I've been described by some of my friends and family members as funny, sarcastic, nutty and chubby. I'm an introvert who has social anxiety and due to this reason coupled with my current job, I have a very hard time meeting new people/prospective significant others. Due to my debilitating shyness I've never asked out a single one of my ex-girlfriends; they all asked me out first.
One thing you'll learn about me right from meeting me is that I'm a very trusting, warm, kind person. However, if you deem it necessary to hurt me/commit infidelity I'll give up on you almost immediately. I'm not a fan of drama, nor am I open-minded about polygamy or infidelity (I've never cheated on someone and would like to meet someone who values fidelity and loyalty as much as I do).
What I'm looking for in a significant other is someone who is willing to split the bills and who, like me, would ultimately be willing to parlay the money necessary to purchase a home. I'm in the process of putting together a down payment for one, but have a feeling that without a two-income setup I won't be able to for at least another four or five years. I know, it's rather blunt of me to admit, but I really do want to own a home. I've been renting apartments for over ten years and just recently I moved into a massive town-home and now even a town-home isn't big enough for me. I'm determined to own one by or before my 35th birthday.
Things I like to do in my spare time are go to concerts, movies (all genres interest me, though I lean more towards action/adventure and sci-fi), listen to music (almost all the time), travel around Cali if I can get a group together, or occasionally go to dinner. I'm a border-line vegetarian, so I try to eat in more often than not.
I'm a staunch liberal, so if you're a conservative/Republican just put my profile on hide. Again, I apologize for being blunt, but conflicts over politics (or anything for that matter) don't really sit well with me.
Last but certainly not least, because I own two kittens I ask that only someone who likes and is not allergic to cats message me. My cats are my children as far as I'm concerned and, since I don't plan on having actual kids, I would very much appreciate it if my partner views them in a similar light.