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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 2
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'd like to think of myself as an outgoing, confident, giving, romantic, playful and passionate man. I feel fortunate to have a great life and a vision for the future. My goal is to live in the present moment, keep perspective, live by my principles and make the most of every day but I also believe that sharing the adventure with the right partner is always better!

For me, that partner is just as comfortable in high heels and a formal gown as flip-flops and a hooded sweatshirt -- both can be equally attractive. She is spontaneous, loves to travel, loves to laugh, go out and find fun, but she’s also someone who can relax, cuddle, drink wine and chill out. It’s all about balance. I'd like to connect with a smart woman who is outgoing and kind to others. Positive energy, a little sarcasm and an active lifestyle are a must. I believe that laughter and time are the greatest gifts one can give -- and I look forward to giving her huge quantities of both.

According to my friends, I have a pretty good sense of humor, a sarcastic side, a wicked work ethic, a strong sense of service, an independent ideology and a positive outlook on life. Add to that a guy who is genuine, down-to-earth and reliable and you have a stand-up guy who grew up in Maine surrounded by a great family. I've been very blessed to have two beautiful and bright sisters teach me how to treat women. I treat other women they way I would want men to treat them. My sisters are wonderful inside and out, and I love them both -- one's a doctor, the other a teacher. My brother isn’t too bad either (sarcasm). Family is a top priority. I hope it is for you too.

I drive a pickup truck, I fly airplanes, I sail sailboats. I love 80's music, I watch the History channel and I listen to NPR. I've lived my entire life near the ocean, and it's part of who I am. Although I'm a minimalist, I don't think I could live without my running sneakers, a good playlist, my Uggs slippers, my electric dust buster, a good book, my pull-up bar and the great outdoors with access to the ocean. Sometimes the simple pleasures in life make all the difference. I have smile wrinkles in the corner of my eyes, good grammar, a couple good jokes, a bunch of scars, high energy, strong values, and a scary resting heart rate.

On the serious side, I am passionate about learning, advocating for organ donation and helping to reduce veteran homelessness. For years, I've worked in these areas and it's a very important part of my life's work. I look forward to learning your passions, getting behind your dreams and making them happen. With the right partner, we both grow into better people.

I better stop there, so I don't give away all my secrets. Thanks for reading. If you want to find a sincere, sometimes silly, always honest, stable man who is genuine, kind, not looking to play games and deeply cares about the world around him -- please send a note.

Oh yes, one more thing -- I cut all square sandwiches on a diagonal because there is no doubt in my mind they taste better that way!

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to make a difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the best in others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Green eyes. Second thing is that I am sincere.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to list.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Running shoes, good book, cold beer, the ocean, open road, strong loyal relationships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to remove barriers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There really isn't a typical Friday night for me but someday it could be the non-negotiable time block for date night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll have to think about that one.
You should message me if
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You want to enjoy life, have fun, and explore the world with a partner like me.