My idea of "the perfect woman" is a beautiful stand-up comic who moonlights as a rocket scientist. However, if I can find somebody that can just make me laugh, that's a good start. I'm pretty good at making people laugh myself... maybe AT me, but a smile's a smile, right? I've got a job that keeps me very busy, a mortgage and all the usual domestic responsibilities, but I'm still a kid at heart... and I'm looking for the same. Of course being 37, the thoughts of marriage & family aren't buried so deeply anymore, but I don't want to rush into anything like that... when I do find true love (twooo wuv!), I'll be ready! I may be a pragmatic, logical geek, but I've got a healthy dash of spontaneity & a romantic side.
I'm very honest, open & direct. Not to say that I don't sugar-coat things sometimes, but I find most of the whole "dating game" annoying... If I like you, you'll know... if I don't, you'll know that too. It's safe to say I talk too much, but I'm a good listener too... so if you have lots of opinions & like to talk, we'll get along fine. We may not agree on everything, but that's ok.
Like everybody else, I'm a mix of contrasting bits...
*logical & analytical yet pretty open with my emotions.
*I'm a planner, I make lists, I look before I leap and I do my homework before I make up my mind.. yet I have an impulsive streak that comes out around people or things I'm passionate about.
*I'm pretty laid-back and try not to sweat the things I have no control over but I yell at slow drivers in the left lane.
*emotionally, it takes quite a bit to make me angry and insulting me is a big waste of time, but I cry during sappy movies or moving songs.
*I'm pretty opinionated (i test out as an INTJ on here sometimes), but I believe in very few absolutes and always leave myself space to be wrong.
*I'm a dog person but I like cats too!