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36 M Brooklyn, NY

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Yesterday – 9:01am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am not your typical guy. So you have been warned!

I am an artist, a social scientist, a philosopher, a musician, a songwriter, and a person with a deep spiritual identity focused on personal growth, self-realization, and expression. I am a business professional by day, and while my dedication to this endeavor has increased as I mature, I strive always to maintain my playful, silly, and truest self in this context. I have realized that only when I allow myself to maintain my truest identity, is it possible for me to both enjoy and thrive in business (and everything else).

I am looking for a creative, passionate, empathetic, empowered, silly, witty, and gorgeous (to me) woman to make magic with.
What I’m doing with my life
A lot. (two words)
I’m really good at
Being silly. Songwriting. Thinking unconventionally. Bringing the inner-child out of people. Necking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think in some way, most people notice my presence. I mean this more metaphysically than physically. I carry a lot of energy in a compact human body and I think most people feel that. How that's reacted to has more to do with the other person than it does with me. I might pull you in like a moon to the earth, I might overwhelm you like an atom bomb. But once you talk to me and realize I am peaceful, you probably like me regardless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: The classics (The Beatles, Dylan, The Smiths, Joni Mitchell, The Rolling Stones, Paul Simon, Rod Stewart, Bruce Springsteen, and so on). Contemporary (Ryan Adams, Midlake, Fleet Foxes, Rufus Wainwright, Andrew Bird, Wilco, The Strokes, Joanna Newsom, Spoon, and so on)

Movies: Boogie Nights, Lost in Translation, Waiting for Guffman, I'm Ron Burgundy?, Gangs of New York, I Am Sam, Annie Hall.

Books: Moby Dick, The Power of Now, Wholeness and the Implicate Order, The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life, and other stuff.

Food: I like most food, the spicier and more fun - the better.
The six things I could never do without
My guitar
Ice Cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Growth, my future, my career, my yet-to-be-determined family.
On a typical Friday night I am
...wishing I had someone I deeply wanted to be with instead of going out hoping to find someone to be with.

Oh, and also probably being silly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am hard-edged with wit and intellect, but I want nothing more than to be soft and giving and protective of someone with whom I share a deep and honest, co-creative love.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You believe, you have been refined and wisely tamed by your wildness, you are flexible, you are silly, you are smart, you are empathetic, you are colorful, you are dynamic, you are expressive, you are sensual, you are powerful.