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41 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 1
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Vermonter that moved to San Francisco to create a new life. I am willing to take big risks to get what I what. Life is short, and I'd rather try and fail then not try. Love good conversation, food and wine and am always generating ideas, improving myself and doing side projects.

I am passionate, intelligent, generous. People think I'm naive, but I'm not at all.

Here's a 4-minute "virtual date" video I made:
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a video game designer and started a game company here in San Francisco. I absolutely love the work and it's my calling in life. I work a lot but after many years have finally learned to balance my professional and personal lives.

I'm getting ready to do a lot more travel this year. Just spent a month in France (Paris, Loire Valley, Provence) and going to Cozumel for scuba diving this spring. Also just moved into a new place and have been spending a lot of time painting and getting settled. Dinner parties, here I come.
I’m really good at
Getting fired up over things. Cooking. Listening. Helping friends whenever they ask. Building stuff. Never giving up. Committing. Hugging. Kissing. Massage.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm upbeat, excitable and gregarious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All healthy food. Moulin Rouge, The Power of Less, The Four Hour Workweek, Vagabonding, My Life in France (the opening chapter made me cry).
The six things I could never do without
Shadowing to Cowboy Cassanova at Sundance Saloon, sharing summer wine in the garden, gaming adventures with friends, early mornings at diners, body contact, designing games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Self-improvement, life goals, budgeting and dreaming of the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe a glass of wine @ Swirl or home cooking. Or if I'm fortunate, at a dinner party with friends, or hosting one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I seem extroverted but I recharge alone.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are intelligent, passionate, loving, kind and a great listener, hairy and want to build an incredible life together. Or, if you're anything like Primo in Big Night. Write me now...seriously!

Life-loving, passionate, outdoorsy, hairy, sensual guys really push my buttons.