Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's been a full and colorful life so far and while I've slowed
down a bit these past few years I think my spirit still conveys the
best parts of my past and I'm far from finished looking for
I'm funny, playful, a tad cynical yet serious where it counts. I'm
clear and direct in my communication and those close to me know
they can count on me for no holds barred opinion. Not in the "I
have no filter" sort of way but I'm not afraid to shoot
I like to let new relationships find their own balance and fit in
my life without trying to force them into a particular box. That
might end up being a long term committed relationship, but it also
might be a new friend, a casual lover, a cuddle buddy or a dating
somebody I only see occasionally. Regardless of what it looks like,
I am looking for somebody I find a real connection with. Intimacy
is vulnerable, but isn't everything worthwhile?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've had several successful careers in my life and have recently
embarked on what I hope is my last. I'm self motivated and a hard
worker who works a lot but knows how to take time for play and
volunteering for a nonprofit or two.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking, listening, seeing the other point of view, growing
intimacy, helping others, and a few other things you may want to
ask me about in person.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The mischievous glint in my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't read enough for pleasure anymore although I'm usually
reading something that is teaching me a thing or two. I've recently
started listening to books which is helping me get more
recreational "reading" back in my life.
I generally like most music but tend to lean towards rock both
classic and alternative (whatever that is anymore) and jazz, (the
more outside the better) and away from country. Although... I've
recently been enjoying a little bit of alternative country now and
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never is such a strong word. Let's go with six things I would
rather not do without.
Art of all kinds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex Positivity and how thankfully the definition of that is
expanding more all the time.
How depth of intimacy directly correlates to one's willingness to
take risks in relationships.
How I can better communicate that I'm much more light hearted in
person than this profile conveys.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be getting together with friends, heading out of town or
laying low in preparation for a weekend full of work.
You should message me if
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You think we might enjoy each other and you would like to meet for
coffee, a bite to eat, or a stroll through an art museum or gallery
to see if we have a connection.
You have at least a basic understanding of how ethical non-monogamy
works and preferably some actual practice.
Who are you looking for?
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