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DJFlay

41 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:33pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Vermonter that moved to San Francisco to create a new life. I am willing to take big risks to get what I what. Life is short, and I'd rather try and fail then not try. Love good conversation, food and wine and am always generating ideas, improving myself and doing side projects.

I am passionate, intelligent, generous. People think I'm naive, but I'm not at all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a video game designer and started a game company here in San Francisco. I absolutely love the work and it's my calling in life. I work a lot but after many years have finally learned to (mostly) balance my professional and personal lives.

Adventurous traveler. I like to book my plane ticket somewhere and then just show up for a month, with just a small backpack. I notice other people get visibly excited or horrified when I tell them this. Just got back from a month in northern Italy, visiting many of "the spots" and also biking from Siena to Genoa (I burned off all that pasta, and more). Big scuba diver here too.

Now pretty settled into my new place in Mission/Dolores. Love to cook and host dinner parties for small numbers of close friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting fired up over things. Cooking. Listening. Helping friends whenever they ask. Building stuff. Never giving up. Committing. Hugging. Kissing. Massage.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm upbeat, excitable and gregarious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All healthy food. Moulin Rouge, The Power of Less, The Four Hour Workweek, Vagabonding, My Life in France (the opening chapter still makes me tear up).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Shadowing to Cowboy Cassanova at Sundance Saloon, sharing summer wine in the garden, gaming adventures with friends, early mornings at diners, body contact, designing games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Self-improvement, life goals, budgeting and dreaming of the future. Building my own house and what that be like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe a glass of wine @ Swirl or home cooking. Or if I'm fortunate, at a dinner party with friends, or hosting one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've always felt like I was a "family man" but somehow have never managed to get married or have kids. How did this (not) happen?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are intelligent, passionate, loving, kind and a great listener, hairy and want to build an incredible life together. Or, if you're anything like Primo in Big Night. Write me now...seriously!

Life-loving, passionate, outdoorsy, hairy, sensual guys really push my buttons.