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63 Queens Village, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:25pm
Bisexual, Sapiosexual
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am retired School Psychologist who became a widower after 30 years of marriage. The grief from losing a spouse is unimaginable. In just over 3 years since her death, I have also learned valuable lessons and evolved as a man and a person. I have learned well the value of effective communication. I value honesty, intelligence, loyalty, empathy, kindness and the ability to discuss virtually any topic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am taking one day at a time, looking special people with whom to spend the rest of my life. I'm looking to learn as much as I can from this experience and hope to be a better person. I'm looking to start out fresh with the oceanfront home in Long Beach.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Introspection, seeing the many sides of any topic, using my hands to fix things, communication, making people laugh, empathizing with others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People actually notice me? They must be keeping it top-secret!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Italian, Chinese, Thai and American foods are great. I enjoy so many different types of music from heavy metal to classical. I dislike rap and hip hop. The Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Family Guy, How its Made, Star Gate, Star Trek and Masterpiece theater are TV shows for me. Caddy Shack, Blues Bro., The Good, The Bad and the Ugly, Star Gate(the movie), Star Wars and Close Encounters of a 3rd Kind to name a few. The Hobbit, Angels and Demons and Mary Higgins Clark
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A few true friends.
The love of my life.
A comfortable home.
Financial security.
My intellect.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of life. Why people behave as they do. What I truly need to be satisfied with the partner I select. Why, in this enlightened world, is morality still gender specific. Why so many people of a particular race openly admit that they strongly prefer someone of their own skin color / race.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hoping to be with the love of my life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't figure out the key(s) to success for online dating. I had to research what "wherefore" meant, where seemed like too convenient an answer.
You should message me if
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You like what you have read so far. You are willing to experiment with relationship types. I have a significant other who is always my partner on this voyage to discovery.