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D8rOfTheLostArk

42 Alhambra, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:00am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm always in process, because there's always something to learn. The cool thing about being in a relationship is that it can be more fun to share what I learn with someone else, and to learn from that person, too. But that doesn't mean it's all serious stuff. You'll find that out when I try to distract you after I spill something on myself. Or when I suggest we share our entrees, because it's fun to try new things. Or when we discover that there's some neighborhood that neither of us has visited, and make a day of exploring it together.

Oh, and I'm an ENFJ, if that's important.
What I’m doing with my life
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Laughing at Largo, smelling the flowers at Huntington Gardens, indulging in wine and music at the Hollywood Bowl, strolling museums, working in advertising 9-5, writing screenplays on my patio on the weekends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jumping over puddles
Choosing the perfect birthday card
Raising one eyebrow
Trusting my instincts
Making people feel at home
Backrubs
Making people laugh (intentionally)
Kissing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite band is The National. Currently also listening to the new Mumford & Sons album, Of Monsters and Men, Alvvays, Wye Oak and Makthaverskan. Also love '80s new wave.

Lately I've been reading a lot of books on mindfulness.

Favorite shows at the moment are The Walking Dead (and Talking Dead), Game of Thrones, Broadchurch, The Last Man on Earth, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, The Returned (the original, French version), Better Call Saul, OITNB, Inside Amy Schumer and The Americans.

Podcasts: Professor Blastoff, Alison Rosen Is Your New Best Friend, Ronna and Beverly, Nerdist, Scriptnotes, On the Page, Serial

Some of my all-time favorite movies are Tootsie, Annie Hall, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Strictly Ballroom, Chinatown, Jaws, Rear Window and Little Miss Sunshine.

Love wine and cheese, a good whiskey craft cocktail, roasted broccoli, pizza, sushi, guac and chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the (hopefully) obvious family, dog, friends, health and shelter:

Lots of picture frames (to hold family photos)
Genuine laughs
My curiosity
A sense of humor
Creative breakthroughs
Vacation days
Words (in case it wasn't obvious)
Warm smiles
Occasional rainy days

(and yes, I can count - I'm just not one for limitations)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where or what I'd like to explore next, and whom I'll get to take on those adventures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Kickboxing. Then, listening to a podcast while wishing away traffic on the 710. Once home, relaxing with my dog and a glass of wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not so private, but I have two tattoos, with plans for two more soon.

Also not at all private, but I'm very allergic to cats, which is unfortunate because there are so many lovely cat owners on this site. But seriously, it's bad. Medication works for a few hours, and then it's like...have you seen a swollen eyeball? Not eye. EYEBALL. Right.
You should message me if
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You'll introduce me to some little-known corner of Los Angeles that will turn into our special spot. You'll hike the Inca Trail with me, and not roll your eyes when altitude sickness repeatedly takes me out. You'll at least pretend I'm the funniest person you know. You'll get lost with me through a medieval European city, then insist we rest our feet when we discover a cafe with amazing pastries in its window. You believe the beagle you pass on the street daily knows his owner’s secrets. You'll admit that there are things you don't know, but want to learn about them and figure stuff out. You see a little kid making a pink, slobbery, strawberry mess with an ice cream cone, and smile. You complain about your mother’s weekly badgering, but when it gets right down to it, can’t do without family. You think every day should begin and end with a kiss, hopefully involving a woman. More specifically, a woman you're dating. Even more specifically, me.