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ArdentWanderer

35 Philadelphia, PA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:43am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Law
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Tasteful yet unrefined. A lover and a fighter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Legal assistant at a Center City law firm and freelance writer/researcher. Neither pays a lot, but they're both satisfying.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
lending an ear when you need to vent. Photography. Billiards. Back rubs. Maybe a Chris Walken impression. And I've put this off until the end: Procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I listen well. Boisterous laugh. Intermittent smartassery. Beard. Reserved at times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Non-fiction (particularly biographies and history), noir fiction.

Movies:
Far too many to list, but here goes:

Rushmore, Moonrise Kingdom, Gangs of New York (long live the Dead Rabbits!), Buena Vista Social Club, The Big Chill, The Insider, Boogie Nights, There Will Be Blood, Michael Clayton, and The Unbearable Lightness of Being.

Television:
House of Cards, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Walking Dead, and rewatching old X-Files seasons is sheer bliss.

Music:
Lots. Top choices: Clinic, Holy Fuck, Arcade Fire, Nine Inch Nails, Max Richter, The Fall, The Coup, The War on Drugs.

And Portishead for making out.

Food:
Anything spicy. Craft beer. Pizza.

I burn pancakes. Halp.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Philadelphia (and living in Center City). Every day presents a new photo.

My special needs dog and neurotic cat.

Books, films, photography, craft beer, cuddles/foreplay, and pizza.

And yeah, that's 10 items. Sue me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the perfect photo. Anarchism. Corrupt cops.

Why I'm on a dating site.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
checking out a film, hitting a bar or show with friends. At home writing an article, or reading on the patio in Summer's glorious dusk.

Around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've experimented with respectful non-monogamous relationships.

I wish I had more photography buddies to walk around the city with on weekends.

I loathe semi-colons, and I don't know why.

It's a shame OKC jettisoned the "pen pals" option.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
this excellent essay, "Dating Tips for the Feminist Man", resonates and appeals to you: http://www.mediacoop.ca/blog/norasamaran/19018

Or if you just feel like saying "Hey".