DJFlay
43 San Francisco, CA
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My self-summary
Vermonter that moved to San Francisco to create a new life. I am willing to take big risks to get what I what. Life is short, and I'd rather try and fail then not try. Love good conversation, food and wine and am always generating ideas, improving myself and doing side projects.

I am passionate, intelligent, generous. People think I'm naive, but I'm not at all.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a video game designer and started a game company here in San Francisco. I absolutely love the work and it's my calling in life. I work a lot but after many years have finally learned to (mostly) balance my professional and personal lives.

Adventurous traveler. I like to book my plane ticket somewhere and then just show up for a month, with just a small backpack. I notice other people get visibly excited or horrified when I tell them this. Just got back from a month in northern Italy, visiting many of "the spots" and also biking from Siena to Genoa (I burned off all that pasta, and more). Big scuba diver here too.

Now pretty settled into my new place in Mission/Dolores. Love to cook and host dinner parties for small numbers of close friends.
I’m really good at
Getting fired up over things. Cooking. Listening. Helping friends whenever they ask. Building stuff. Never giving up. Committing. Hugging. Kissing. Massage.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm upbeat, excitable and gregarious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All healthy food. Moulin Rouge, The Power of Less, The Four Hour Workweek, Vagabonding, My Life in France (the opening chapter still makes me tear up).
The six things I could never do without
Shadowing to Cowboy Cassanova at Sundance Saloon, sharing summer wine in the garden, gaming adventures with friends, early mornings at diners, body contact, designing games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Self-improvement, life goals, budgeting and dreaming of the future. Building my own house and what that be like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe a glass of wine @ Swirl or home cooking. Or if I'm fortunate, at a dinner party with friends, or hosting one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've always felt like I was a "family man" but somehow have never managed to get married or have kids. How did this (not) happen?
You should message me if
You are intelligent, passionate, loving, kind and a great listener, hairy and want to build an incredible life together. Or, if you're anything like Primo in Big Night. Write me now...seriously!

Life-loving, passionate, outdoorsy, hairy, sensual guys really push my buttons.
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