Hi, I'm 55, divorced since March '08, and taking classes online, to obtain a Bachelor's Degree in Information Systems. I work part-time as a Handyman, Furniture Builder/Restorer, and all-around woodworker. Life is fun, though sometimes hectic, and I'm looking for that special someone to share the rest of my life with. Who wants to grow old alone?
But I want to start out slowly, and be friends, date for a while, and see what develops. I'm not into casual sex, or being "friends with benefits," but I miss the closeness, the cuddling, the conversations while spooning afterward. I've gone out a few times, with some women I've met here and elsewhere, but that spark just wasn't there. But happily, I'm still friends with most of them, and we correspond regularly.
So if I sound like someone you'd like to meet, write me here, and I'll give you my personal email addie. We can take it from there, or if you live quite a ways away, we can chat, or be pen-pals. Don't be shy, give me a try!

I am Upbeat, Outgoing, and Passoinate

Like I said above, school, part-time work, and I belong to a Health Club, where I go regularly to swim, and work on toning and conditioning. I enjoy biking, hiking, camping, being near water, (Pisces, you know,) and all manner of outdoor activities. But I also like cuddling on the couch, watching a vid; romantic dinners with soft candle light, gardening and working around the house.
I'm looking for someone who shares my interests, and maybe even an exercise partner. It's more fun sharing than going it alone.
I also have a son, (25) and a daughter, (17), who live close by, so I see them regularly. They're great kids, and a testament to the fine upbringing I managed to give them. So I would prefer a partner who has children also, because it's so much easier to relate. Whether they're grown or not doesn't matter, but at our age, how young can they be? LOL.
To me, life is better shared.......especially when the sum of two parts is greater than the whole. The magic that exists between two people who are best friends, lovers and equal partners is unparalleled, in my experiece, and it's what I'm searching for.

Socializing, witty conversation, and being a part of, rather than standing by and observing. I'm an excellent cook, gardener, handyman and philosopher. I am at ease, whether I'm outdoors camping, or indoors working on "honey-do" projects; stepping out for a night on the town, or going for a romantic walk on the beach.
I'm outgoing and gregarious, and trying to have fun in life. I've made a slew of new friends since my divorce, and maintained contact with most of the old ones. I'm someone you can depend and rely on, to be there when you need to be hugged and held on to, or to call on when you need any kind of help - around the house, stuck on the road, or in need of a sympathetic ear. I have a smile for everyone I meet, because it's one thing you can give away as much as you want to, and never run out of.
I'm also skilled at massage, tho I'm not certified. All-over, feet, hands........something to look forward to, when you come home from a hard day at the office, or wherever. I'm just a very "hands-on" type of guy - I love to hug, and caress; I'm very tactile and sensuous.
I'm also into the LoA, the Power of The Universe, Wishful Thought, and Manifesting my Desires. Does the 4 Agreements sound familiar? Love, Caring, and Forgiveness?
If so, then we're a close match.....if not, then there's always hope, because as long as there's breath, there's hope.

My hair - I started turning grey at 35, and now it's mostly white. My sparkling green eyes, and my ready smile. I'm also in pretty good shape physically, and I'm always active.

Too long a list - I read voraciously, often 2 or 3 novels a week. Mysteries, Suspense, Historical Fiction, Biographies, Self-help, Personal Actualization.......sometimes even the back of the cereal box, if nothing else is at hand!
Movies - well, I liike Action flicks, (since I'm a guy!), but I'm
also partial to "Chick-flicks," as they suit the sensitive side of my nature. But here, too, I like variety, so everything in
between the two above. Indies and documentaries, but most of all, it's the cuddling on the couch, while watching vids, maybe with a nice fire roaring in the fireplace on a a rainy night.
Food - not too many dislikes, just as long as it's not bland. Spice is nice! And I'm a great cook, able to whip up a wide variety of ethnic dishes, or willing to try something new out of cookbooks.
Music - again, a wide variety; Rock, Country, Alt, New-Age, Oldies........just no Rap or Hip-hop, please.

1. Companionship: this could be anything from my friends, to my kids, to that special someone I'm looking for. I miss the sex, but just as important to me is the closenes, the cuddling and just feeling near and dear to her. Or YOU, if that turns out to be the case!
2. Family - I am second oldest of 10, (yes 10!), and I have 7 brothers and 2 sisters, who all live fairly close by. We may not communicate as often as we should, but we know we're always there for each other.
3. My love of learning. It's a grand adventure I'm currently on, going back to a University after all these years, but I'm thoroughly enjoying the challenges. I'm getting exceptional grades, and I will have my degree in about 2 or 2 1/2 years.
4. My computer, and the Internet. It's such a fabulous way to meet new people, get different perspectives on current events, and without it, I wouldnt be able to be here, or at school. Idispensable!
5. Activities, such as my Health Club, and going/being outdoors. I also like to sing Karaoke, and travel. When I go camping, it's always somewhere different. I live in what I believe is the greatest location, in the best state, (CA) for pursuing a wide variety of fun things to do. The Coast, the Redwoods, Tahoe, and so many National Parks and Forests; wine-tasting, or even simple picnics in the park - we've got it all right here, or real close by!
6. Dreams, goals, and most of all, HOPE! The future's so bright, I have to wear shades. I'm re-inventng myself, and doing what I can to improve my life and my surroundings. And I know my soulmate is out there, and we WILL find each other.

My life so far, and where I'm going. I don't dwell on the past, but I do spend time reflecting on it. And I don't waste time worrying about the future, either. I prefer to live in the Now, because, seriously, that's all we have.
So I start my day by meditating in the morning, and visualizing what's on my list, and enjoying doing it as I go about my day. I go through my gratitude list, to be thankful for all that I have in Abundance. I try to plan my day that way, and accept each moment as it comes.

But we all know what happens to plans sometimes, so I'm able to quickly shift gears, and adapt to changing circumstances. I can be spontaneous, or well-organized and prepared for anything and everything. I don't let life get me down - it's ony life, after all, and I've had my share of setbacks. I learned early on, that almost every time, obstacles are better viewed as opportunities.

What's typical? I have a gauge on the dashboard of my truck that says "Normal." That's all I know about normal.
It depends on my mood, what I want to do - spend time with my kids, or go to a movie, out for Karaoke, or stay home to watch TV. I'm not too much into the bar scene, but dining, dancing and romancing are a great way to spend an evening.
I can practice my guitar, in order to better serenade someone.
Sometimes I have homework, and that takes up my whole weekend, other times I'll just go off by myself, if there's no one in my life, to camp or fish, or to explore, because I'm all right being by myself.
But I'd much rather be with someone else, that certain someone special, so we can greet the dawn of a new day side by side, to awake and arise, or lay there and cuddle, make love and fall back to sleep.
I'd love to bring you breakfast in bed, at least on the weekends - omelets, smoothies, whatever your heart desires.
I'm good at taking care of, but I also like to be pampered and spoiled myself. It's the trade-off, the equanimity that matters.
It's got to be 50-50 or it doesn't work. And having to "work" at maintaining a relationship.....it should just flow. I know, I know, it's not always a bowl of cherries, a well-tended rose garden, but if the love is there, and it's strong and vital, it shouldn't take much "work."

How about my feelings, my emotions? I have them, and they run deep. I'm not unwilling to express them, either. I am as passionate as I am compassionate, and I have a sensitive side. (Must be the Pisces in me, or the way I was raised.)
And as for religion, I consider myself a Spiritualist. Or a Chrudist - that's part Christian, part Buddhist, lol.
If you want to know anything more private about me, you'll have to get to know me better. But I have no problem divulging all my dark, dirty secrets.

I sound like someone you'd like to get to know better, and if you feel we have shared interests, backgrounds and philosophies. I'm not into long-distance relationships, but I don't mind IMing, or talking on the phone, if you live far away.
I figure 50 miles max, if you want to go out with me. Let's start with email, and then phone calls........I'll show you mine, if you show me yours.
Looking forward to it!