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42 • Middletown, CT • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 3″ (1.91m)
- Body type
- Catholicism, but not too serious about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from two-year college
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
For work I'm in charge of about 60 employees, which is rewarding, challenging and has its moments of excitement. However, I excel at leaving the job at work, and being "me" when I'm out, being that "big kid" I talked about before! On top of that. I've also been a guitar player for the last 19 years and am in a party/cover band that plays all over CT. Music is by far my release, my relief valve, and my best form of expression, and it's a lot of fun!!
I've been labeled "a good- looking guy" enough times in the past to at least give myself the impression that I won't scare anybody in a dimly lit room! I exercise regularly, but more for the fact that I enjoy it and its health benefits, rather than the benefits of improved physical attraction. But, then again what's wrong with adding a little physical attractibility!!! (ha-ha)
My match would have to have the same values regarding honesty and trust that I have. I believe it is extremely important to have those things in your life, without them, in a relationship, what do you really have? I always believed that the truth was always easier to tell because you don't have to live with the guilt of a lie, I wouldn't make a good liar anyway, and once you get caught in your lie, you end up magnifying the situation you were trying to cover up. The truth just sounds so much easier! And there really is no other feeling in the world like knowing you can put absolute trust in the person you're with. I never realized how rare a quality that is to find.
I've also found that there are few things in this world more rewarding than finding yourself with someone that shares your sense of humor. It is so important to be able to laugh and share things with that someone, to find someone that thinks the same way you do, believes in all the same things you do is just mind blowing!
In short, I'm looking for someone I can laugh with, to make happy, to have trust with, to talk to, to gaze at, and just enjoy each moment from then on!
Is it you??
I am creative, intelligent, and versatile
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