get it...you're shallow. You have no
life and feel better about yourself by putting others down. It's
ok, it doesn't make you a loser...ok, yes it does, but only a loser
with a little l, not a big L...You'll be fine.
I want someone to converse with, someone I can get to know and who
wants to get to know me...if you don't want the same thing,
I am looking for a serious, committed, MONOGAMOUS
relationship...not a one-night stand, not a "friend with benefits".
I can get either of those quite easily. I want someone to care
about and who will care about me. If you aren't potentially looking
for the same thing, please look elsewhere.