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DJasonH

49 M Dronfield, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:10am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm divorced (my decision) after 21 years of faithful marriage, so at present I'm not sure what lay ahead for me. I'm an honest, happy-go-lucky nice guy just moving forward with my life.
I'm warm, romantic and sensual who has loads of love and affection to give the right woman. I'm a big romantic at heart and believes that a woman should be treat like a woman and not like a piece of meat, if you pardon the expression.
I love to give and would have the perfect match if the lady I hook up with feels the same 'cause we'll both be loving to give and be on the receiving end of that giving as well ..... so nice!
I suppose the perfect match I'm looking for is a woman who shares my own relationship values of kindness, loyalty, honesty, trustworthiness, faithfulness, caring, warmth, friendliness, sensuality and not afraid to love and be loved in return.
I've been told I have a wicked, if not cheeky, sense of humour and love having a laugh and joke, including being a practical joker (but not at the expense of others) and enjoy making people smile.
I'd like to think that people see me in the same light as they did with my late Dad. He was my guide and inspirer and a well liked person whom always went through his life with Kindness, Integrity, Dignity, Respect and Trust – all qualities that are important to me and what I base and run my own life and my business around.
What I’m doing with my life
Just getting on with it and looking for that time soon where I can share that loving feeling with a woman whose interests and intimate times are shared equally with me.
My two boys, 16 & 22 years, first and foremost whom I love to bits play a very important part in my life (Even though they live with their Mum) and I try to spend as much time as I can with them which is not always easy as they are very independent and have their own lives to lead.
I enjoy nights out on occasions, particularly when visiting my local pub that has open mike nights for live music or equally on the sofa with my lover enjoying each others company. I love listening to a variety of music and playing my Spanish Acoustic Guitar. I enjoy Martial Arts although I don't practice it these days, love People Watching, cinema and Foreign Holidays.
I’m really good at
Listening to and supporting people, particularly those close to me.
I've recently been told (March 2014) that I'm exceptionally good at making people feel so much a ease with my calming demeanour and 'feel good' approach to everything and everyone.
I'm very good at teaching people how to do things and love the results that come from it.
I'm also very good at making a woman feel "All Woman". For a well built guy, I have much tenderness and a gentle, loving touch.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smiling eyes, soft voice and my reserved but strong presence
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music
Anything goes really .... totally across the board. Whatever takes my fancy at the time although I have to say the 80's and Soul especially.
Movies & TV
Most type of action movies with Jason Statham, Jackie Chan, Sly Stallone, Arnie, Bruce Willis .... you get the picture. I also like meaningful films that give you a 'Feel Good' feeling after you've watched them such as Love Actually and The Holiday. I also love the old 'Carry On' films - their cheeky humour is a brilliant!
The six things I could never do without
1. My two boys
2. My great family and friends
3. Love and Understanding - To love and be loved in return
4. My values
5. Nice home
6. Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I want my life to take me and ideally with a nice lady by my side.
And .... what I can do to fulfil one of my favourite quotes from a guy called George Carlin that I reflect on regularly ........

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ...
HOLY SH*T .... WHAT A RIDE

:-)
I also think about what my ideal relationship partner would be like:
As the meerkat says it’s Simples!
Looking for an intelligent lady who can hold an interesting conversation and who has banter. I quite like a cheeky lady, someone with character, devilment and totally faithful, loyal and trusting.
A lady who can converse; we laugh together and have a fab time. When we aren’t together then we have that flutter feeling of missing someone. To share some time together and see where it goes. Hopefully happy ever after! (Old romantic aren’t I? :)

My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:
Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit in another room working if you need to while I read or watch TV and I'm entirely content or visa versa.
I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Intimate relationship and warm and comforting cuddling are ever present.

Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationship.

What I've Learned from Past Relationships ....
Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.

"When you find "the one".......earn their respect, win their love, and cherish their trust."
On a typical Friday night I am
Ideally doing stuff with my lover (When I find her) or could be seeing my boys, relaxing in my home with a nice glass of wine or out with friends enjoying a few drinks and/or a meal.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That would be telling but I've no complaints so far! :-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're looking to build a long term relationship with a caring, loving man and you have a GSOH, kind, honest, trustworthy, faithful and SINGLE!!
If you like what you see so far please feel free to send me a message and lets see where we go from there xx