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41 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:03pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i'm at a great place in my life at this point. a bit of financial stability...the energy to still pull off the occasional all night dance party...the wisdom that comes with being of a certain age, the creativity to be inspired by life...the luck to have fantastic friends and family. what more could you ask for eh? well...a hip happenin lady to share it all with would be nice :)

i would love to find that elusive spark that would signify i've found someone with whom i could share lazy afternoon picnics in the park, road trips round the bay, travel destinations, dinners with movies, dancing in the dark, house-parties with friends, dive bars, and more.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've spent the last 8 years working at a small design shop in downtown SF. The variety and challenge of the work and the great people there have anchored me a a good way : )

Previous to my design career I spent almost 15 years working in the restaurant industry. Still have a soft spot for the restaurant pace and environment.

When the work is done i absolutely enjoy spending time with great friends, enjoying time in the park or out in the city. I absolutely believe in a good balance between work and play : )

Lately I've been taking on a bit more change in order to grow. I felt I was getting a little stagnant so I'm looking to get more active mentally and physically...more reading, more exploring, more traveling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm more the person to be pretty good at a lot of things rather than exceptional at a few. So i do believe i'm pretty good at shooting pool well... might actually be exceptional at pool ;) I've been playing since I was young. I'm also pretty good at tennis, drawing and design, hosting house parties, dj'ing, conversing, listening, and dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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the big smile on my face : )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books.... I haven't read as much as I should but lately I'm picking it back up. Just started reading Murakami IQ84. I'm a sucker for good william gibson (pattern recognition, neuromancer), neil stephenson (snowcrash), jeff noon (vurt). anything by tom robbins.

movies... again good sci-fi, dark city, amelie, city of lost children, crouching tiger hidden dragon, anything pixar, eternal sunshine, zoolander, pulp fiction, anything by the cohen bros, existenz, spirited away

i don't watch a ton of tv but i do enjoy the animated variety ala family guy, bob's burgers, and i'm a sucker for PBS nature and science shows...and some cooking shows....master chef! ;) recently i've been working my way through mad men and would love to check out all those other great series people are talking bout round the water cooler.

music... lately i've been downloading music to dj with so it has mostly been tech house, house, techno, and electronic but i have eclectic tastes that run from brazillian jazz, to good hip hop, to indie, lounge, dub, etc. some favs include: dj carl craig (my favorite), whitest boy alive, telepopmusik, Royksopp, tribe called quest, kruder & dorfmeister, groove armada, the troublemakers, primal scream, bomb the bass, nightmares on wax, underworld, booka shade, jupiter, hot chip, fatboy slim, junior boys, and much more.

foods...i love fresh, well made comfort food! italian, thai, latin flavors. i'm definitely a meat eater but also trying to get healthier about my diet. i enjoy cooking when i have the time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. friends n family (counts as 1 in my book :) 2. technology (sounds bad i know...but a lot of my favorite things are technology, dj music, also...learning about all the great things in the world) 3. curiosity 4. nature 5. health 6. intelligence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
friends, family, the present, the future, the past, whether human kind will wake up and smell the roses or ultimately destroy itself
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually meeting up with friends after work at the local fav dive, enjoying a few drinks and or dinner or taking in a show or on the dance floor!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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wouldn't be private anymore now would it?
You should message me if
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you would like to have a great time! would like to be'd like to grab a bite or a drink or get out on the'dl like to explore the best that the city, bay area and beyond has to offer with an intelligent, fun-loving, easy-going guy! :)

i would especially love to meet someone who liked to shake it on the dancefloor to some good techno/house music!