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29 • Carmel, IN • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–43
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 20
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Judaism, but not too serious about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Entertainment / Media
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Yiddish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)
So, here's a bit about yours truly. I am a published author of two books and screenwriter of a short film (currently being adapted into a feature film). Both the novels and the film are based on the horror genre, which I am a HUGE fan of! I also occasionally host a talk-show on an internet-based radio station, and run a geeky blog with a few friends.
I've always been one to march to my own beat. I've been a DJ, a talk-radio host, a podcaster, a press-kit writer, a film critic, and the general manager of an net-radio station. I'm probably forgetting a few things, but I guess the point I'm trying to make is that I enjoy seeing what life has to offer. Currently I'm a self-employed web site designer, graphic designer and video editor.
I'm definitely a film geek. So if you enjoy movies, that's a major plus. I love pretty much all genres, but I am a bit partial to horror. Maybe it was from growing up with Ghostbuster action figures or reading too many Goosebumps books in grade school. I'm also a big comic book geek (both Marvel and DC), and also enjoy watching anime and playing the occasional video game. I recently caved in to peer pressure and started playing World of Warcraft. I held out forever because I knew I'd become addicted to it. Turns out I was right. So yep, I am pure geek, and proud of it!
In short, I suppose I'm looking for the geek girl of my dreams. I want someone to laugh with and share life with. Someone that whether it has been a good day or bad, we can't wait share it. Communication is a must in any relationship, even if it's during raids in WoW. I want a friend and romantic partner. Someone with an artistic side would be amazing, but not necessary. Maybe it is the writer in me, but I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. I want someone that I can treat like a queen. Someone that I can surprise with flowers and hold close on cold rainy nights.
For complete disclosure I should mention that I have used a wheelchair my entire life. More specifically, a powerchair. I'm not paralyzed by any means, but I do have some spinal damage that causes weakness. For some this is a deal-breaker, but honestly if you've read this far then there must be something that has drawn your interest. So feel free to message me if you think we might click or you are looking for someone to talk geeky with, or join on a raid.. We might just hit it off.
I'm also not too shabby at writing. It's a passion of mine.
Comics: Watchmen, Locke & Key, Walking Dead, Batman, Superman, Spider-Man, Hulk, Iron-Man, Captain America, X-Men, 100 Bullets, American Vampire, 30 Days of Night, Revival, I Zombie, Invincible, Walking Dead, Hack/Slash, Bone, The Goon, Guardians of the Galaxy.
Manga: Death Note, Dragon Ball, Attack on Titan.
Anime: Akira, Ghost in the Shell (1 & 2), Samurai Champloo, Steamboy, Howl's Moving Castle, Black Lagoon, FLCL, Cowboy Bebop, Another, Psycho-Pass
Movies: Everything is Illuminated, Usual Suspects, Stardust, Garden State, The Crow, Sin City, Every Marvel Studios film (Avengers, Iron-Man, Captain America and such), The Godfather, Airplane, Ghostbusters, Evil Dead 2, Trick r Treat, every Freddy & Jason film (I'm an 80s horror film junkie), Die Hard, Kick-Ass, First Blood: Rambo, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Insidious, Across The Universe, Beetlejuice, The Thing, Halloween, They Live, Back to the Future Trilogy, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Star Wars, Michael Keaton's Batman films and the Bale trilogy, Man of Steel, The The Amityville Horror, Phantasm, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, Nebraska, The Fast & Furious films.
TV: Supernatural, Buffy, Angel, Firefly, Star Trek (Classic, Next Gen & Enterprise) Friday Night Lights, True Blood, Dexter (first four seasons), The Sopranos, Family Guy, 30 Rock, Justified, Lost, Boston Legal, Psych, BSG, House, Boardwalk Empire, The Walking Dead, Pushing Daisies, Dead Like Me, Weeds, Game of Thrones, Sons of Anarchy, Being Human, American Horror Story, Breaking Bad, Hannibal, Haven, Ray Donovan, Bates Motel, Black List, Arrow.
Music: R.E.M., Green Day, Lady Gaga (don't judge), U2, Meatloaf, Ozzy Osbourne, John Mayer, The Verve, Oasis, Michael Jackson, The Beatles, Weezer, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Coldplay, Muse, Matchbox Twenty, Metric.
Video Games: Assassins Creed series, Gears of War series, Uncharted series, every Resident Evil game, God of War series, Mafia 2, Batman: Arkham series, Red Dead Redemption, GTA 5
I also have finally caved in to the geek calling and signed up with World of Warcraft. Feel free to add me. I'm always up for meeting new friends online. BattleNet - mothman#1378.
Food: As far as meat, I mostly stick to fish and chicken. I'm not a fan of beef or ham. It's not a religious thing. It's just how I roll.
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I think a lot about the future too. I'm in no rush to get married, but I know that I want to share my future with someone special.
I hate it when people assume that just because I use a wheelchair that I must be a bit slow in the head. I think it's like when people speak loudly to blind people.
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