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26 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:52pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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**Transplant from New England moving to NYC in mid-October...Looking to connect with folks ahead of time to meet up when I get there**

I'm in love with theatre! Theatre as an art form, and theatre as a vehicle for education and social change. The performing arts have an immense capacity to dissolve systems of oppression and empower individuals and communities. And it can be a really powerful education tool.

I want to be Ms. Frizzle when I grow up.

SHAKESPEARE rocks my world. Really. Sometimes I feel like I would be happy doing nothing but Shakespeare for the rest of my life.

I like to help build community and have people around me. Sometimes I feel like I define myself through my interactions with others.

I am very social justice minded, but I also think self care is important, and being silly and relaxed is just as important to me as being intellectual and critical.

I'm really into Young Adult lit, especially The Hunger Games and Harry Potter. Divergent is okay.

I also play video games! It fades in and out of my life.

I am expressive, passionate, and sensitive. I'm emotional, but I can also be flighty. I can be hopelessly romantic. I'm a Gemini.

I am also very into queer activism/theory/education, etc. It's the work I do and the community with which I surround myself. I think that queer sex and queer love IS an act of revolution, and I hope you do too!

Sex is also good.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking on the next chapter of my life with a big move to the city to do some theater, teaching, or who knows what...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing. Loving. Thinking. Looking at things. Analyzing. Being happy.

Making conversation. Meeting people. Asking the right questions. Finding connections between seemingly unrelated things. Human Ecology?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Hunger Games. The Fault in our Stars. Harry Potter. Jeanette Winterson. Shakespeare. Caryl Churchill. Brecht.

Trashy stuff, nice things, pretty music, beats, rhythm...Taylor Swift

Frank Ocean, Bon Iver, The Weepies, Drake, Lil Wayne, Kate Nash, The Decemberists, Beyonce, Paolo Nutini, Rihanna, Nicki Minaj, Mumford and Sons, Fleet Foxes, Wiz Khalifa, Ke$ha, Kayne, Manu Chao, New Boyz, Sia, Pink, Damien Rice, Amos Lee, Ben Lee, B.O.B., Chris Brown, John Mayer, Chris Garneau, Adele, Robyn, Regina Spektor, Britney, Xtina

Ma vie en rose, Gun Hill Road, The Crucible, The Lion King, The Umbrellas of Cherbourg, Cruel Intentions, The Truman Show, Mamma Mia!, The Village, Latter Days, Finding Neverland, Forrest Gump, Crash, Titanic, WALL•E, Milk, Finding Nemo.

Food: ANYTHING made by Nigella Lawson
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Best Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Future plans.

How I can stay true to my passion for the arts and theatre while also working to educate and advocate for social change.

The complex interactions between race, ethnicity, gender, queerness, ability...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
These days I'm usually reading Harry Potter or playing video games. Sometimes dancing/partying. Or spending time with friends.
You should message me if
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You want to have some great conversations, fun times, and/or a flirty romance.

Or if you want to go on a mountain hiking date.

Also, please stop with the femmephobia and racism in the online dating world.