42 San Francisco, CA
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My self-summary
I'm at a great place in my life at this point. a bit of financial stability...the energy to still pull off the occasional all night dance party...the wisdom that comes with being of a certain age, the creativity to be inspired by life...the luck to have fantastic friends and family. What more could you ask for eh? Well a hip happenin lady to share it all with would be nice :)

I would love to find that elusive spark that would signify I've found someone with whom i could share lazy afternoon picnics in the park, road trips round the bay, travel destinations, dinners with movies, dancing in the dark, house-parties with friends, dive bars, and more.
What I’m doing with my life
I've spent the last 10 years working at a small design shop in downtown SF. The variety and challenge of the work and the great people there have anchored me a a good way. It's felt great to help the partners grow a successful business. Before that I worked in the restaurant industry.

At this point I'm looking to get more active mentally and physically...more reading, more exploring, more traveling.
I’m really good at
I really enjoy spreading the love, hosting house parties, dj'ing, shooting pool, tennis, eats and drinks, hanging out, conversing, listening, road tripping and dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
The big smile on my face : )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books.... I haven't read as much as I should but lately I'm picking it back up. Just finished Murakami IQ84 and Neil Stephenson's Anathem. I'm a sucker for good william gibson (pattern recognition, neuromancer), jeff noon (vurt). anything by tom robbins.

movies... again good sci-fi, dark city, amelie, city of lost children, crouching tiger hidden dragon, anything pixar, eternal sunshine, zoolander, pulp fiction, anything by the cohen bros, existenz, spirited away

I just ditched my tv. (trying to be more productive) but i do enjoy watching animation ala family guy, bob's burgers, and I'm a sucker for anything nature/science related. Also TED talks.

music... lately I've been downloading music to dj with so it has mostly been electronic, techno and house but I have eclectic tastes that run from brazillian jazz, to good hip hop, to indie, lounge, dub, etc. Some favs include: dj carl craig (my favorite), Royksopp, tribe called quest, kruder & dorfmeister, groove armada, the troublemakers, primal scream, bomb the bass, nightmares on wax, underworld, booka shade, jupiter, hot chip, fatboy slim, junior boys, and much more.

foods...I love fresh, well made comfort food! italian, thai, latin flavors. I'm definitely a meat eater but also trying to get healthier about my diet. I enjoy cooking when I have the time.
The six things I could never do without
1. friends n family (counts as 1 in my book :) 2. technology 3. curiosity 4. nature 5. health 6. intelligence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
friends, family, the present, the future, the past, whether human kind will wake up and smell the roses or ultimately destroy itself
On a typical Friday night I am
usually meeting up with friends after work at the local fav dive, enjoying a few drinks and or dinner or taking in a show or on the dance floor!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
you would like to have a great time! would like to be'd like to grab a bite or a drink or get out on the'dl like to explore the best that the city, bay area and beyond has to offer with an intelligent, fun-loving, easy-going guy! :)

i would especially love to meet someone who liked to shake it on the dancefloor