Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a UW-Madison graduate currently figuring out where I want to go
from there and working on evolving as a person. I live in
Middleton, but I work and spend alot of my freetime in Madison. I
love hanging out with people who just want to have fun, and it
never hurts to meet more of those people. If it develops into
something more, that's great.
I like to think I am a pretty laid back, outgoing type of guy. I
love the process of getting to know somebody and understanding
where they are coming from and what motivates them in life. I
especially enjoy talking one-on-one with people so they can really
open up to about what they think. Also, you can count on me to be
there when you just need a trustworthy, compassionate ear. What I
ask in return is that you tolerate points of view that differ from
your own and refrain from passing judgement on others: I prefer a
live-and-let-live approach to treating others.
When I am not out doing something new and exciting, it would be
nice to share a couch with someone and watch a movie or just relax
to music or a good conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
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Transitioning: I have finished my education and am working a job
while trying to look for a career. Changing who I am through
exercising (running at night and biking to work), making new
friends, returning to reading whatever I want, and beginning to
dabble in a little creative writing. Also, travel back and forth
between Madison and Middleton nearly every single day (Seriously,
give me any excuse to spend more time in Madison). Most
importantly, though, from all of this, exploring who I am and
learning a lot about life.
Also, I'm improving my pool skills, since one of housemates just
bought a pool table.
I’m really good at
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Listening to other people's stories. Figuring out where that thing
is that you just lost. Pop psychology. Ankle massages. Literary
analysis, aparently. Picking up on other people's mannerisms.
Historical trivia. Public speaking: somehow I keep ending up having
to do it. Problem solving and negotiating. Predicting plot points
in movies. Dancing, or at least having fun dancing. Identifying
songs from the intro, before the lyrics start.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am never completely at rest. Instead, I am always thinking or
working. There is always some project going. There is always
something on the tip of my tongue. There is always some aspect of
my life to improve. Or that I am a snappy dresser. Or maybe I
ordered white wine at a bar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: "We" Evgeny Zamyatin, "Notes from the Underground" Fyodor
Dostoevsky, "Brave New World" Aldous Huxley, any of Isaac Asimov's
robot stories, most of Edgar Allen Poe's short stories, "Animal
Farm" George Orwell, "The Great Gatsby" F Scott Fitzgeral
TV: Breaking Bad, Burn Notice
Music: A very ecclectic mix including Dance/Club Music, Pop Music
('80s to present), Funk, New Wave, anything with a strong beat;
Little Boots, Lights, Ace of Base, Human League, The Killers,
Chromeo, and I could go on and on
Movies: "Drive", "Easy A", "The Usual Suspects", "Wild Things",
"Fight Club", "Wall-E", anything with a good plot twist
Food: I think I like simple things done well the best. It's fun to
have a night in and prepare meat and mashed potatoes (a speciality
of mine) and then complement it with wine. Also really good, soft
rolls or other bread products are always nice. And perfectly
prepared pasta, where it is just the right amount done.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends I trust
A place to walk and think
A plan for the weekend
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People. People fascinate me endlessly because I always want to know
what drives us to do what we do. Also, as far as I can tell, even
when people mess up, it is usually with the best intentions. And if
somebody I know is hurting, I really want to say just the right
thing to them to make them smile and realize life isn't as
miserable as it seemed. Aside from people, I love a good story and
characters. I will spend a lot of time picking apart books and
films trying to figure out why they work and what makes them
However, when I am alone, I am constantly trying to work on growing
as a person. So that may mean thinking about my career plans. Or I
could be planning what kind of experiences I want out of the
upcoming weekend. It could be deciding what I am going to work on
in the evening. There's even a good chance it is just trying to
figure out what I am feeling at that particular moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Anywhere, as long as it is with a friend or friends! Maybe at a
bar. Maybe dancing. Maybe on the couch with others watching a movie
or a TV show. Or maybe just out walking. As long as I am doing it
with interesting people, I don't really care.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That depends. Once you are a friend, ask me just about anything,
and I will probably give you an honest answer. In the
-When I was in high school, I wanted to be a forensic scientist,
until the explosion of shows focusing on fictional forensic
-For a while, I was the president of the largest ballroom dance
club at UW-Madison. It's not a huge part of who I am now, but I had
a lot of fun.
-Several years ago, I had a circle beard. I really don't know why I
thought that was a good idea. If I still had it now, I would
probably looking like an aspiring James Bond villian.
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