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29 M Kearny, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:52pm
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
The first thing people would say about me if you asked them is "dude's fucking tall."

I've only been to two countries outside of the USA; Canada, and Costa Rica. I had a blast at both and can't wait to visit them again. I also want to travel to Europe, Japan, and New Zealand. A travel buddy would be nice *not so subtle wink*

My idea of a fun time includes: Indoor rock climbing, white water rafting, zip lining, attending metal concerts, performing at metal concerts, watching UFC events, practicing BJJ, dead lifts and squats, Xbox 360 (I don't trust you Xbox One with your Kinect!), watching a stupidly awesome movie or an awesomely stupid movie, learning random useless facts through Wikipedia, and most importantly, taking care of my puppy Griffin.

My main passion is Mixed Martial Arts, and in particular Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. I have been training in BJJ and Muay Thai for nearly 3 years now, and am a junior instructor at my school. I enjoy teaching a lot, and would like to one day become an instructor myself.

I have moments where I display levels of pure genius intellect and decision making, but more often than not I'll probably have you wondering why I'm not wearing a helmet and swimmies.

There's plenty more about me to learn, but I do better answering questions than simply speaking off the top of my head. What would you like to know?
What I’m doing with my life
Working towards potentially becoming a Jiu-Jitsu instructor down the road. Becoming a certified personal trainer has also crossed my mind.
I’m really good at
Being taller than everyone else in a room.

Minesweeper. Yes, I know how to play.

And massages. Big guy, big hands, you do the math.
The first things people usually notice about me
*Picks up the phone, calls friend*
Friend: Sup dude?
Me: Hey, when we first met, what was the first thing you noticed about me?
Friend: How good you smelled.
Me: *click*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Podcasts: The Joe Rogan Experience, Dan Carlin's Hardcore History

Shows: The Walking dead, Family Guy, South Park, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, anything UFC related

Music: People assume that just because I'm a metal head that it's all i listen to. Not true. I appreciate many forms of music, so long as there is quality songwriting and musicianship/lyrics. I just can't stand shitty music with terrible singers, no soul, awful songwriting, and nothing interesting to talk about. So with that being said, here's a short list of bands/artists i regularly have playing on my Ipod: Nasum, Cynic (hence the username), Slayer, Metallica, Mos Def, Method Man & Redman, Pantera, Katalepsy, Pig Destroyer, Misery Index, NWA, Immolation, Dave Matthews Band, Janek Gwizdala, Victor Wooten, Billy Sheehan, Wormed, I just downloaded Evan Brewer's solo records, and they are good.

Movies: All time faves include The Negotiator, Batman Begins, A Bittersweet Life, Oldboy, Sympathy for Mr. Vengeance, Battle Royale, The Dark Knight, The Avengers, Pacific Rim, The Pirates of The Caribbean series, The Bourne Trilogy, The Ocean's trilogy, Ong Bak, Snatch, The Wrestler, Transformers: Dark of the Moon, High (Haute) Tension, Kill Bill, The Boondock Saints, Cloverfield.
The six things I could never do without
A barbell
A good bed
My dogs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- The new Godzilla movie. If it's bad I will cry, legitimately *update* I enjoyed it

- When will my iPhone figure out that I really am trying to type "shit", not "shut"?
On a typical Friday night I am
Choking and/or getting choked. Sometimes armbars come into play too.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Your idea of going to the gym involves lifting heavy shit off the ground.

Or if you'd like to do any of the following activities:
-Go to concerts
-Go bike riding
-Dog parks
-Master the art of Ameri-Do-Te
-Walk around New York City
-Go to a yoga class
-Take a Boxing/Muy Thai/Jiu-Jitsu class
-Run For Your Lives or Spartan Race
-Crash at home and play some XBox