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53 South Bend, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–80
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:18am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hi! While I have a compelling narrative (tl;dr), I'll share some handy personal traits. Fair warning: it may seem too good to be true!

• My life's been an adventure

• I am a great complement to any group: dinner party, winning trivia team, etc.

• That said, I can appreciate peace and solitude

• I'm intelligent, but not as smart as you

• A Colorado native, an IU Hoosier by education

• While I don't have children, I am The Cool Uncle and "have a lot of young" in me, according to one of my nephews

• Spiritual rather than religious (my karma ran over my dogma)

• I am a "content provider" marketing professional for a small tech firm. Adobe CS ninja! So, technically, I'm a professional writer, photographer, web maestro, tweeter, graphic artist—you get the idea

• I enjoy Shakespeare and my teams' game-winning touchdowns

• The Chagall Windows in Chicago move me, some tattoos can amaze me (I have none): high+low brow

• A music aficionado (you've already seen the photos, I'm sure) I attend live music events—from concert halls and opera houses to dive bars—and I'm the guy who dances with you

• I look forward to fine dining, movies, theater and art museums

• I was recruited and therefore participated in a civic theater production this year (and I thought grad school was time consuming)

• I am not a "sports" fan, but I follow American football (so, a "sport" fan)

I seek the hallmarks of my own personality: a bright mind, warm humor, earthy sensuality and natural generosity. I am susceptible to animal magnetism.

The stats I share and questions I answer here are ballpark summaries, as are yours. We both know and understand there is so much more beyond the surface of a browser screen, 72dpi photos and our keyboards. Let me entertain you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
remodeling my home, working up new art
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
a tremendous amount of things... but I'd sound like I'm bragging. I suppose I'm the guy shy people would hire to make their parties interesting and entertaining.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
and have specifically mentioned: my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I own hundreds of books and LPs/CDs/cassettes. My iTunes collection has 1230 albums of 8883 songs.

I enjoy indie-esque or foreign films, though a space opera or super hero blockbuster can be fun.

I marathon-watch television series: Deadwood and True Detective most recently

I loop podcasts, Queen, Muse, Beatles, Stones, Led Zep, QOTSA, Leonard Cohen, Jeff Buckley, kt tunstall and Beethoven over my iTunes. Kudos if you know who Jim White is.

Lasagna, angel food cake, Gran Marnier, Oberon and mangos.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The sound of a woman's laughter, my passport, sense of humor, a strong Plan B, my own transportation, a convincing “no”
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why GI Joe doesn't cause the same trouble as Barbie
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
as likely to be at a movie as a live music performance as in front of my TV or computer as beginning a roadtrip as...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
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you'd like to explore the good you've been missing!

While my experience w OKC has been, well, OK, I'm not a fan of the poorly worded, ridiculously limited or "would you rather" questions. I tend not to answer (or privately answer) them, so *of course* message me for direct, private admissions ;)

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