Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am interested in meeting people for a variety of reasons. I
always approach meeting new people from a place of hopefulness that
if nothing else I will be adding a new friend to my life. I am open
to a lot of possibilities and never have expectations about how
things turn out. It could be just hanging out, meeting for a drink,
coffee, dinner, going to a museum, flirting or exploring the
possibility of sexual chemistry of a variety of flavors.
I consider myself "responsibly non-monogamous" or polyamorous of
the "talk about everything" variety. I find that being more clear
rather than less can assist in avoiding the dreaded pitfalls of
miscommunication, expectation & assumption. I've been living
this way for over 9 years now and find that it fits my life much
Being non-monogamous doesn't mean that I am irresponsible or
indiscriminate about my emotional or sexual relationships. It means
I believe in the possibility to have sex with, connect via bdsm or
love more then one person during any given time period in my life.
It means that I am open to a variety of possibilities within the
parameters of responsible non-monogamy. It does not mean that I
feel the need date as many people as I can possibly fit on the
calendar. It does not mean that I involve myself with whoever I
want without considering how those involvements affect my other
partners and partners partners,
Clear, direct, open and honest communication is of the utmost
importance to me. If you have trouble identifying what it is you
want or need or at least how to figure it out we are probably not
going to have much beyond a casual friendship. I am the type of
person who makes casual friends easily but only becomes close with
those who are willing to open up and be deeply honest with me.
Those types of relationships take time but when they happen I am as
loyal to them as a person can be.
What I’m doing with my life
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In search of deeper, expanding and healthy friendships.
Appreciating the arts, good food, the outdoors and my friends.
I’m really good at
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Talking, listening, critiquing art, cooking, helping others and one
or two other things you may want to ask me about in person. :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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The mischievous glint in my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read enough for pleasure anymore. Mostly I read things to
educate myself about my business or sex positivity and
relationships. So, anything to do with art, modern design,
sexuality, bdsm, relationships, or sexuality and
relationships-especially those considered alternative by the
I like most music but lately tend to lean towards jazz and rock and
roll and away from country.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not being limited by someone elses or some entities rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is next for me and what the path of growth will look
How it is that people come into this world innocent and pure and
are slowly tainted by the environment in which they grow.
What it is that I am going to do next to earn money in an even more
socially responsible way.
IF YOU'RE NOT PART OF THE SOLUTION, YOU'RE PART OF THE PROBLEM. -
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't tend to be very private except for where a few clients and
my family are concerned. I think what they are looking for here is
something titillating like....
Shades of Grey is a joke, but I'm not joking!
You should message me if
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You think we have something in common and would like to meet for
coffee, a bite or a stroll through an art museum or gallery to see
if we might really have a connection.
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