I am retired School Psychologist who became a widower after 30 years of marriage. I have learned valuable lessons and evolved as a man and a person. I have learned well the value of effective communication. I value honesty, intelligence, loyalty, empathy, kindness and the ability to discuss virtually any topic.
What I’m doing with my life
I am taking one day at a time, looking for special people with whom to spend the rest of my life. I am looking to learn as much as I can from this experience and hope to be a better person.
I’m really good at
Introspection, seeing the many sides of any topic, using my hands
to fix things, communication, making people laugh, empathizing with
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Italian, Chinese, Thai and American foods are great. I enjoy so
many different types of music from heavy metal to classical. I
dislike rap and hip hop. The Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Family Guy, How
its Made, Star Gate, Star Trek and Masterpiece theater are TV shows
for me. Caddy Shack, Blues Bro., The Good, The Bad and the Ugly,
Star Gate(the movie), Star Wars and Close Encounters of a 3rd Kind
to name a few. The Hobbit, Angels and Demons and Mary Higgins Clark
The six things I could never do without
A few true friends.
The love of my life.
A comfortable home.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The meaning of life. Why people behave as they do. What I truly need to be satisfied with a partner. Why, in this enlightened world, is morality still gender specific. Why so many people of a particular race openly admit that they strongly prefer someone of their own skin color / race.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hoping to be with the love of my life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't figure out the key(s) to success for online dating. I had
to research what "wherefore" meant, where seemed like too
convenient an answer.
You should message me if
You like what you have read so far. You are willing to experiment
with relationship types. I have a significant other who is always
my partner on this voyage to discovery.