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Pittsburgh girl living in Texas. I am in an open marriage and am
looking for a boyfriend/partner. I have been married for 12 years,
we are stable and happy but we also date other people.
I am moving this line to the top because apparently men overlook
it....and it is extremely important to me.......
****If you enjoy hunting and / or fishing, we are not a
I am in search of a LOCAL available man who is fun and who can host
(LOCAL means close!) I would like to see him 1-2 times a week,
overnights are okay as well. If you can't host, please don't
contact me. Getting a hotel is an impractical and expensive
"solution". I don't want hookups. I don't want a FWB. I am poly, I
am looking for a secondary relationship.
(Note - I have had no luck finding anyone local....expanding my
search nationwide! Not sure I have any other choice at this time.
My TX options have proved slim.)
If you have a mustache or excessive facial hair, I am not
interested. If you are cheating, I am not interested. There is a
different site for that!
I must be able to see face pics on here to see if I have an
attraction to you. If you won't post pics, please don't contact me
- and I am not going to give you my phone number or email to send
pics, either! For me, attraction starts in the face. If I can't see
yours, I am not going to continue writing.
Also, please be in somewhat decent physical shape. I exercise
daily, so a man that gets winded climbing a flight of stairs is a
turnoff to me. I'm not saying you have to be in superior shape, as
I'm not....i just want someone that is active and healthy.
If I had to describe exactly what I want, it would be:
An attractive, single, clean shaven man, 6'2", works out regularly,
not too skinny. Age 40ish. Active. Employed. Lives within 10 miles
of me. Dark hair. Has pets. Can host. Has evenings and weekends
free. Someone that has time to have a relationship - not just booty
So, who fits that description? Of course these things aren't
mandatory, but that is my ideal situation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in the North Dallas area (the mortgage industry) and I live
in Richardson. I work out daily, usually in the morning before
work. I try to eat clean and take care of myself. I have some
weight to lose and I am actively doing that.
I'm a traveller. I've been in every time zone on the planet. I'm
always looking for new places to explore.
I'm a CrossFitter, getting stronger every day. I am a mediocre
triathlete, with aspirations of getting better. I'm a Pittsburgh
Steelers fan. I'm a crazy cat lady. I respect nature. I have a
terrible singing voice...no karaoke for me!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning trips, collecting pets, lifting heavy weights, being
affectionate, kissing, keeping in touch with friends from long ago.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my complexion. I am usually quiet when first meeting
someone new. Once I get more comfortable I open up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love Jodi Picoult as an author. I don't see many movies but
wouldn't mind seeing more. Every show I start to watch on network
TV gets cancelled after the first season!!!! :-(
I am also vegan, and although the person I am looking for does not
need to be vegan, they do need to respect my ethical decisions.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Exploring the world, exercising, pets, good books, kissing, time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why men post photos on their cars on their Cupid profiles.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exhausted! I am usually up pretty early during the week, so by the
time Friday rolls around I am usually tired. Saturday is my "going
out" night. However, I am still willing to hang out on a Friday,
just not too late!
You should message me if
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You are interested in meeting! You don't have to be monogamous, as
I will not be. I am just looking for a regular playmate or two that
I can build friendships with.
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