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55 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 51–59
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs
My philosophy: I judge bartenders by how well they make a dry martini.
I do my best thinking while in motion; I take long walks. Sitting and staring out the window, as I'm doing now, doesn't quite work. (Hence the flat profile.)
Contrary to my ridiculous charm, intelligence, good looks, and sexual prowess, I'm actually a very private person. I don't last long in noisy crowds; I've been told I'm quite appealing one-on-one, however.
I have a love-hate relationship with technology. I take in a lot of information, and it's great for that. Still, reading Kindle books makes me feel so . . . cheap. (Fie on thee, Amazon.)
If you were a super-hero, who would you be?
How 'bout this:
-I can cook chicken and not dry it out. Usually.
-I know how to properly use semicolons
-I routinely put the toilet seat down
Because I edit books for a living, I don't do movies well. Stories take time to unfold. A rockin' soundtrack does not equal a good movie. (Frankly, the same can be said for cooking with butter.)
Music = jazz. Mostly. Although, listening to Beethoven's sixth the other day drove me to distraction. I was a heavy metal kid in high school, have been laid flat by the blues, have flirted with new country. I absolutely do not understand pop.
Food = anything that isn't moving on the plate. Sushi. A martini and raw oysters. A steak (rare, please). Fried in butter, no; sauteed with a little extra-virgin olive oil, absolutely. I'm philosophically undecided about organic. On the one hand, I'm all for it. But let's be honest--What did they DO to that organic asparagus to get it to me? Did they nestle it against the breast of a virgin and sing to it? Or did they perhaps wrap it in god knows what and bathe it in truck exhaust? Just sayin'.
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I've noticed that many of you ladies have had professional photos taken. Makes me wonder if I should do the same. Tell me, please.
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