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47 M Los Angeles, CA

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
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Has kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
The short-form me:
Food craver. Child raiser. Brand baker. Hate hater. Digital paver. Creativator. Music maker.

The long-form me:
I'm in tune with the world and those around me. I'm a loving father above all things. I like people and they generally like me. Overall, I belong in the world. It suits me.

I listen well and I care deeply. I'm direct in how I express my thoughts and feelings. Super loyal and kind to the core... All of my former paramours still think highly of me.

I am completely unafraid of making mistakes. I've built a great life from the results of trial and error. Some choices in life have left me bruised, bloodied and battered. But never broken. My life echoes the words of Douglas Adams: “I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.”
What I’m doing with my life
I'm pretty creative. I've been a musician all my life and did it professionally long ago. These days I help run a thriving advertising agency. Work is like the rest of my life: incredibly rewarding and equally demanding. Still, I find time to serve the things and the people in my life that matter most. Because that's what matters most!
I’m really good at
Being a father. Writing songs. Landing on my feet. Explaining myself. Cartwheels. Conflict resolution. Compromise. Communication. Cracking wise. Consideration. Creative thinking. Coparenting. Alliteration. Apologizing. Holding your hand. Being aware of others. Giving. Always giving.

Not so good at small talk, scrapbooking, hangovers, minding my own plate, camping, shmoozing, waiting in line, cherry-drops, large unruly crowds, sneezing with my eyes open, da' club, avoiding sour candy, and telling the difference between Dylan McDermott and Dermot Mulrooney.
The first things people usually notice about me
The crown on my head? I dunno, I suppose it's my calm demeanor and direct eye contact. When you are in front of me, there is no one else. I'm 100% engaged. A conversationalist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot of biographies, listen to TED Talks and subscribe to several magazines.

Big time movie junkie. My favorites are Sophie's Choice, Magnolia, Goodfellas, La Vien Rose, Usual Suspects, Amelie, She's Having a Baby, Schindler's List, Singles, anything by Quentin Tarantino, David Fincher, Coen Bros. and Paul Thomas Anderson.

Musically, I'm into pretty much any song that is constructed well. I favor singer songwriter types like Ryan Adams, Rhett Miller and Elliot Smith. I have every recording ever released by both Neil Finn and Frank Sinatra.

Food wise, I could completely sustain myself on the the three M's: Mexican food, mint chip ice cream and margaritas.
The six things I could never do without
My children. Possibility. Information. Creative thought. Songs. The ocean. Maybe you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to create more space between stimulus and response.
On a typical Friday night I am
Running down a dream. Or, it's running me down. Depends on the week I've had.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was a kid, I loved to eat toasted pop tarts slathered with melted butter. Oh, also, I don't really wear a crown. Not on dates anyway.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are someone who is nice, down to earth, natural, funny, warm, affectionate, honest, easy on the eyes, loyal, solid, reliable, and you know yourself. Very well.

If you have things to teach me, that's HUGE! I don't want to date someone who is identical to myself. I'd love to meet someone who has a few contrary views and lots of stories to tell. Inspire me and I'm all yours.