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30 M Macon, GA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 22–33
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A quick note: I see a lot of profiles from girls wishing to find a "Christian man that will respect women." The thing about this is that real Christian men are looking for real Christian women, whose lifestyle is a reflection of their faith. If this isn't evident in your profile, do not be surprised when the only "Christian" men that message you are wolves in sheep's clothing.

TL;DR: I'm a smart, funny, conservative, Christian guy with a thirst for knowledge and a passion for storytelling. :)

Now the whole story...

I'm the kind of guy that can laugh at himself. I'm the kind of guy that could spend a day wandering down a quiet trail listening only to the birdsong in the trees. I'm the kind of guy that creates 3-D art like you see in the movies. I'm the kind of guy that can spend an afternoon rummaging through the artifacts of a little antique shop run by a kind-eyed little old lady on some old Georgia highway. I'm the kind of guy that gets tongue-tied daily. I'm the kind of guy that doesn't get angry. I'm the kind of guy that doodles on every scrap of unimportant paper around him. I'm the kind of guy that can spend an entire evening reading articles on celestial mechanics, Peruvian mythology, or the history of Assyria. I'm the kind of guy that doesn't like goodbyes. I'm the kind of guy that can read articles on celestial mechanics, Peruvian mythology, or the history of Assyria, but cannot tell you a single thing about them, then, on a random day two years later, describe all the particulars of a Lagrangian point. I'm the kind of guy that spends an entire day helping his little cousins put together a puzzle while on vacation at the beach. I'm the kind of guy that doesn't get even. I'm the kind of guy that loves to canoe. I'm the kind of guy that likes to fix a sugar-glazed salmon dinner for his friends while enjoying any random movie they can find on Netflix. I'm the kind of guy that doesn't like to say hello because then people expect you to say goodbye. I'm the kind of guy that, in the most boring of situations, can excite his imagination with the pieces of a story he'd like to tell one day. I'm the kind of guy that realizes none of these things are more important than a relationship with Jesus Christ.

Some things that will immediately grab my attention and interest: A fit and healthy lifestyle, an equally healthy appreciation for all things nerdy/geeky (historical fiction/alternate history/fantasy/scifi/video games), esoteric knowledge (obscure sciences/history), art, and an ability to play the piano/violin. Similarly, a dislike for booze, reality television, rap music, coconut, football, and chick lit will go a lonnng way with me.

Oh, and I've never been married. I know it's fashionable to be on your second marriage by the time you're 26 these days, but that doesn't work for me. I take marriage very seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it for the Lord and having fun along the way. :)

Here's a list of things I really enjoy doing:
Bible Study
Ultimate Frisbee
Swing Dancing
Board Games - Scrabble!
Video Games
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing at myself when I do really stupid trying to shove the clasp ends of a lanyard into my ears, thinking they're a pair of headphones.

I also love to make funny pop-culture references. That's my favorite type of humor and I'm pretty good at it. I'm very good at 3-D modeling and writing when the mood hits.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Blue eyes. Very blue eyes. Also, the fact that I have a firm grasp of the English language, that I do my utmost to conduct myself as a gentleman and do not swear or exercise a crude sense of humor. These would seem to be rare traits in our present society.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why this world is so broken and how God may use me to make it a little less so for someone else.

I also think about the stories I want to tell. God has given me a very healthy imagination and a creative spirit and I regularly exercise both. I thoroughly enjoy looking up random topics on wikipedia that might better prepare my collective knowledge for this purpose.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
More often than not, I'm out (or at home) with friends. Else, I have a quiet evening at home pursuing any one of my aforementioned interests.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I do not pursue anyone with a Plan B in mind, even when just starting to get to know someone. Not only do I feel a great conviction to pursue a woman under such terms, but I also feel that anything else would be establishing an extremely dangerous pattern of behavior for any serious relationship that may result.


I'm a geek/nerd, but at the same time you should know that I am a real person, not a stereotype. I don't speak Klingon and I don't spend all afternoon playing video games. I'd much rather be hiking, canoeing or visiting a museum/art exhibit than anything else and my conviction in the Holy Spirit always comes first.

If you *are* looking for a stereotype, whether it's a grunting UGA fan or a Trekkie reciting Othello in the "original" Klingon, you should look elsewhere. (Though, I have been known to quote Shakespeare on the rare occasion...)

Also, I actually read a girl's profile before messaging her. (I'm a weird one, yeah.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like to be friends and we share a common interest.

I'm not interested in being someone's flirt-buddy, side interest, though. So, if that's all you're looking for, please move along to someone else.

If you're looking for more than friendship, then please see below:

*You're a Christian and take the conviction of the Holy Spirit very seriously.

*You don't believe in prosperity theology/are not a follower of Joel Osteen. The Christian walk is one filled with seasons of both harvest and hardship. That's scripture.

*You treat your body as a temple.
Meaning no smoking, heavy drinking, drugs, premarital sex, and you are not excessively underweight/overweight. If you don't respect your own body, how could I ever expect you to respect me?

Anyone with interest in me should expect the same from me. I am both fit and healthy in all respects.

*You have no children. I need to be a husband before I can become a father.

*You lean at least a little to the right, politically.

*You can tolerate the occasional geeky joke. (That's no moon, The cake is a lie, The answer is 42, etc.)

*You managed to read through my list of movies and shows without gagging excessively (a little gagging is ok)

*You don't require a guy that's 6' 0" or taller. I can understand wanting a guy that's taller than you, but to arbitrarily choose 6 feet tall is pretty shallow. (hooray for irony!)

*You live within a four-hour drive from me.
- Not written in stone, but it would take a truly exceptional girl... Which could be you if you agree with my convictions. ~95% of the "Christian" girls I find on here are looking for "after 6 or more dates," which is something I cannot condone.

*Bonus points if you're capable of correcting my English. (Good luck.)